There are a bunch walking around with ashes on their head today. I think this just might work.Ilocano wrote:
Like I said before, if you really want a Filipina, join a Catholic youth church group. Trust me, I'm Filipino.
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Really? You link that avatar with expecting nicety (sp?)???????????? Not meaning to insult, butMacbeth wrote:
It screams attention whore to be honest. You are a girl on the internet, we get it. Having a sexualized avatar like that makes it seem like you want all the guys on the forum to be really nice and be respectful to you since you have a vagina. It's kind of a white knight magnet.
You should change it.
Comment aside above, smile a lot, keep nodding your head, keep listening, and act like you are really into whatever they are talking about. Do not ever, ever mention anything about sex. They will make the first move, trust me.Macbeth wrote:
There are a bunch walking around with ashes on their head today. I think this just might work.Ilocano wrote:
Like I said before, if you really want a Filipina, join a Catholic youth church group. Trust me, I'm Filipino.
Who do you think these women that "just call for sex with no obligations" sleep with? I doubt they're all gay._j5689_ wrote:
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.LittleBitchy wrote:
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.HaiBai wrote:
there's a difference between acting like a boss and being a dickhead though.
besides, isn't picking up chicks just so you can bang them a dick headed thing all on its own? i'm sure some women are fine with being picked up for one night, but i'm sure most aren't
I do find the "sleeping around with 3 different chicks/men" in one weekend a bit whore-ish (for both parties) since you could get a girl/guy with no obligations and just call when you wanna get laid but hey...whatever floats people's boats
Maybe you'll be the same in a few years, you never know what you'll want/find awesome in a few years or so
Yeah, but I feel like chances are that that's not the average guyJenspm wrote:
Who do you think these women that "just call for sex with no obligations" sleep with? I doubt they're all gay._j5689_ wrote:
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.LittleBitchy wrote:
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.
I do find the "sleeping around with 3 different chicks/men" in one weekend a bit whore-ish (for both parties) since you could get a girl/guy with no obligations and just call when you wanna get laid but hey...whatever floats people's boats
Maybe you'll be the same in a few years, you never know what you'll want/find awesome in a few years or so
So going by your avatar, you're saying you're a little yappy dog?Macbeth wrote:
It screams attention whore to be honest. You are a girl on the internet, we get it. Having a sexualized avatar like that makes it seem like you want all the guys on the forum to be really nice and be respectful to you since you have a vagina. It's kind of a white knight magnet.
You should change it.
eusgen wrote:
haha good one bennis
I dunno, the first time you meet someone you will not know or talk about much you have in common. I think the first couple of interactions is more about the level of enjoyment and how fun you seem. Finding out stuff you have in common seems to come later on.Adams_BJ wrote:
that generally means you have nothing in common. You shouldn't have to force a conversation between two people. It really should just flow naturally.-Sh1fty- wrote:
I'm finding that more often than usual that I'm having trouble talking to girls, i.e. finding interesting things to talk about.
Dang I miss the dances. Was doing a lot better back in those days. wonder what changed.
The problem is more having nothing to talk about, are both parties are interested, the ocnversation will flow naturally. For example person a will ask person b about their day or whatever, person b will answer, and person a might relate it to a similar circumstance that once happened, or a similar interest, and the conversation will grow.bennisboy wrote:
I dunno, the first time you meet someone you will not know or talk about much you have in common. I think the first couple of interactions is more about the level of enjoyment and how fun you seem. Finding out stuff you have in common seems to come later on.Adams_BJ wrote:
that generally means you have nothing in common. You shouldn't have to force a conversation between two people. It really should just flow naturally.-Sh1fty- wrote:
I'm finding that more often than usual that I'm having trouble talking to girls, i.e. finding interesting things to talk about.
Dang I miss the dances. Was doing a lot better back in those days. wonder what changed.
E.g. with my ex, I'm pretty sure at first look, we had next to nothing in common, but we had fun when we met up. The more we hung out and got to know each other,, the more we realised we had in common, until we could text all day or hang out all day without running out of shit to talk about. I think that comes more with time.
The first time you meet someone is more like an interview or public speaking, it's more to do with the style of your interaction than what you actually say. If you're a completely different tempo/energy to someone, you'll never get on, whether it's a colleague or a girl. They'll initially make up their mind whether they like you and enjoy your company within the first 30 seconds to minute, but you're never gonna know if you have stuff in common with each other from that. That comes with getting to know the person better until its completely natural to talk about anything.
Worth thinking about in every walk of life, not just when meeting women
Adams_BJ wrote:
When the conversation doesn't get past hi, or the answer are short 2 or 3 word replies, she's just not that into you.
No wonder my wife gets irritated when I get into long idle conversations with other women.Adams_BJ wrote:
The problem is more having nothing to talk about, are both parties are interested, the ocnversation will flow naturally. For example person a will ask person b about their day or whatever, person b will answer, and person a might relate it to a similar circumstance that once happened, or a similar interest, and the conversation will grow.
When the conversation doesn't get past hi, or the answer are short 2 or 3 word replies, she's just not that into you.
Those are some boring ways to start a convo tho. Start with something fun. The whole how was your day, what do you do... Is such a boring convo. If someone I've never met before asks me stuff like that, I immediately think they're boring...Adams_BJ wrote:
The problem is more having nothing to talk about, are both parties are interested, the ocnversation will flow naturally. For example person a will ask person b about their day or whatever, person b will answer, and person a might relate it to a similar circumstance that once happened, or a similar interest, and the conversation will grow.bennisboy wrote:
I dunno, the first time you meet someone you will not know or talk about much you have in common. I think the first couple of interactions is more about the level of enjoyment and how fun you seem. Finding out stuff you have in common seems to come later on.Adams_BJ wrote:
that generally means you have nothing in common. You shouldn't have to force a conversation between two people. It really should just flow naturally.
E.g. with my ex, I'm pretty sure at first look, we had next to nothing in common, but we had fun when we met up. The more we hung out and got to know each other,, the more we realised we had in common, until we could text all day or hang out all day without running out of shit to talk about. I think that comes more with time.
The first time you meet someone is more like an interview or public speaking, it's more to do with the style of your interaction than what you actually say. If you're a completely different tempo/energy to someone, you'll never get on, whether it's a colleague or a girl. They'll initially make up their mind whether they like you and enjoy your company within the first 30 seconds to minute, but you're never gonna know if you have stuff in common with each other from that. That comes with getting to know the person better until its completely natural to talk about anything.
Worth thinking about in every walk of life, not just when meeting women
When the conversation doesn't get past hi, or the answer are short 2 or 3 word replies, she's just not that into you.
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