BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Now a freshmen at the university level, I've never had a girlfriend yet, and most of my prospects have gone to other schools. I find it hard to start up a new relationship because I at least knew and could carry on a conversation with a majority of those females back in high school. I'm rather reserved around all strangers and usually need a few days of just doing something together without even interacting to start the courtship process. One of my problems I know is that I am far too nice and respectful of women. As Stewie observed, "Women like it when you treat them like crap" and the sentiment is confirmed by my observations day to day. Although, it's not much of a problem for me, because I'm a poor college student, and I'm apparently so damn romantic and not really looking for meaningless genital touching

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

DesertFox- wrote:

I am far too nice and respectful of women. As Stewie observed, "Women like it when you treat them like crap" and the sentiment is confirmed by my observations day to day.

yep, also one of my problems exactly. Treat people the way you wanna be treated they said... well I treat people damn well and the fuck do I get in return?

That's like me as well, though not with girls. My friends at school for five years became total douchebags and decided to basically ditch me. As a result I've developed a sort of sixth sense of identifying someone's personality before actually talking to them.

Last edited by M.O.A.B (2008-10-13 15:17:32)

DesertFox- wrote:

Now a freshmen at the university level, I've never had a girlfriend yet, and most of my prospects have gone to other schools. I find it hard to start up a new relationship because I at least knew and could carry on a conversation with a majority of those females back in high school. I'm rather reserved around all strangers and usually need a few days of just doing something together without even interacting to start the courtship process. One of my problems I know is that I am far too nice and respectful of women. As Stewie observed, "Women like it when you treat them like crap" and the sentiment is confirmed by my observations day to day. Although, it's not much of a problem for me, because I'm a poor college student, and I'm apparently so damn romantic and not really looking for meaningless genital touching

holy shit, you are me

exactly the same for me (well last year of sixth form/whateverthatisinUSA but meh)

Hurrican2k9 wrote:

yep, also one of my problems exactly. Treat people the way you wanna be treated they said... well I treat people damn well and the fuck do I get in return?

this too

Stimey wrote:

Women want Alpha Males.

Yes. and they are invariably faggots.

Parker wrote:

JoshP wrote:

Stimey wrote:

Women want Alpha Males.

Yes. and they are invariably faggots.

not all of em

Tbh i don't know any who aren't

TheDonkey wrote:

Anybody else notice that the only reason we're all connecting so well is because we're all gamers with little to no life outside of Games and computing

i certainly am... lol

War Man wrote:

TheDonkey wrote:

I'm 15 and've nevar had a girlfriend.

Take THAT for girl-problems.

You and me both

there's a reason for that.

Miggle wrote:

War Man wrote:

TheDonkey wrote:

I'm 15 and've nevar had a girlfriend.

Take THAT for girl-problems.

You and me both

there's a reason for that.

Yes, no neighborhood girls I'm interested in.

At least 60 seconds have to pass between posts. Please wait a little while and try posting again.

And that annoying the shit out of me.

i've considered leaving school about 4 times because of my social ineptitude

TheDonkey wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

i've considered leaving school about 4 times because of my social ineptitude

I Haven't considered leaving school altogether, but I've considered transferring back to my old school which would involve getting up at 5AM and taking a 1.5 hour train then walking up hill for 30 minutes to get there, an hour early.

So no, Guess I'll be in this shithole for a while to come.

I've "only" got to deal with it for 8 more months

on top of having dealt with it for 3 years now

I'd rather be a happy idiot than a depressed intellectual.

Home wrote:

War Man wrote:

TheDonkey wrote:

I'm 15 and've nevar had a girlfriend.

Take THAT for girl-problems.

You and me both

At 15? I wouldn't really be worried. Everyone I know that had a "relationship" before 16 is embarrassed about it.

This thread delivers.

mkxiii wrote:

from my experience, it all goes away if you block them on msn and they live 100 miles away

if the situations different to that, then dont ask me

Truer words have never been spoken...Ill vouch for that too, if 100 miles and a blocked msn arent enough, then you are in serious trouble

BlackKoala wrote:

This thread is fucking depressing.

You're fucking depressing.