[RDH]Warlord
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Ya'all seem like a bunch of level headed guys.  I hope I can count on this question being answered honestly and thoughtfully.

Now, it's possible that a man named Mitt Romney may be running for president (and this hurts me:) for the Republicans.  While I would like to vote a "mormon" in, I just can't vote Republican for awhile.

But that's not what I'm here to complain about.  What I am here for, is that I suddenly hear that since he is LDS (or mormon, for those who aren't sure) people are automatically turned off from him.  Why are people, not just in presidential elections, so anti-Mormon?

I honestly cannot understand why.  I am from Utah, which is obviously very much Mormon.  I grew up around Mormons, I AM Mormon.  Everyone I know is Mormon.  And people treat us as if we're Pagans, or actually more like devil worshipers.

That being said, I have to say that anyone Mormon or raised in a Mormon family/area seem by far much more polite and kind than others.  We don't have wierd rituals (in fact, you'd almost think I was an atheist, by the way I live and work and play.  And what we BELIEVE in isn't more rediculous than other religions.  We got a book (through admittedly wierd ways, but so is the bible), that sounds to me like an expansion to the bible.  Just more parables, more stories.

Why do people think we are wierd?
unnamednewbie13
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You forgot to mention that Mormons also use and teach out of the Bible (to a greater degree than from the 'Mormon Bible,' as it's popularly known). The two are actually not the same, and Mormons regard the ol' Book of Moe as just another volume of scripture.

People are anti-Mormon because of the propaganda leveled against them by other churches, and (oddly enough) by the stereotype that they are overly nice to a fault (untrue; many I've known are as big of jackasses as anyone I've met). If a Mormon, in this century, actually runs for President and wins, I'd be shocked beyond belief. It'd be like a Wiccan winning an election despite the horror of the Bible Belt.

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[RDH]Warlord
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So, you, yourself, do you feel that Mormons are weird?  are Strange?  Would you vote against Romney BECAUSE he's Mormon?  I must just be trying to find someone who does, and ask him "why" he thinks so.  I'm so insanely curious...

Sorry that some guys are jerks.  But then, you find jerks in most religions.  I just hate how people swoop in on the few bad apples and say "SEE?  THEY'RE NOT ALL POWERFUL. HE'S A MORMON, SO THEY MUST ALL ACT THIS WAY!"

I do have to say, that i don't exactly side with Romney on all sides.  I don't see why people have to take such a solid stance YES or NO on so many things.  Where's the presidential candidate that says, about abortion: "MAYBE!"
some_random_panda
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I don't know.  I was approached by two Mormons in a carpark with no one around, and quite frankly, two people dressed in black pants, white shirts (can't remember if they wore ties) and carrying identical bags on the same shoulder at 7 o'clock quite freaked me out.

Also, Mormons don't stay around for your version.  A friend of mine listened to all they had to say in his lounge, then requested that they stay so he could tell them all about Hindu.  They left in a hurry.  Lol.
CommieChipmunk
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Personally, I don't really think Mormons are weird in the sense that they believe in weird stuff, thats pretty much the definition of religion.  Most of the Mormons I know (and believe me there are a ton of Mormons where I live) just walk around like they are better than everyone else.  It's really annoying....  No offense or anything, just something I've noticed.
unnamednewbie13
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[RDH]Warlord wrote:

Would you vote against ______ BECAUSE he's Mormon?
Nope. Same doesn't apply for everyone else, though.

CommieChipmunk wrote:

Most of the Mormons I know (and believe me there are a ton of Mormons where I live) just walk around like they are better than everyone else.  It's really annoying....
It's a trait shared by more religious folks than Mormons.

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CommieChipmunk
Member
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unnamednewbie13 wrote:

[RDH]Warlord wrote:

Would you vote against ______ BECAUSE he's Mormon?
Nope. Same doesn't apply for everyone else, though.

CommieChipmunk wrote:

Most of the Mormons I know (and believe me there are a ton of Mormons where I live) just walk around like they are better than everyone else.  It's really annoying....
It's a trait shared by more religious folks than Mormons.
yes and no...
Ratzinger
Member
+43|6817|Wollongong, NSW, Australia
We had a guy in Australia named John Safran, and he went to Utah, dressed up in the black-and-whites, and knocked on doors saying "Did you know this book was written by humans and may have no relation to reality whatsoever?" and "Can I speak to you about atheism?"

One bloke attacked him with a rake, nearly all shut the door in his face.

Nice bit of revenge though.
Wolfren
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CommieChipmunk wrote:

Personally, I don't really think Mormons are weird in the sense that they believe in weird stuff, thats pretty much the definition of religion.  Most of the Mormons I know (and believe me there are a ton of Mormons where I live) just walk around like they are better than everyone else.  It's really annoying....  No offense or anything, just something I've noticed.
Some here.

