BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Mutantbear wrote:

its silly but youre on it anyway

yeah i figure there's nothing to lose by using it but i dont take it too seriously, considering it regularly shows me "matches" with a 40% enemy rating

what about if people see it and make fun of you for the rest of your life.

Macbeth wrote:

Seriously though, you are 22 right? Unless you poop gold it looks like a really low expectation family. No offense.

wait a fucking second, You reckon that the reason this girl wants to marry me and vice versa, and her father has given us his blessing is because he has low expectations? fuck you man.

people don't get married because one party is from a wealthy family. I want to marry this girl because I love her. Idiot.

Kampframmer wrote:

LittleBitchy wrote:

Stop thinking so negatively. You can control your thoughts.
Set some goals, get involved in some more activities and be around positive, happy people.
Be positive, look on the bright side of life.... life is what you make it

regarding hurri's 'not so unique'-case, that advice won't make a damn difference (you could hardly call it advice)
And to a genuinly depressed person that is like the shittiest and dumbest thing you could say. You do absolutely 0 good with those shallow 'look on the bright side of life, sunshine and rainbows!' comments.
It's even too piss poor to solve a simple girl problem, let alone Hurri's (decreasing) lack of self esteem or an actual depression.

If you;re think of making a post like that again: Don't. It helps make you seem less dumb.

So you're a doctor? If his situation was so damn bad, he would be on medication because serious depression requires medication and treatment.
Even in some cases, when people i knew were depressed(and on medication also!), looking on the good things, setting goals, participating in activities with friends, going out on walks and out to have a good time with people and you know, even talking to people, going to concerts helped bring their moral back up. Doing stuff that makes you happy keeps your mind from thinking on the bad things. And friends you could lean on, friends who help that person see the good thing in life also helps.

I wrote what i find helpful and what i've seen helped other people around me. It didn't magically make everything go away, but it helped.
So cut your arrogant attitude and insulting tone towards me.

Last edited by LittleBitchy (2012-02-18 07:25:35)

chat for 5 days straight - now no texts in 24 hours - won't reply to my text.

its the weekend

RTHKI wrote:

its the weekend

make sure you send her at least 50 texts varying from rage to sorrow at her not responding, that way, when she checks in on monday, she will see how much you care.

Last edited by -Whiteroom- (2012-02-18 10:52:20)

LittleBitchy wrote:

Kampframmer wrote:

LittleBitchy wrote:

Stop thinking so negatively. You can control your thoughts.
Set some goals, get involved in some more activities and be around positive, happy people.
Be positive, look on the bright side of life.... life is what you make it

regarding hurri's 'not so unique'-case, that advice won't make a damn difference (you could hardly call it advice)
And to a genuinly depressed person that is like the shittiest and dumbest thing you could say. You do absolutely 0 good with those shallow 'look on the bright side of life, sunshine and rainbows!' comments.
It's even too piss poor to solve a simple girl problem, let alone Hurri's (decreasing) lack of self esteem or an actual depression.

If you;re think of making a post like that again: Don't. It helps make you seem less dumb.

So you're a doctor? If his situation was so damn bad, he would be on medication because serious depression requires medication and treatment.
Even in some cases, when people i knew were depressed(and on medication also!), looking on the good things, setting goals, participating in activities with friends, going out on walks and out to have a good time with people and you know, even talking to people, going to concerts helped bring their moral back up. Doing stuff that makes you happy keeps your mind from thinking on the bad things. And friends you could lean on, friends who help that person see the good thing in life also helps.

I wrote what i find helpful and what i've seen helped other people around me. It didn't magically make everything go away, but it helped.
So cut your arrogant attitude and insulting tone towards me.

Well everyone with depression is different, but generally some "light" anti depressents (like amitriptyline) and doing something productive is the way forward. Like working out, once you start doing something postive it makes you feel a bit better. Or studying. Or getting better at somehting like playing an instrument...

-Sh1fty- wrote:

chat for 5 days straight - now no texts in 24 hours - won't reply to my text.

maybe you seemed too desperate. shit chat for 5 days without going out? what sort of shit is this.

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

UnkleRukus wrote:

Chatting up this girl who came in for a key, she told me where she worked and that i should stop by sometime. How soon is to soon and how late is too late?

4 days

Advice on girl problems from Hurricane...

Well I asked her what she was doing Monday last, and she hasn't replied. Wanted to take her out then for ice cream and whatnot.

Didn't act needy, we just chatted for 5 days. Not like every minute text. Just a text or two every other hour.

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Well I asked her what she was doing Monday last, and she hasn't replied. Wanted to take her out then for ice cream and whatnot.

wtf is she twelve? take her out for ice cream lol.