Fuck him off, your kid is and always will should be your priority if he can't deal with it more fool him.Eifa wrote:
more like what isn't wrong..ROGUEDD wrote:
If its that bad, go for hypnosis first. Less violent.globefish23 wrote:
What's wrong?
the person i loved more than i have ever loved anyone broke my heart because 'he cant date with someone with a kid', nice that you let me know after we've been hanging out for like a year, and because he cares too fucking much about what his parents think about me. i pretty much hate being around anyone at the moment, i hate myself a lot, i'm far from the 'normal me', obviously i'm depressed but my therapist cant do jack shit about it, instead i saw her 3 times and that was it, the guy who broke up with me still keeps sending me mixed messages and then just cuts me off everytime i start hoping for things to get better, i'm too tired to to anything, even taking the dog out is difficult, i need to look after my kid which is turning out to be difficult since she's one of the main reasons the relationship ended (i know im a bad person), and im just tired. super tired.
its been 2months after the break up and im feeling worse all the time.
and i lost my job week ago.
so yeah everythings much fucked up and i pretty much hate my life right now.
his loss innit
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Blackbelts are just whitebelts who have never quit.
well there's the thing.. he CAN deal with it.
the problem is that he's expecting way too much from himself, thinking that he's not doing enough or doing it properly.
i never expected him to be a dad figure to her, i said it from the start that he doesnt have to be around if he dont feel like it.. but no..
and yes, he is important. if he wasnt i wouldnt be crying my eyes out all the time, id sleep properly and actually have an appetite. like now its 3am and i dont even want to go to bed. im tired yeah, but the result would prolly be me just lying there thinking too much and crying some more OR then id fall asleep, keep waking up to nightmares and sleep in 15-45min bits. and when id actually wake up id just go 'fuck im still here'.
the problem is that he's expecting way too much from himself, thinking that he's not doing enough or doing it properly.
i never expected him to be a dad figure to her, i said it from the start that he doesnt have to be around if he dont feel like it.. but no..
and yes, he is important. if he wasnt i wouldnt be crying my eyes out all the time, id sleep properly and actually have an appetite. like now its 3am and i dont even want to go to bed. im tired yeah, but the result would prolly be me just lying there thinking too much and crying some more OR then id fall asleep, keep waking up to nightmares and sleep in 15-45min bits. and when id actually wake up id just go 'fuck im still here'.
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
Tell him then, I'd bet everything I own that he doesn't have a clue about half the stuff you have said here, simply because he is a man...Eifa wrote:
well there's the thing.. he CAN deal with it.
the problem is that he's expecting way too much from himself, thinking that he's not doing enough or doing it properly.
i never expected him to be a dad figure to her, i said it from the start that he doesnt have to be around if he dont feel like it.. but no..
and yes, he is important. if he wasnt i wouldnt be crying my eyes out all the time, id sleep properly and actually have an appetite. like now its 3am and i dont even want to go to bed. im tired yeah, but the result would prolly be me just lying there thinking too much and crying some more OR then id fall asleep, keep waking up to nightmares and sleep in 15-45min bits. and when id actually wake up id just go 'fuck im still here'.
We, as males, are completely dense. We are complete idiots when trying to figure out what is going on in your heads. Don't mull around hints and suggestions. Just tell it as it is. Our minds are wired to want to fix things and do things right (well, most of us). You need to tell us exactly what needs to be done, even if it's as simple as a shoulder to cry on or a comforting hug.
I have told him, he's seen me like this, keeps telling me he cares, keeps telling me how he wants to be 'just friends' but at the same time he's telling a whole other story. He knows exactly what I want and seems to know what he doesn't, but still won't act like it.
So to the first post, he know all of it and even more.
And to the second post, he knows that we can fix things. "It just doesn't feel right", because I have a kid.
So to the first post, he know all of it and even more.
And to the second post, he knows that we can fix things. "It just doesn't feel right", because I have a kid.
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
Cord still hasn't been cut. If he can't chose you + your child over his family, you'll be in for a rollercoaster ride more worse than it is now.
And you wonder why running in front of a truck sounds like a good idea.
I've never had the easiest life, kinda far from it actually but I'm not lying at all when I say it has never ever felt this bad. Ever.
I've never had the easiest life, kinda far from it actually but I'm not lying at all when I say it has never ever felt this bad. Ever.
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
think of your kid Eifa
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oK
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Heartbreaks are the worst. Hang in there little lady. Happy thoughts..
oK
whoever said money cant buy money
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trust me, i'm trying.Toilet Sex wrote:
think of your kid Eifa
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
>that feel when a facebook friend says they're starting residency and you think they're talking about DJ'ing instead of doctor'ing
Body wants to sleep but mind wants to play BF3
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