O and they dont stick around to hear your side of things, they didnt want to hear what I had to say.

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dubbs
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Why do people not like Mormons?  First let me say that you yourself do not seem like a devouted LDS from your comment that people would think that you are Atheist.

Do you like Jehovah Witnesses?  Why not if you do not?  There is this strange thing about comfort, and when you cross that line, you are looked down on.  Do you not like Penecostals?  No, because some of them handle snakes?  Most people do not like Mormons because of the stuff that they were told, or that they assume, like the whole marriage thing beliefs of Mormons.  That is also why people look down on other religions, or religion in general.

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unnamednewbie13
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CommieChipmunk wrote:

unnamednewbie13 wrote:

[RDH]Warlord wrote:

Would you vote against ______ BECAUSE he's Mormon?
Nope. Same doesn't apply for everyone else, though.

CommieChipmunk wrote:

Most of the Mormons I know (and believe me there are a ton of Mormons where I live) just walk around like they are better than everyone else.  It's really annoying....
It's a trait shared by more religious folks than Mormons.
yes and no...
Yes and no...to what?
Ajax_the_Great1
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Any religion created in the past couple hundred years or so seems kinda like mankind just made it up.
[RDH]Warlord
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Mormons believe in their religion so much that they want others to at least hear the word.  That way we can say we tried to let you know, but we still respect your own choice.  These guys give up two years of their lives to go live in another town (usually) entirely, most often out of country, to talk to people.  While it lets people know the word, it also makes the person them self a better person.

They're not out there to start up a debate in religion.  It's like asking a door-to-door salesman if they want to buy your homemade goods.  They're not going door-to-door looking for a change in religion, so when you offer, they of course turn you down.  Keep in mind, these people are teh most dedicated to the religion.

I don't have anything against other religions.  In fact, since I'm so isolated, when I met a Jew at work, I was fascinated by him.  I have nothing against a person's belief.  My best friend's wife is a pagan (I was surprised to find out it had nothing to do with devil worshiping).

As for the book being written by a person, so what?  So was the bible.  If you claim that the bible was inspired by real events, then you don't know the bible.  The bible is just stories that were handed down orally for generations before someone finally wrote it down, translated, retranslated, copied, translated again, then interpreted by someone, then... etc.
LockerFish
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Keep in mind I only have 17 years on this earth to draw experience from but here's what I would think. It seems like any group that is known to kind of seperate themselves or appears that way is going to be looked at differently. I hate to make this comparison but it's the only one I can think of and I don't want you to think of this as a personal attack. Whatever, sorry if it offends you. In Michigan a lot of people are bewildered by Flint because of it's "ghetto" kind of status. People look at the citizens of Dearborn different because the vast majority of them are Middle Eastern. Seeing as the Mormons kind of seperated themselves(or were they "exiled"? I don't know) to Salt Lake City and established themselves there they are seen as sort of seperatists/elitists. Maybe I have the wrong idea about Mormons and their marriage beliefs, but that could also be a big factor. It's not the social "norm" so therefore people are a bit turned off by that. They don't want three First Ladies...
cospengle
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[RDH]Warlord wrote:

Mormons believe in their religion so much that they want others to at least hear the word.  That way we can say we tried to let you know, but we still respect your own choice.  These guys give up two years of their lives to go live in another town (usually) entirely, most often out of country, to talk to people.  While it lets people know the word, it also makes the person them self a better person.

They're not out there to start up a debate in religion.  It's like asking a door-to-door salesman if they want to buy your homemade goods.  They're not going door-to-door looking for a change in religion, so when you offer, they of course turn you down.  Keep in mind, these people are teh most dedicated to the religion.
I don't have a problem with people wanting to talk to others about their religion, but I do have a problem with people knocking on my door to do so. To use your annalogy of a door-to-door salesman, I never buy anything from a door-to-door salesman, and I resent the intrusion. If I wanted a new [insert bs product here] I'd go to the shop and buy one. Same with religion, if I wanted a new one I'd go to the church.

I think alot of people think mormons and JWs are wierd because they don't understand them, but also they resent them because they intrude on them by knocking on their door to "bible bash" them. It's not that people have a problem with people having a particular belief, it's just that they don't like people trying to push it on them.

I live in Australia and I have absolutely no idea what our Prime Minister's religious beliefs are, and I'm happy to keep it that way. I'd hate to live in a country where the leaded of the government wanted everyone in the country to join their religion.

So to answer your question, I can't vote for him to become the US president because I'm not American, but if I was I would only consider voting for him if I knew he wouldn't use the position to promote his beliefs any more than anyone else would. And then only if I wanted to vote republican.
Turquoise
O Canada
+1,596|6830|North Carolina

[RDH]Warlord wrote:

Ya'all seem like a bunch of level headed guys.  I hope I can count on this question being answered honestly and thoughtfully.

