Dilbert_X
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JohnG@lt wrote:

Trades, by their very definition are a compromise. It's impossible for both parties to get exactly what they want.
Depends, if both parties are reasonable and realistic there is no reason why it can't happen.
If one or both are unrealistic, excessively greedy or out to screw the other guy just because they can then then they won't.
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Dilbert_X wrote:

JohnG@lt wrote:

Trades, by their very definition are a compromise. It's impossible for both parties to get exactly what they want.
Depends, if both parties are reasonable and realistic there is no reason why it can't happen.
If one or both are unrealistic, excessively greedy or out to screw the other guy just because they can then then they won't.
If you're in business and not attempting to reasonably screw over the other guy (not to the point that it's offensive) you're not really doing your job.
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Dilbert_X
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Boils down to whats reasonable, which has different definitions around the world.
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Flaming_Maniac wrote:

Compromise is bad., m,kay?

Discuss.

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Pug
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Yeah, FM.

I'm not feeling ya.  I disagree completely with your last response.  You are being selectively broadminded.

A compromise has to do with getting less than what you really want.

I think we're just going to disagree on this one.
Flaming_Maniac
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compromise - n. a settlement of differences by mutual concessions; an agreement reached by adjustment of conflicting or opposing claims, principles, etc., by reciprocal modification of demands.

Not "getting less than you really want". Getting a $20 watch when I really wanted a 24k gold watch is not a compromise.
Pug
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Flaming_Maniac wrote:

compromise - n. a settlement of differences by mutual concessions; an agreement reached by adjustment of conflicting or opposing claims, principles, etc., by reciprocal modification of demands.

Not "getting less than you really want". Getting a $20 watch when I really wanted a 24k gold watch is not a compromise.
And I'm saying it is for two reasons:

1) You put more value on buying something other than the 24k watch - food, rent...whatever.  So you are compromising by buying the Casio with the flex band.
2) If the supplier lowered the price, you'd buy it in an instant.

The compromise is within the consumer's own behavior within his own set of choices.

aka everyone wants to buy luxuries, but compromise by buying commodities instead.
Flaming_Maniac
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There is no "compromise" between a desire and a reality.

You could just as easily be saying I wish I had a million dollars, but I'll compromise since I only have $100. It doesn't make any sense.
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Pug wrote:

aka everyone wants to buy luxuries, but compromise by buying commodities instead
Speak for yourself, a Casio on my wrist and a bar of gold in the bank is way more valuable to me than a Rolex.
No compromise involved.

Luxuries are for idiots, go ahead and burn cash if you like.
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Flaming_Maniac wrote:

There is no "compromise" between a desire and a reality.

You could just as easily be saying I wish I had a million dollars, but I'll compromise since I only have $100. It doesn't make any sense.
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barter is not compromise

er not barter what's the word...
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Somehow I think this discussion is part of FMs essay so he deliberately acts selectively broadminded

How many posts does it take to reach a compromise about what a compromise really is?
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Spark
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Flaming_Maniac wrote:

barter is not compromise

er not barter what's the word...
bargain. well, what is it then?
The paradox is only a conflict between reality and your feeling what reality ought to be.
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Flaming_Maniac
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Spark wrote:

Flaming_Maniac wrote:

barter is not compromise

er not barter what's the word...
bargain. well, what is it then?
It's bargaining. Re-valuing the goods in question can lead to a trade, not a compromise. It is dependent on the mindset of the people in question, not what the good is objectively valued at.
Pug
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Varegg wrote:

Somehow I think this discussion is part of FMs essay so he deliberately acts selectively broadminded

How many posts does it take to reach a compromise about what a compromise really is?
lol.  glad someone noticed a lil sarcasm.  i'm just happy this is about philosophy, instead of the norm.

FM - I agree with your assessment by your terms, a narrow exchange with two variables (what the want is vs what the provide is), where every agreement is a compromise.  But I'm not sure if a zero-sum game is the appropriate phrase to use, nor the term of having the "snake" in the deal.  People agree, and therefore that sets the value exchanged, there is always something leftover unsatisfied by both parties.  In a sense, I'm saying you can never have an unequal exchange if the parties agree.

Once it expands to involve consumer behavior and manufacturing strategy, it gets a little more complicated because you are comparing the entire set of variables within behavior and mfg strategies.  And the list is endless.

