Sounds like your playin it well man, and I hope you get the stroke of luck you deserve, it sounds like your almost thereLT.Victim wrote:
I just told her that I wouldn't see her until school comes back... January 7th.
I work every single day from now on until then, so at least I will have something to occupy myself with..
I told her that maybe we needed to take a break from seeing each other, because how is she going to see how she still feels about her BF if she is spending all her time with me, she agreed..
As hard as this is gonna be, it's for the best in the long run I believe...
I feels like I just quit smoking or something, shes like my addiction, but in a good way..
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I need around tree fiddy.
I showed her the thread..
good or bad move?LT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
god help u... thank god she doesnt know who i am since i commented on her ummm lets say "beauty"LT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
I say it can be both .bennisboy wrote:
good or bad move?LT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
Depends on the situation really.
update us damn you! satisfy my curiosity!
what was her reaction?
what was her reaction?
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hmm, might not have been a good idea, hope it doesn;t mess anyhting up thouhg.LT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
You're screwed.LT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
At least now she knows you're a nerd care for her
and update dammit
and update dammit
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You think your confused? My ex girlfriend was in my bed last night....... i was like wtfux is dis madnis, this is not spartaLT.Victim wrote:
So here's whats happening.. its a long read, and I've contemplated on whether or not I should post this or not... so if you don't want to read it, or you don't have any advice for me, that's fine..
There's this girl that I'm in love with that goes to my school.. We've dated in the past (2 years ago) when I didn't really know her that well and it was kind of awkward between us so I ended it... We are good friends now and lately over the past couple of months since schools started I've been hanging out with her more and more, going to the movies together, chilling with her late into the night etc.. I really like this girl, I don't just want to fuck her.. even though I can't say that I don't, I could care less about the sex as long as I could be with her. It sounds really corny but I haven't felt this strongly for a girl in a long time, if not ever. It no longer feels awkward between us like it did before and I could really see myself being with this girl. I'm fairly certain she feels the same way about me too, the only problem is.. she has a boyfriend. It seems kind of strange, because if I was him, I would be pissed off that I was spending so much time with her. She even leaned in as if she was going to kiss me with her boyfriend in the car 10 m away before she realized what she was doing and snapped out of it, which both of our friends made fun of her for doing. Her boyfriend is currently in Mexico and I've been hanging out with her practically every single night besides the nights that me or her have to work, last Friday and Saturday night I hung out with her until like 4 in the morning on both occasions.. I want her to break up with her boyfriend, but I don't want to be known as the asshole who made her, most likely because its going to cause a shitload of drama that I don't care for.
She really likes me, and I can tell by the way she acts around me especially when we are alone together, but I think she feels kind of guilty about it too. Like, I'll be at her house watching TV with her in her basement on her couch and she be practically laying on top of me, and whenever she hears someone start walking down the stairs she gets off of me, most likely because that person is going to say "WTF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND" or something along that line..
I would talk to her and tell her the way I feel, but I have a feeling that that is going to make it awkward between us, and that's the last thing I need especially since we've both just gotten over that..
She still really loves her boyfriend, but she also likes me.. All of her and my friends keep making fun of us and tell us to just date already, and I have a feeling it's going to happen eventually but still.. I have no idea how I should go about this, I don't want to be the asshole that messed up shit between her current boyfriend, but I also don't want to be stuck in the dreaded "Friends Zone" (I'm kinda past that zone, but I'm stuck because I don't want her to cheat on her boyfriend)..
What should I do.. should I just tell her how I feel and hope that it doesn't make it awkward between us and that she feels the same way... or should I keep hanging out with her until hopefully her boyfriend gets jealous and dumps her.. Its happened before, but they just got back together.. Either way, how can I get with this chick without me feeling like an Asshole in the long run..
Just a little info, we are both 17, and her boyfriend doesn't get back till the 29th, so I have a week or so to think this whole thing over...
Inb4WhyAreYouAskingForRelationshipHelpOnBF2s..
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well at least now she knows that you really really care about her!LT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
BTW aren't she pissed off by the picture you posted of her??? i would be pissed...
Why you trying to steal a girl from her man? Only gets you more shit.
you're crazy to have showed her this thread... also that ain't that stupid actually, it proves her how you love her, well done mate anywayLT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
that's the most retarded thing i've ever heard. gl manLT.Victim wrote:
I showed her the thread..
She said she was kinda mad at the start, but then she started to read the whole thread and near the end she wasn't mad at all..
She told me that she didn't know that random people could care so much... thanks guys.
She told me that she didn't know that random people could care so much... thanks guys.
If she does it to him, she'll do it to you. Stay away from hookers.
I dunno, this is kind of more a unique situation... We dated in the past, then I didn't talk to her for a while, and then we became really close friends, and then this happened..geNius wrote:
If she does it to him, she'll do it to you. Stay away from hookers.
The only person I could see her doing this to me again would be her going back to her current BF..
I was in the exact same situation. Hot girl....in love.....dated before.....had a boyfriend. Just hang out A LOT with her and remind her of the good times you had together. I would always be like "Remember that time we (insert fun time here), then she will realize she has a better time w/you. I'm with that girl now and we've been going out for 3 months.
If you mind me asking, what was the turning point in her relationship with her boyfriend that made her dump him and start going out with you?Reddhedd wrote:
I was in the exact same situation. Hot girl....in love.....dated before.....had a boyfriend. Just hang out A LOT with her and remind her of the good times you had together. I would always be like "Remember that time we (insert fun time here), then she will realize she has a better time w/you. I'm with that girl now and we've been going out for 3 months.
Just some other things that I never posted...
The other night she told me that she believe in god or whatever, (no shes not one of those religious freaks) and she asked him for more love, and she told me that he gave her me instead.
And ya.. we also have a "song" together.. i played it for her the other night on my phone, and she said it was "our song"...
Here it is..
The other night she told me that she believe in god or whatever, (no shes not one of those religious freaks) and she asked him for more love, and she told me that he gave her me instead.
And ya.. we also have a "song" together.. i played it for her the other night on my phone, and she said it was "our song"...
Here it is..
She told me that she realized that she loved me more and had more fun with me than her boyfriend.LT.Victim wrote:
If you mind me asking, what was the turning point in her relationship with her boyfriend that made her dump him and start going out with you?Reddhedd wrote:
I was in the exact same situation. Hot girl....in love.....dated before.....had a boyfriend. Just hang out A LOT with her and remind her of the good times you had together. I would always be like "Remember that time we (insert fun time here), then she will realize she has a better time w/you. I'm with that girl now and we've been going out for 3 months.
Also, I did a "cute" way of telling her I loved her. We were bored and I said let's play hangman. I did the message "I love you", and she was like "awwwwwwwwwwww" (/puppy face). Then she did the message "u plus me forever." Try it.
You're good now.LT.Victim wrote:
Just some other things that I never posted...
The other night she told me that she believe in god or whatever, (no shes not one of those religious freaks) and she asked him for more love, and she told me that he gave her me instead.
And ya.. we also have a "song" together.. i played it for her the other night on my phone, and she said it was "our song"
yeah, LT victim, I'd sya you've done it. nice to see relationship advice from here actually works sometimes, actually.