Paula = Girl I like with the boyfriend.
Shanaynay = Other girl.
Bob = Her boyfriend.
Shitbag = The guy that was at Paula's house that night.
I know I've made another topic, but I needed a more organized one.
Previously my best friend, Paula, was going out with Bob. I actually set them up and they were doing very well together. Over time I started to like her and started getting jealous of him.
It all started in my speech class. Bob sat behind me and started asking me about my two best friends, Paula and Shanaynay, and whether I liked either of them. I told him that I liked Shanaynay. My best friend Paula liked me at the time, but I didn't like her as more than a friend. I didn't really know she liked me because there weren't any hints. While she liked me Shanaynay didn't really like me, but I liked her. So it was a scrambled situation and everything was pretty much not right. We went to the movies and I would try to sit by Shanaynay, but Paula would try to sit by me. I ended up sitting next to Shanaynay and Paula ended up sitting next to her. We watched the movie and after it was done we got in the car and Paula would try to sit next to me, but I would sit next to Shanaynay. Keep in mind that I didn't know Paula really liked me. Then one night I told Shanaynay how I felt, and that's when she told me that Paula liked me. I was kind of surprised that she didn't tell me earlier. In the mean time Paula started to like Bob. Shanaynay already had a boyfriend that lived in California I found out. So I liked a girl that already had a boyfriend that lived in California. I started losing interest in Shanaynay and started liking Paula. Paula started going out with Bob. I was upset because of how everything worked out. I just said screw it and moved on. My feeling started coming back for Paula after Bob and her were going out for about eight months.
After about eleven months of them going out, I told Paula how I felt about her. She was glad I told her, but that didn't mean that she was going to break up with Bob just to go out with me. They started fighting more and more and eventually that led up to them breaking up, that night when they broke up I went over there to hang out, but I didn't know they broke up until I went over there that night. When I went over there it was Paula, Shanaynay, and Shitbag. I was kind of jealous that Shitbag was over there because he was sitting next to Paula the whole time and that kind of made me upset, since I'm kind of a jealous person. We hung out and then we went out and drove around a little. Shitbag went home before we did that, but while we were riding around they decided they wanted to go over to Shitbag's house and say hey. I didn't really agree with that, but I didn't say anything. So we went over there and Shitbag got in our car, he snuck out and we drove around with him in the car with us. He was sitting next to Paula in the back and started flirting with her. That pissed me off a lot.
So after riding around with Shitbag for awhile we dropped him back off at his house so he wouldn't get in trouble, but his mom knew he left. He didn't really get in trouble and his mom said he could come hang out with us outside for a little bit. He got in the car and started flirting with Paula. Paula didn't know Shitbag liked her, but me being a guy knew he liked her by the way he was acting around her. So I got home that night and texted her and asked what was going on with Shitbag. She said nothing and that they were just friends. I told her, "I think he likes you" and she said "No, I think you're wrong." I explained to her about why I thought that and she didn't agree that he liked her. I just stop arguing about it and went to bed. The next morning she text me and ask , "Were you jealous that he was over here last night?" I said "No, I wasn't jealous," but I actually was.
About a week later, yesterday. Bob and Paula broke up again and this time it looks like they are done for good. The took everything off their MySpaces (Yes, MySpace) and aren't really talking anymore. I don't really know what I should do anymore. So I have come to you BF2s and ask what you would do.
Shanaynay = Other girl.
Bob = Her boyfriend.
Shitbag = The guy that was at Paula's house that night.
I know I've made another topic, but I needed a more organized one.
Previously my best friend, Paula, was going out with Bob. I actually set them up and they were doing very well together. Over time I started to like her and started getting jealous of him.
It all started in my speech class. Bob sat behind me and started asking me about my two best friends, Paula and Shanaynay, and whether I liked either of them. I told him that I liked Shanaynay. My best friend Paula liked me at the time, but I didn't like her as more than a friend. I didn't really know she liked me because there weren't any hints. While she liked me Shanaynay didn't really like me, but I liked her. So it was a scrambled situation and everything was pretty much not right. We went to the movies and I would try to sit by Shanaynay, but Paula would try to sit by me. I ended up sitting next to Shanaynay and Paula ended up sitting next to her. We watched the movie and after it was done we got in the car and Paula would try to sit next to me, but I would sit next to Shanaynay. Keep in mind that I didn't know Paula really liked me. Then one night I told Shanaynay how I felt, and that's when she told me that Paula liked me. I was kind of surprised that she didn't tell me earlier. In the mean time Paula started to like Bob. Shanaynay already had a boyfriend that lived in California I found out. So I liked a girl that already had a boyfriend that lived in California. I started losing interest in Shanaynay and started liking Paula. Paula started going out with Bob. I was upset because of how everything worked out. I just said screw it and moved on. My feeling started coming back for Paula after Bob and her were going out for about eight months.
After about eleven months of them going out, I told Paula how I felt about her. She was glad I told her, but that didn't mean that she was going to break up with Bob just to go out with me. They started fighting more and more and eventually that led up to them breaking up, that night when they broke up I went over there to hang out, but I didn't know they broke up until I went over there that night. When I went over there it was Paula, Shanaynay, and Shitbag. I was kind of jealous that Shitbag was over there because he was sitting next to Paula the whole time and that kind of made me upset, since I'm kind of a jealous person. We hung out and then we went out and drove around a little. Shitbag went home before we did that, but while we were riding around they decided they wanted to go over to Shitbag's house and say hey. I didn't really agree with that, but I didn't say anything. So we went over there and Shitbag got in our car, he snuck out and we drove around with him in the car with us. He was sitting next to Paula in the back and started flirting with her. That pissed me off a lot.
So after riding around with Shitbag for awhile we dropped him back off at his house so he wouldn't get in trouble, but his mom knew he left. He didn't really get in trouble and his mom said he could come hang out with us outside for a little bit. He got in the car and started flirting with Paula. Paula didn't know Shitbag liked her, but me being a guy knew he liked her by the way he was acting around her. So I got home that night and texted her and asked what was going on with Shitbag. She said nothing and that they were just friends. I told her, "I think he likes you" and she said "No, I think you're wrong." I explained to her about why I thought that and she didn't agree that he liked her. I just stop arguing about it and went to bed. The next morning she text me and ask , "Were you jealous that he was over here last night?" I said "No, I wasn't jealous," but I actually was.
About a week later, yesterday. Bob and Paula broke up again and this time it looks like they are done for good. The took everything off their MySpaces (Yes, MySpace) and aren't really talking anymore. I don't really know what I should do anymore. So I have come to you BF2s and ask what you would do.
Last edited by ThaReaper (2008-02-24 09:11:01)
