BF2S Forums Getting back w/ your ex & Communication

Mong0ose wrote:

women fail

Internets FTW!

yeah, my ex fiance and i tried to get back together in december....bad news.
apparently i drink too much *our first date together again i ordered a pitcher of beer and declined a glass*
thats ok...she smokes too much pot.

it was destined to fail again...but we tried anyway, cause we still care about eachother...i guess we just needed to try it again to know for sure we could never be more than friends...

moral of the story....that may be whats happening here.
if it fails with ehr ex...again...get back in there.

tell her you understand and youll be there for her if she needs it.

l-aLeX-l wrote:

Mong0ose wrote:

women fail

Internets FTW!

Thats not going to get you any action though is it.

Maybe a bit of five knuckle shuffle action but thats about it.

Ahh... "Maybe we should just be friends"

"Yeah, friends. While you fuck your ex you fucking deceiving, lieing, slutbag, whore!"

Ughh... My suggestion: Just never break up.

Tripp wrote:

I totally agree, things did move fast, in a good way though, BUT nothing was pushed/pressured, it all happened naturally. 

This girl was my ideal!!  Athlete (trying to get on the AVP ((pro volleyball for some of you knuckleheads))tour), 5'10, smart, gorgeous, funny, affectionate.  even has a twin HEH!

Just weird the kind of luck I have.

My suggestion, try the sister, maybe she will be more receptive.  You can always claim that you were confused when they confront you for chasing both.

Mitch wrote:

Ahh... "Maybe we should just be friends"

"Yeah, friends. While you fuck your ex you fucking deceiving, lieing, slutbag, whore!"

Ughh... My suggestion: Just never break up.

I think people usually end up in jail for that - Manstaughter/kidnapping

Parker wrote:

HA!
communication.........you want to talk about a lack of???

Parker - If he is having trouble with his problem, he wouldn't even come close to comprehending yours.

Mong0ose wrote:

women fail

But they have penis receptacle and boobs to squeez and touch .

Actually I have a situation much like that.

This past year has been rocky. My current girlfriend I met halfway through the year, at Ihop after a jazz band competition. It was fun, we hit it off very quickly. We became close friends within the time of two weeks. She and I really just opened up and we just grew closer and closer. At this time, she had a bf. Who was an ex, but that doesn't matter, she broke up with him to go to another boy. Another one of her ex's. I couldn't really comment on it, I had no idea what she was doing, and no information to object at the time.

I let it slide, bad idea. She isn't a virgin, and she wasn't when I met her. She had sex with this guy alone, and I believe that because she gave her virginity to him, she felt she was leaving a piece of herself behind. Her feelings for him stayed with her for months, and hence why she wanted to try it again. This guy, is a pig. He didn't care for her at all, and used her for the sex only (which I know many of you probably endorse). Yeah... Well, it meant a lot to me also, considering for once I found someone who also cared for me and I cared for them more deeply at the time than they knew. It drove this guy insane when she said no to sex, and he became mad at her when she came up with the "How long" game. As in, how long can you go without sex.

A few weeks later I asked her how that game was going, she said it had ended. Well, gee thanks. You know how I feel about you and decide to fuck with some other guy? There began my cutting for those of you who ever paid attention to me. I never asked her again how things were going with him and when she finally felt the relationship was dying, I voiced my opinion. Surprisingly, she understood it, and thanked me for it.

At this time, she was eying two other guys for a relationship. The third and last ex she had, and me (yay?). I believed she would decide to go with the other guy above me, I'm used to that kind of shit, it just happens a lot with me. So it surprised me completely when she came to me for a relationship. So what do I do? Well, I take the opportunity to start one with her. The last Monday of school, I ditched with her, and went to a friends house. We really made it apparent then and there our strong feelings for each other. It wasn't until Wednesday that I technically asked her out, and the relationship became official.

She has decided not to dwell on the past, and after asking her friend what she's been going through, it's become apparent to me that she's crazy about me. She isn't one to be aroused easily, never has been. I so far have been the only guy to arouse her as much as she is. Remember, this is  all coming from a close friend of her's.  Her last relationship scarred her because though she tried to patch it up, it ended with her mind and heart in two places. She feared "love". She didn't want to say it if it wasn't true. She has decided to tell me she loves me now and is just insanely annoying about it (in a good way). Her friend revealed what wasn't shown.

And so now, I wait until Friday to see her. We are working at the Orange County Fair together for another friend's father. I'm always left speechless by her. Words don't describe anything well.

All in all, if we break up.. I can see why she and I would try to get back together, it may or may not work. But as long as there is a sliver of hope that it may work out, we'll try.

Last edited by Miller (2007-07-11 14:44:53)

Miller,

No girl or thing is worth cutting bro, please don't do that to yourself.  i haven't even had the chance to get into anything deep with her and already she's giving me buttsechs.  Ah well, if she comes around, she comes around, till then, i'm still single.

I waited 6 months to bone my high school sweetheart.... and I couldn't imagine doing that now at my age lol tbth

At 28, I encounter all types of females. Ones that will put out the same night you meet and that will A) not care B) get attached right away and bug the shit out of you.... and some that will wait a week or two or even a month before they'll let you get in the drawers (which I respect).