FatherTed
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18!
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CammRobb
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Uzique wrote:

lol finray yes it fucking is. i lived with a girl for a whole year in a house, like a married couple and thought she was 'the one' too.

i'd had about 4 long-term relationships, very serious, before her too.

jenni is your first and you're stuck in the doldrums of teenage puppy-love. she's playing games. she loves the fact she still has your undivided attention as soon as she can turn around and call on you: GIRLS LOVE THAT. girls love the empowerment and they love the feeling and security that they'll NEVER BE ALONE. and it's all at your EXPENSE. if the girl loved you back she wouldn't put you through it: she'd know that the best thing for you is to have a CLEAN SEPARATION and to move on with your lives. she likes being able to dip back in and dredge up all the old, painful feelings. my most recent ex did the same thing: she loved feeling like she was 'being nice' by being my friend again, when really she was doing it vicariously just for the sake of cuddling her insecurities and making her feel better about herself. you've gotta face the plain FACT that girls this age aren't ready for serious commitment, they love all forms of attention and they'll keep on hurting you in the name of 'LOVE' for as long as they want.

the sooner you man up the better, cause NOTHING good will EVER come of the situation you're in now. she'll bang a few guys and maybe, hey, one day maybe she'll come back to you. but it'll EAT you up, your relationship will NEVER be the same again after this 'break' and you'll NEVER be happy with her again. FACE IT. what you once shared together is gone, and you can't live in the past. fuck that. you're 18.

18!
That read like a column in The Sun, but it's spot on. I've been trying to tell you for ages to let it go, me and Rowena have told you to let it go. This is the reason why.

The way you were acting with her last night just makes it worse, you're giving her the attention you gave her when you were together, that's all she's after is attention. Not you, but the attention. You're making it harder on yourself, for God's sake just let it go.

Last edited by CammRobb (2010-07-07 17:52:57)

Finray
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brb offing myself. xx


srsly though going to bed. gnight and ty for input. xxx
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JakAttaK
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Uzi hits the nail on the head once again. As does Teds.
m3thod
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kimbo slice is banging jen right this minute.

honest.
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FatherTed
xD
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m3th you horrid human being
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Uzique
dasein.
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im of the opinion that, beneath the surface (no matter how calm and collected) every girl our age is an absolute fucking nightmare. insecurities, emotional instability, absolute unpredictability; total bombs just waiting to go off. almost every girl at this age that i have got close to, and really spoken to and have open up to me, has ended up being largely the same: deep-rooted insecurities, mega self-doubts, image-issues etc. all that. even the prettiest girls in the world end up having the same root-level problems if you can get through their self-defenses and reach the bottom of it. any attempts to get close and stay close to girls at this age ends up being the most self-destructive thing in the world: you wear yourself out trying to fix problems and help with things that they can't even help themselves with. have fun, enjoy each other's company... but fucking spare the seriousness; take everything for what it is, have a laugh and remember you've got the rest of your life to be a grown up.

stressing every day and having major 'mares and flare-ups over melodramatic shit... at this age... is like unconsciously living out a jeremy kyle episode or an eastenders omnibus or something. just stop being so dramatic and putting yourself through so much every day. learn to give yourself a break - i did, and you feel much better for it. relationships are only good as long as they're fun. PERIOD.
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CammRobb
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fuck I hate that girl, I'm gonna kick her in the face.
m3thod
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find him a new lass
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FatherTed
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+3,936|6773|so randum
get him a haircut too, that'll aid in finding a new lass
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a wise man once wrote:

beat her to death with her own severed leg
Pochsy
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m3thod wrote:

find him a new lass


That actually made me burst out laughing. The elegance of that jab was just...poetry.
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Uzique
dasein.
+2,865|6743
camm there aint nothing you can do for your bro... family and friends don't mean shit...

he's gotta look himself square in the eye and man the fuck up, otherwise everyone else's words will go in one ear, out the other.

let him borrow rowena for a week or something. sweet dickens
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CammRobb
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m3thod wrote:

find him a new lass
Nah fuck that he's too young for that.

FatherTed wrote:

get him a haircut too, that'll aid in finding a new lass
He's had one.

Fuck her, she fucked my brother around, bitch is gonna pay
pace51
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FatherTed
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f5 f5 f5 f5 f5

edit while waiting for post timer; fuck off pace
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tuckergustav
...
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Uzique wrote:

im of the opinion that, beneath the surface (no matter how calm and collected) every girl our age is an absolute fucking nightmare. insecurities, emotional instability, absolute unpredictability; total bombs just waiting to go off. almost every girl at this age that i have got close to, and really spoken to and have open up to me, has ended up being largely the same: deep-rooted insecurities, mega self-doubts, image-issues etc. all that. even the prettiest girls in the world end up having the same root-level problems if you can get through their self-defenses and reach the bottom of it. any attempts to get close and stay close to girls at this age ends up being the most self-destructive thing in the world: you wear yourself out trying to fix problems and help with things that they can't even help themselves with. have fun, enjoy each other's company... but fucking spare the seriousness; take everything for what it is, have a laugh and remember you've got the rest of your life to be a grown up.

stressing every day and having major 'mares and flare-ups over melodramatic shit... at this age... is like unconsciously living out a jeremy kyle episode or an eastenders omnibus or something. just stop being so dramatic and putting yourself through so much every day. learn to give yourself a break - i did, and you feel much better for it. relationships are only good as long as they're fun. PERIOD.
yeah...pretty much
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Uzique
dasein.
+2,865|6743
you know he won't thank you for it... so what's the point involving yourself in other people's drama.

i swear people of a certain disposition are just attracted to drama. they love living out a jeremy kyle episode. let things lie, ffs.

only way things will get any better for your bro is proper time and PROPER moving on. none of this stay-friends shit.
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FatherTed
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+3,936|6773|so randum
and a good shag m8
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pace51
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Hows life everyone? PS, whats jeremy kyle?
CammRobb
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Uzique wrote:

you know he won't thank you for it... so what's the point involving yourself in other people's drama.

i swear people of a certain disposition are just attracted to drama. they love living out a jeremy kyle episode. let things lie, ffs.

only way things will get any better for your bro is proper time and PROPER moving on. none of this stay-friends shit.
Do you not think I told him to leave her well alone? He didn't listen to me, gave me the old 'you don't know shit so stay out of it'

guess I do know shit after all. Stupid boy.
Pochsy
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pace51 wrote:

Hows life everyone? PS, whats jeremy kyle?
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FatherTed
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pace51 wrote:

Hows life everyone? PS, whats jeremy kyle?
better if you were found dead from asphyxiation-masturbaiting.
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tuckergustav
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Nobody, at the age of 18 really thinks ANYONE else knows what they are going through.  You don't realize until later that pretty much everybody goes through the same thing...but that's all part of growing up.

btw...Rowena is a very pretty name.
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