I mentioned the concept of lack of technological improvement, note that the reason I posted this was to explain that "zero-sum" isn't applicable.  Why?  If a decision is zero-sum, then the parties are limited to what is available from the purchaser and the supplier, without regard to any future purchases or alternative products.  And I think we both agree this is incorrect, based on some of your responses.

For clarification, you are able to compromise can be with only one party involved.

Luxuries vs commodities - variable here is time, and sacrificing other "luxuries" you usually purchase
Compromise with self - what you'll live with versus what you really desire

In both cases, the desire for more doesn't vanish...
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Pug
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Dilbert_X wrote:

Pug wrote:

aka everyone wants to buy luxuries, but compromise by buying commodities instead
Speak for yourself, a Casio on my wrist and a bar of gold in the bank is way more valuable to me than a Rolex.
No compromise involved.

Luxuries are for idiots, go ahead and burn cash if you like.
I wasn't comparing a bar of gold or a gold watch, but since you mentioned it...you value the gold bar more than having a gold watch, so you compromised and bought a Casio.

If you didn't WANT the gold watch in the first place, then the watch neither a commodity nor a luxury.
Flaming_Maniac
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The problem is what causes both sides to agree. If one side abuses the socially accepted idea of compromise to make the side getting screwed feel as though it is their social duty to accept the deal because of the spirit of equality in lieu of equal physical terms, then it's not a fair deal. It's true that they should grow the balls to decline such a deal, but the entire idea of compromise is flawed and should be viewed as such

Pug wrote:

If a decision is zero-sum, then the parties are limited to what is available from the purchaser and the supplier, without regard to any future purchases or alternative products.
Why? You keep implying this is true but I don't understand why you do so. A trade can take into account all factors in making the decision and still make a valid, rational, moral trade.

Pug wrote:

(what the want is vs what the provide is)
No. The want is irrelevant. The variables are what you are giving and what you are receiving in exchange. That is very important.

The only idea of compromise by yourself that makes sense is cognitive dissonance. You have conflicting beliefs, and you compromise between them to make a bastard child of a rationalization to solve the discrepancy.

That example fits exactly with what I am saying. One side is correct, but you have an irrational reason to hold on to the conflicting idea and as a result come up with a new, at least partially wrong idea instead of sticking with the wholly correct idea. Compromise does nothing but fuck up the situation.
Jay
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Ahh, I see what you're getting at... finally.

The world isn't black and white. Nor is all information shared equally. If everyone stuck to their guns and refused to compromise nothing would ever get done.

Using your black and white example I'll use the watch myself since it's already been put forward.

If you walk into a store to purchase a watch and find that there are no prices listed it would be rational to evaluate the watches on your own and figure out a price that you think is suitable to pay. You pick up a watch and determine that you think it's value is $100. You have set what you think is fair value based on your own life experience.

The watch maker informs you that the price is $150. If you then accede and pay the $50 extra you would be conceding to reality and making a compromise. But, by your reasoning compromise is always wrong so you should walk away.

If the watch maker were to inform you that the price of the watch was $10, by your logic you should hand the man your $100 bill because giving him the $10 he requested would be a compromise against your own values.

Life is not black and white and you can not walk through life successfully completely unwilling to compromise. However, this parable should help ease your moral burden:

Benjamin Franklin wrote:

"I have made a rule, whenever in my power, to avoid becoming the draughtsman of papers to be reviewed by a public body. I took my lesson from an incident which I will relate to you. When I was a journeyman printer, one of my companions, an apprentice hatter, having served out his time, was about to open shop for himself. His first concern was to have a handsome signboard, with a proper inscription. He composed it in these words, 'John Thompson, Hatter, makes and sells hats for ready money,' with a figure of a hat subjoined. But thought he would submit it to his friends for their amendments. The first he showed it to thought the word 'Hatter' tautologous, because followed by the words 'makes hats,' which showed he was a hatter. It was struck out. The next observed that the word 'makes' might as well be omitted, because his customers would not care who made the hats. If good and to their mind, they would buy them, by whomsoever made. He struck it out. A third said he thought the words 'for ready money' were useless, as it was not the custom of the place to sell on credit. Every one who purchased expected to pay. They were parted with, and the inscription now stood, 'John Thompson sells hats.' 'Sells hats!' says the next friend. 'Why, nobody will expect you to give them away. What then is the use of that word?' It was stricken out, and 'hats' followed it, the rather as there was one painted on the board. So the inscription was reduced ultimately to 'John Thompson,' with the figure of a hat subjoined."
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Pug
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FM
No one forces anyone to agree to anything.  Therefore, the concept that one side "wins" is false.  The result of the deal changes the price point in the supply versus demand curve.