Now, it's possible that a man named Mitt Romney may be running for president (and this hurts me:) for the Republicans.  While I would like to vote a "mormon" in, I just can't vote Republican for awhile.

But that's not what I'm here to complain about.  What I am here for, is that I suddenly hear that since he is LDS (or mormon, for those who aren't sure) people are automatically turned off from him.  Why are people, not just in presidential elections, so anti-Mormon?

I honestly cannot understand why.  I am from Utah, which is obviously very much Mormon.  I grew up around Mormons, I AM Mormon.  Everyone I know is Mormon.  And people treat us as if we're Pagans, or actually more like devil worshipers.

That being said, I have to say that anyone Mormon or raised in a Mormon family/area seem by far much more polite and kind than others.  We don't have wierd rituals (in fact, you'd almost think I was an atheist, by the way I live and work and play.  And what we BELIEVE in isn't more rediculous than other religions.  We got a book (through admittedly wierd ways, but so is the bible), that sounds to me like an expansion to the bible.  Just more parables, more stories.

Why do people think we are wierd?
I'll put it this way.  The prejudice that a large portion of the Republican party has towards Mormons makes it rather humorous to me that most Mormons are still faithful to the party.  Even if I was a social conservative and Mormon, I wouldn't be Republican for that very prejudice.

Aside from all that, I'll just say that I don't have a problem with Mormons as individuals, but honestly, I don't really differentiate them much from evangelicals.  They both tend to be really socially conservative.  I'm economically conservative, but since I'm socially liberal, I can't really support someone like Mitt Romney as a candidate.

Now, if you could find a Mormon who was socially liberal and economically conservative, then I'd vote for him or her.

In short, I'm not against Mormons, I just don't like social conservatism (in most cases).  Granted, I am against affirmative action and am in favor of the death penalty.
Cybargs
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In Taiwan there are a few Mormons that hang around my bus stop, and poor old Jeffrey the fat was carrying an English literature text book. After that, the Mormons would hang around him after school talking about god, then Jeffrey one day ran really fast that the Mormons couldn't catch him. When I see Mormons I just say "ALLAH ACKBAR MUHHAMED JIHAD!"
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unnamednewbie13
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Turquoise wrote:

Even if I was a social conservative and Mormon, I wouldn't be Republican for that very prejudice.
What would you be, then?

It's a bit like a Star Wars question. Do you go Rebel, Empire, or Jabba the Hutt?

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Turquoise
O Canada
+1,596|6830|North Carolina

unnamednewbie13 wrote:

Turquoise wrote:

Even if I was a social conservative and Mormon, I wouldn't be Republican for that very prejudice.
What would you be, then?

It's a bit like a Star Wars question. Do you go Rebel, Empire, or Jabba the Hutt?
LOL...  I'd probably be an Independent.  Either that or a right-leaning Libertarian.

It's an interesting question.  Don't get me wrong...  I realize that some Republicans are open-minded about Mormonism.  Obviously, a Republican like Orrin Hatch is favorable to Mormonism, being one himself.

I guess the point I'm trying to make is that Mormons should be careful which Republicans they support.  There seem to be a significant number of them that probably inwardly laugh at the support they get from Mormons, when they consider the prejudice they might have for them.

It would appear that a lot of evangelical Christians (who tend to be Republican) are highly prejudiced toward Mormons.  Most of the ones I've mentioned Mormonism too (in passing during discussions about religion) seemed to visibly laugh or even shudder at the word.  I'm guessing a lot of evangelicals see Mormonism as a ripoff of their religion.

That being said, I would guess someone like Trent Lott probably doesn't care for Mormons in general (given his background).  Although, he probably gets along just fine with Orrin Hatch, since I would assume they know each other personally.

I would assume the more secular Republicans would be more open or indifferent toward Mormonism, because they aren't likely to hold strong opinions about religion.  So, I suppose those are the kinds of Republicans that Mormons should probably look to for support in their party.
Fujin
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As someone who lives in Utah and is not LDS / Mormon, I can lightly say that they are not my favorite people on the whole...had some very bad experiences with a few in particular when I first moved here.  Was it prejudice?  It sure felt like it.  LDS people are predominantly white...as a kid growing up in Phoenix and having some Hawaiian background, I was very...very tan when I first moved here.  I and my wife were treated...shall I say...questionably, by several LDS people...which really annoyed the hell out of me considering they tout themselves as being Christians full of "love" for all mankind.  Over the next several years, I for the most part lost my very dark tan, my mustache grew in very thick and so now I have been told I look more Italian than Hawaiian...haven't had an issue with mormons since.  For the most part, since living here the past 18 years, I can conclude that other than some specific quirks related to their religion and beliefs, they are just people like any other...and we can all be assholes every now and then.
Turquoise
O Canada
+1,596|6830|North Carolina

Fujin wrote:

