just find a common thread. yeah, approaching someone out of the blue can be daunting but surely you can pull something out of your ass in class no?RTHKI wrote:
free back rubsStimey wrote:
I'm terrible at initiating.
Not with women, but everyone in general. Once I get through that initial barrier its all hands on deck though.
Tips?
surprise sex is always good.FatherTed wrote:
its more surprise sex anyway
but what?Hurricane2k9 wrote:
just find a common thread. yeah, approaching someone out of the blue can be daunting but surely you can pull something out of your ass in class no?RTHKI wrote:
free back rubsStimey wrote:
I'm terrible at initiating.
Not with women, but everyone in general. Once I get through that initial barrier its all hands on deck though.
Tips?
fyi if you gotta rely on alcohol to do shit or help then you got a problem. alcoholic or otherwise, no offense.FatherTed wrote:
(a) drink, but don't overdo it. otherwise you'll be that guy at the partyStimey wrote:
I'm terrible at initiating.
Not with women, but everyone in general. Once I get through that initial barrier its all hands on deck though.
Tips?
I assumed when you said balls, you mean't going up to a girl, being a douchebag saying let's fuck.Cybargs wrote:
No but you need the balls to talk to her first and establish a connection. Can't be like hur dur we never talked lets fucked. You need to create and keep attraction. Read the game niggaRoc18 wrote:
If a girl wants to have sex with you it's eventually gonna happen if both sides want it to happen. Balls have nothing to do with it. It all depends on if she's attracted to you, not your ballzyness.Cybargs wrote:
no balls is the issue.
we were at a costume party full of azn bitches
GROW SOME GODDAMN BALLS thats how you get pussy.
This book actually works, haters gonna hate.
so, in other words, it tells you to talk to people? its pretty useless, i could get that kind of advice from, say, a gaming forumCybargs wrote:
It's pretty much a book for people who can't really connect with people. You can learn anything from a book, it's just how you apply it. The book isn't like follow these steps everything goes good, its more like try try try try do it. You can't be good at say basketball just by watching NBA games, you gotta go out and play.Winston_Churchill wrote:
thats just being able to connect with people, not something a book teaches you.
helped me out and got pussy. It's a last resort for the most desperate of men. besides actually going to a pick up work shop lol. It does tell you how to talk to women, how to change yourself to get women. still a strong "be yourself" vibe. and how to get out of tricky situation when youre hitting on a girl with a bouncer boyfriend.Winston_Churchill wrote:
so, in other words, it tells you to talk to people? its pretty useless, i could get that kind of advice from, say, a gaming forumCybargs wrote:
It's pretty much a book for people who can't really connect with people. You can learn anything from a book, it's just how you apply it. The book isn't like follow these steps everything goes good, its more like try try try try do it. You can't be good at say basketball just by watching NBA games, you gotta go out and play.Winston_Churchill wrote:
thats just being able to connect with people, not something a book teaches you.
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reminds me of that episode of Family Guy where Quagmire was teaching Pick up classes.Cybargs wrote:
helped me out and got pussy. It's a last resort for the most desperate of men. besides actually going to a pick up work shop lol. It does tell you how to talk to women, how to change yourself to get women. still a strong "be yourself" vibe. and how to get out of tricky situation when youre hitting on a girl with a bouncer boyfriend.Winston_Churchill wrote:
so, in other words, it tells you to talk to people? its pretty useless, i could get that kind of advice from, say, a gaming forumCybargs wrote:
It's pretty much a book for people who can't really connect with people. You can learn anything from a book, it's just how you apply it. The book isn't like follow these steps everything goes good, its more like try try try try do it. You can't be good at say basketball just by watching NBA games, you gotta go out and play.
roc: read that book when i was 16 in 2007. so lol.
grow balls gents, grow balls.
pretty muchRoc18 wrote:
reminds me of that episode of Family Guy where Quagmire was teaching Pick up classes.Cybargs wrote:
helped me out and got pussy. It's a last resort for the most desperate of men. besides actually going to a pick up work shop lol. It does tell you how to talk to women, how to change yourself to get women. still a strong "be yourself" vibe. and how to get out of tricky situation when youre hitting on a girl with a bouncer boyfriend.Winston_Churchill wrote:
so, in other words, it tells you to talk to people? its pretty useless, i could get that kind of advice from, say, a gaming forum
roc: read that book when i was 16 in 2007. so lol.
grow balls gents, grow balls.
andros wrote:
meh you guys overthink this shit too much.
look presentable, be confident, be nice, show interest, and be yourself.
inb4 lolgirladvicefromandroo
become a bartender for a while.Stimey wrote:
Tips?
bartenders get loads of chicks. guess theyre forced to kinda socialize with people as part of their job.CC-Marley wrote:
become a bartender for a while.Stimey wrote:
Tips?
any job like that helps. I became noticeably more social after I worked as a cashier in a supermarket during college. it didn't change me in any drastic way but it was just easier to hold conversations or initiate a conversation with people (girls)Cybargs wrote:
bartenders get loads of chicks. guess theyre forced to kinda socialize with people as part of their job.CC-Marley wrote:
become a bartender for a while.Stimey wrote:
Tips?