Both parties are big boys.  I'm saying there is no "snake in the equation"...ever.  If they agree to something, they have both agreed on the value of the exchange.  Bottom line - if someone "abuses" society to get an edge, a deal is not struck.

Zero-sum - Earlier you stated that negotiations SHOULD be a zero sum game.  A definition you are using in terms of: the buyer and seller agree exactly what the value is, so no one gets burned.  But you say societal pressures make the parties unable to reach a zero-sum agreement.  IF the agreement is ALWAYS zero-sum, this means everything is preset before the deal begins.  Supply vs Demand, except your saying neither the supply nor demand curve is anything but a single point.  There is no incentive to supply more or less, because the answer is already set - meaning, no company will supply anything different.

This fits into what I'm highlighting in terms of wants vs what happens in reality.  The "zero-sum" flaw I'm showing you is that perhaps the most important part of the deal is what ISN'T on the table, because it drives consumer behavior and manufacturing strategy in a dynamic market.

So muddle the waters - I believe there is nothing left on the table when a deal is struck, EXCEPT for the unfilled desires which in turn move the subsequent behaviors of both parties.  Rationalizing a deal requires you to compromise between all possible outcomes, including those that aren't option.

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It's not a compromise when all parties do not net gain as a whole. One person may gain something, but the rest may lose. Whether it was because of bait-and-switch, snake-oil, or some other dishonest way of gaining, it's not a compromise. That game requires someone(s) to be a sucker so that another could benefit.

You got out-witted. There was no compromise.

edit: think I should nap

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Flaming_Maniac
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Pug wrote:

No one forces anyone to agree to anything.  Therefore, the concept that one side "wins" is false.  The result of the deal changes the price point in the supply versus demand curve.

Both parties are big boys.  I'm saying there is no "snake in the equation"...ever.  If they agree to something, they have both agreed on the value of the exchange.  Bottom line - if someone "abuses" society to get an edge, a deal is not struck.
The whole point is if someone abuses the idea of compromise and a deal is struck because the other party doesn't stand on their own two feet. If no deal is struck because the abuse is recognized, good. The whole point though is the idea of compromise should be stricken from the long corrupted list of good social behavior to help those who don't know enough to help themselves. If you don't think anyone ever tries to take advantage of someone else just because both parties sign a paper, man you are naive. Usually it is from ignorance on the part of one of the parties and irrelevant to the point I'm making it's true, but some people will abuse anything to make a living off the added "value" of their smooth talk. That includes bullshit ideas of ethos and playing nice for the sake of playing nice.

Pug wrote:

IF the agreement is ALWAYS zero-sum, this means everything is preset before the deal begins.  Supply vs Demand, except your saying neither the supply nor demand curve is anything but a single point.
Not true. Nothing has to be preset for there to be a fair agreement about the valuation of the products. I don't really understand what makes you keep wanting to take this logical leap. You can walk into a room saying I think product x is worth $100, even though the price is $150. The salesmen says but wait, product x also has feature y that was previously unknown to you, so I think the product is worth $150 to you. You can agree with the pricing because of the new information and make the deal. No compromise, values not preset.

The curves intersect at a location. That location remains the same until new conditions are introduced, at which time the intersection moves. I have given you no reason that the intersection can't move, but it seems like you're implying that at any one point in time the curves can intersect at multiple locations. The curves represent what the demand or supply would be if conditions about the other are known, but the actual demand or supply is a fixed value at any one time.

Phrozenbot wrote:

It's not a compromise when all parties do not net gain as a whole. One person may gain something, but the rest may lose. Whether it was because of bait-and-switch, snake-oil, or some other dishonest way of gaining, it's not a compromise. That game requires someone(s) to be a sucker so that another could benefit.

You got out-witted. There was no compromise.

edit: think I should nap
I am listing compromise as one of those dishonest ways of gaining, not excluding other ways from the long, long list.
Pug
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I'm not saying one side DOESN'T try to f-over the other side...I'm saying no one can EVER f-over the other side if they agree to terms.  This means there are only two options: a fair deal, or no deal at all.

This leads into some of the other comments, but if you don't see the first point, the rest is moot.

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