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_j5689_ wrote:

tuckergustav wrote:

Wall of text....
"I might like you more if you would just do things instead of having to talk about it"


yeah, shut up and drive.

That's one of my biggest problems with making advances, I can't tell if they're receptive or not to it.

I really wanted to when she randomly decided to just sit down on my couch after we went grocery shopping one day.  I thought we were just gonna go straight to my friends house but she just sat on my couch like we were gonna hang out there and she was playin on her phone and I sat next to her and I wanted so badly to do something because I felt like she wanted me to by stayin there, just the two of us alone, but she wasn't looking up or giving off any signs that I knew of and I didn't want to push it and fuck up if she wasn't interested or I did it the wrong way.

That's what she would want though, me taking control

Start small and work from there. Don't try to kiss her straight up, touch her innocently and don't linger. If she doesn't seem to mind, later on touch her hair or hold her hand for a second and let it go. You'll get a vibe if she's cool or not. Keep going till you get to a kiss. And make it all seem pretty normal, rather than like it's some big thing you're doing, that will just weird her out. And if it isn't cool with her, back off.

Also, stop analysing everything so much. You're making this a mountain out of a molehill.

the best way to probe I have found is to stick your pee pee into their poopoo valve

works everytime, and if it doesnt, atleast you get off.

Cybargs wrote:

i notice the people you choose to hang out with influences the type of girls you get.

qft

Jaekus wrote:

Laura wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

i notice the people you choose to hang out with influences the type of girls you get.

qft

qftqft

hardly rocket science

Kmar wrote:

Jaekus wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

That's one of my biggest problems with making advances, I can't tell if they're receptive or not to it.

I really wanted to when she randomly decided to just sit down on my couch after we went grocery shopping one day.  I thought we were just gonna go straight to my friends house but she just sat on my couch like we were gonna hang out there and she was playin on her phone and I sat next to her and I wanted so badly to do something because I felt like she wanted me to by stayin there, just the two of us alone, but she wasn't looking up or giving off any signs that I knew of and I didn't want to push it and fuck up if she wasn't interested or I did it the wrong way.

That's what she would want though, me taking control

Start small and work from there. Don't try to kiss her straight up, touch her innocently and don't linger. If she doesn't seem to mind, later on touch her hair or hold her hand for a second and let it go. You'll get a vibe if she's cool or not. Keep going till you get to a kiss. And make it all seem pretty normal, rather than like it's some big thing you're doing, that will just weird her out. And if it isn't cool with her, back off.

Also, stop analysing everything so much. You're making this a mountain out of a molehill.

Also, also.. the eyes don't lie. As ghey as that might sound it's true ..lol. That is how I've always determined said "vibe". Make sure you are relaxed. If you are, then it's more likely she will be. And if she is relaxed then she is comfortable.. everyone wants to be comfortable when that time comes. Be patient and don't overdue the probing (testing like Jaekus said).

I can't remember the last time that liking her didn't make me uptight from worrying about what to do, lol.  There has been several times though where I made her laugh and then she looked at me with what looked like that intensely focused "you're the one" kind of look but I think I've seen her do that to several guys when they make her laugh and there's not any other indicators that pop out at me and that's what I need, and if there's enough then I can move forward with innuendo.  Breaking the touch barrier is really scary, I'm pretty sure I won't be able to do it and come off naturally, I always feel retarded when I even try

I think I need to be drunk or high just to be normal about this, but one of those could work...

Time to join the computer club

Adams_BJ wrote:

the best way to probe I have found is to stick your pee pee into their poopoo valve

That is the exact thing that popped into my mind after reading that post

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

i notice the people you choose to hang out with influences the type of girls you get.

this may explain my major problems with female interaction when my social circle consisted of /b/tards

You can have more than one social circle, each one completely disconnected from the others.

_j5689_ wrote:

Kmar wrote:

Jaekus wrote:

Start small and work from there. Don't try to kiss her straight up, touch her innocently and don't linger. If she doesn't seem to mind, later on touch her hair or hold her hand for a second and let it go. You'll get a vibe if she's cool or not. Keep going till you get to a kiss. And make it all seem pretty normal, rather than like it's some big thing you're doing, that will just weird her out. And if it isn't cool with her, back off.

Also, stop analysing everything so much. You're making this a mountain out of a molehill.

Also, also.. the eyes don't lie. As ghey as that might sound it's true ..lol. That is how I've always determined said "vibe". Make sure you are relaxed. If you are, then it's more likely she will be. And if she is relaxed then she is comfortable.. everyone wants to be comfortable when that time comes. Be patient and don't overdue the probing (testing like Jaekus said).

I can't remember the last time that liking her didn't make me uptight from worrying about what to do, lol.  There has been several times though where I made her laugh and then she looked at me with what looked like that intensely focused "you're the one" kind of look but I think I've seen her do that to several guys when they make her laugh and there's not any other indicators that pop out at me and that's what I need, and if there's enough then I can move forward with innuendo.  Breaking the touch barrier is really scary, I'm pretty sure I won't be able to do it and come off naturally, I always feel retarded when I even try

I think I need to be drunk or high just to be normal about this, but one of those could work...

You're still thinking about it too much, when you need to be doing something about it.

Otherwise you're going to spend the next 6 months posting on here and no results. It's like me posting on here about how much I would like to visit Germany. All I do is think and talk about Germany, but if I never do anything like book a plane ticket or save money etc, I'm never going to Germany.

Man up.

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

i notice the people you choose to hang out with influences the type of girls you get.

this may explain my major problems with female interaction when my social circle consisted of /b/tards