As someone who lives in Utah and is not LDS / Mormon, I can lightly say that they are not my favorite people on the whole...had some very bad experiences with a few in particular when I first moved here.  Was it prejudice?  It sure felt like it.  LDS people are predominantly white...as a kid growing up in Phoenix and having some Hawaiian background, I was very...very tan when I first moved here.  I and my wife were treated...shall I say...questionably, by several LDS people...which really annoyed the hell out of me considering they tout themselves as being Christians full of "love" for all mankind.  Over the next several years, I for the most part lost my very dark tan, my mustache grew in very thick and so now I have been told I look more Italian than Hawaiian...haven't had an issue with mormons since.  For the most part, since living here the past 18 years, I can conclude that other than some specific quirks related to their religion and beliefs, they are just people like any other...and we can all be assholes every now and then.
One thing that remains a stain on the reputation of Mormons is that they didn't officially allow blacks and many other non-whites into their faith until around the 1960s.  It doesn't surprise me that many would still have prejudices in their own right.

It's kind of ironic how marginalized groups discriminate against each other, oftentimes.  You would think the prejudice that Mormons had to deal with themselves over the last century would have inspired them to be more open about race earlier.

Then again, this same irony has been shown to be true of minorities and their perception of homosexuals.  Various polls have suggested that black people are more against the idea of gay marriage than white people are.  Ironic, eh?...
Freke1
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[RDH]Warlord wrote:

Why do people think we are wierd?
I respect ppl who believe in whatever they want. Do You have any proof that God exist or is it just something You believe?
(If it is just something You believe then You are just like the christians, catholic, muslims, occult, jihads, KKK, communists...etc : weird!) It's nothing personal. You have a computer. Try downloading documentary film about the universe. Peace on earth
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Fujin
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lol, yeah, very ironic.
I'm not sure if I was looked at as black...I wasn't that dark, I always assumed that they thought of me as Polynesian or something.  Which led me to think, "wtf"?  The LDS faith has a very large Tongan and Samoan following...and it is evident here in Utah.  Take a look at their University football teams (BYU, USU, UofU, etc.), some of their most dominant players are either Tongan or Samoan.  There are large Tongan and Samoan communities here...and my wife and I were called (negatively I might add) an "inter-racial couple"...?  I guess some of the narrow-minded folk believed that race should stick to race...:S...whatever.  My response to some of those negative comments (which probably didn't go over very well with some of them I sure) was "look, dickhead...my ass is as white as yours" as I proceeded to give them a full moon

But yeah...I certainly have no animosity towards the LDS people.  Some of my closest friends and acquaintances are LDS and besides a few differences in opinion and beliefs, we are all the same.  Which I guess is my point...people, no matter what color/religion/race/etc. are people...it's up to us as individuals to get over the diversity.
[RDH]Warlord
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We DID allow people of color (blacks) into the religion, we always have.  Just, for some reason we would not allow them to have a position of power (what few we do have, such as bishop) until the 60's.  I believe the reason for that was it would hurt the religion more to be 100% tolerant of blacks before the rest of the country was ready to.

I dunno.  I like to believe that if I lived back then I would have accepted them as much as I do today, but I can't be sure.  All I know is that I've been raised with no racism now, so I have none.

As for the anti-Polynesian sentiment,  maybe they just resent that you've been to somewhere tropical.  Heck, if I couldn't go to Hawaii now and then, I know I'd be resentful of those who have been.
ATG
Banned
+5,233|6954|Global Command

[RDH]Warlord wrote:

Ya'all seem like a bunch of level headed guys.  I hope I can count on this question being answered honestly and thoughtfully.

Now, it's possible that a man named Mitt Romney may be running for president (and this hurts me:) for the Republicans.  While I would like to vote a "mormon" in, I just can't vote Republican for awhile.

But that's not what I'm here to complain about.  What I am here for, is that I suddenly hear that since he is LDS (or mormon, for those who aren't sure) people are automatically turned off from him.  Why are people, not just in presidential elections, so anti-Mormon?

I honestly cannot understand why.  I am from Utah, which is obviously very much Mormon.  I grew up around Mormons, I AM Mormon.  Everyone I know is Mormon.  And people treat us as if we're Pagans, or actually more like devil worshipers.

That being said, I have to say that anyone Mormon or raised in a Mormon family/area seem by far much more polite and kind than others.  We don't have wierd rituals (in fact, you'd almost think I was an atheist, by the way I live and work and play.  And what we BELIEVE in isn't more rediculous than other religions.  We got a book (through admittedly wierd ways, but so is the bible), that sounds to me like an expansion to the bible.  Just more parables, more stories.

Why do people think we are wierd?
Your not wierd, its people like my dad who has 3 wives and 32 kids; their the fucking weirdos.
You, probably don't know all that much about the history of your own religion, like most Mormons.

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