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Skorpy-chan wrote:

One thing's for sure, if SOMEONE doesen't pull their thumb out their ass, stop the cliquey circle-jerk and be nice to the kid, he WILL snap.

I should know, the same thing happened to me in school. Nobody bothered to give me a break most of the time (although luckily some people were decent enough to be sympathetic and let me rant at them), and if I was in a particularly bad mood, I snapped and tried to stab people with whatever was to hand. If I hadn't been picked out by the teachers as a potential problem and shoved into the special needs system to keep me out of trouble, god knows what would've happened. (As it was, I ran into a bunch of like-minded people and founded an exclusive social group based on wargames and nerdiness.)

O lordy.

You feeling betterish now?

Do you have any engineer skills? I could teach you how to make a switch blade go in and our shoe really fast without anyone noticing.(Not folding but straight up)

Edit: I also have other knowledge but i wont say it aloud. PM me for more details.

Last edited by David.P (2008-01-26 19:09:33)

Raphi wrote:

First of all, I want to say: This is a very serious topic. I'm sharing my problem with 3 other guys, we have no idea what to do.

Ok, I'm in a class, with 17 (2 girls left the class) and 5 guys. There's one buy, which gets dissed every day. First we tried to be nice to him, but we just couldn't be. He's acting so weird and is also looking gay and he got glasses, sorry, I just can't explain. Everybody hates him, he's repeating the class since he failed at the last year and he told us that he's playing CSS every night from 10 PM to 6 AM when his parents are asleep. He also looks like a geek tbh.

The problem is this: As I said, he gets dissed everyday and me and my friends think he's going to kill himself/one of us if we continue doing it, but the whole class hates him so... A girl told him that she'd love him, he took it serious but she just joked.. These things are happening every day. Me and my friends are fucking scared, we don't really believe that he comes to our school with his fucking m4, but what if he comes with a knife?

We're really scared, we've got no idea what to do..

I need your help, really.

Edit: I only know him since 6 months, but yet he's already the most hated person in around 6 classes...

Are you so weak that you can not say these things to your "friends" and then, not necessarily befriend the guy, but at least keep your comments to your selves and act with an ounce of maturity? I tell you now, your behavior is only "cool" to yourselves. If you could see how everyone else sees you I am quite sure you would be just as embarrassed, insecure, self conscience, isolated and full of doubt, just like the guy you sharpen your claws on.

I will tell you my story:

When I was in 7th grade,( I am 41 now) I picked on this kid from time to time. I viewed him as weak and an easy target for me to get cheap laughs  from the other kids in class. One day the teacher went to the office and I started up on this kid. I got in his face and worked him into tears. All the kids were laughing and I was feeling pretty good. When I saw his fist start to clinch when he was sitting at his desk, I leaned over his shoulder to taunt him again. I asked him if he was "gunna hit me". I even had the nerve to stick my chin out to give him a clean shot. Well, in fail swoop this kid reached up, grabbed my head and slammed it into the damn desk. Now, the kids in class were laughing and rolling in the aisles at my dumb ass. I can tell ya the pain I felt from having my head shoved into the desk was nothing compared to the utter embarrassment I suffered from this event.

That was a lesson I learned early and I learned it well. From that moment on treat everyone as you would want to be treated has become my motto. Respect, is my banner.

Maybe you can learn this lesson of mine the easy way and avoid humiliation and embarrassment. God knows I would love to have a second change and choose a different path.
I even told this story to my sons in hopes they can learn the cheap way. So far, I can say they have.

Last edited by lowing (2008-01-26 19:37:31)

adam1503 wrote:

lowing wrote:

I even told this story to my sons in hopes they can learn the cheap way. So far, I can say they have.

You have kids?  Dear God...

A proud father of 2 sons 10 and 11, I even help out in their classrooms, and go on their field trips. Sorry pal, I am not what you have me envisioned as. I preach responsibility and I live it as best as I can. I instill that belief into my sons. I teach my sons that race is irrelevant only attitude matters.

Learn some hand-to-hand combat.

1.  This "misunderstood kid" comes at you with a knife, you can disabled his weapon and put him to the ground.
2.  If you decide to stick up for him and his bullies decides to pick on you instead, you can defend yourself and put them to the ground  too.
3.  No one messes or makes fun of a person who knows how to fight (especially in high school).  [Chuck Norris is omitted from this theory]
4.  Teh chicks love guys who knows how to use their hands

FatherTed wrote:

Skorpy-chan wrote:

One thing's for sure, if SOMEONE doesen't pull their thumb out their ass, stop the cliquey circle-jerk and be nice to the kid, he WILL snap.

I should know, the same thing happened to me in school. Nobody bothered to give me a break most of the time (although luckily some people were decent enough to be sympathetic and let me rant at them), and if I was in a particularly bad mood, I snapped and tried to stab people with whatever was to hand. If I hadn't been picked out by the teachers as a potential problem and shoved into the special needs system to keep me out of trouble, god knows what would've happened. (As it was, I ran into a bunch of like-minded people and founded an exclusive social group based on wargames and nerdiness.)

O lordy.

You feeling betterish now?

I have long since grown out of that. After 6 years, a trip of self-discovery, 6 months of taking karate, and actually having friends, if someone's annoying me I simply hit them as hard as I can and stalk off BEFORE I flip out and lose judgement.

pull a dane cook and give him some candy, then talk about pens