Jaekus wrote:
Probably?
You'll either move on, find someone else who actually won't fuck you around, or continue to get fucked around.
Chicks like her aren't worth the time of day.
Yeah, I just won't bother then. I feel bad though because I know she's gonna ask me again and I know she really hates how things changed, she once told somebody else who then told me that she felt like I was all about sex now and wished we could just go back to being friends like before. I just can't do it though, I need to get myself together or find someone else or get some experience or something, nothing has changed since August.
HaiBai wrote:
do you just want sex or do you actually want a relationship?
I want both
Sex I think would be easy enough to get just by asking for it in the right circumstances, but I think if it was ever on the table again as an offer, I wouldn't know how to nonverbally escalate my way to it unless she took the lead and I think I would still be thinking really hard about everything unless she could keep me relaxed. I have a rough idea of what to do, I'd just be worried about doing it right but if a girl is legitimately turned on then I guess that wouldn't really matter
A relationship really requires you to know what you're doing to make the other person want you that way. I've actually been able to do that once but that was like 4 years ago, it was still the best feeling I've ever felt in my life to actually be liked back and know it. But I was too direct about wanting to hang out outside of school so nothing ever progressed beyond a mutual crush and then it died when the school year ended. I still never liked anybody as much as I liked her.
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