The BF2s girl-problems thread

2010-10-03 05:27:35

#5776

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|6692|Devon, England

Of course you're thinking that, but if she's true to what she says, she won't be pulling anyone or allow herself to be pulled.

Other than that, I don't know what to say. Break ups can be unbelievably painful and sometimes all you want is to go back, but unfortunately it doesn't always work out like that.

Good luck, though. You'll think of something, just don't seem sad and desperate.

2010-10-03 06:50:20

#5777

presidentsheep: Back to the Fuhrer; +208|5963|Places 'n such

FFLink wrote:
just don't seem sad and desperate.

This. Be a man and she'll see something she wants in you, play it cool and it'll work out. Seem sad and desperate and she'll move on, fast. Then that stuff you're worrying about will happen.

I'd type my pc specs out all fancy again but teh mods would remove it. Again.

2010-10-04 19:42:26

#5778

13urnzz: Banned; +5,830|6499

two halves make a whole.

two wholes make a couple . . .

2010-10-04 19:46:05

#5779

13urnzz: Banned; +5,830|6499

if you didn't let her go, she'd be torn. you can't keep her right now, you're torn.
between the two of you, you'd make a whole.

when you both come together as a whole person, when you both have your shit together, you'd be two whole people, making a couple.

2010-10-04 19:51:19

#5780

13urnzz: Banned; +5,830|6499

i married at 28. it was worth the wait.
and i wouldn't recommend it for anyone else, i did it because i knew i could give my wife, me.

2010-10-04 19:52:27

#5781

tuckergustav: ...; +1,590|5915|...

i think he means that if you feel like you need another person to make you feel complete then it doesn't make for a good relationship...

spend time figuring out how to be complete on your own, then find another complete person...

I see that it has been answered already...but i typed this shit out on my phone...i'm posting it lol

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2010-10-04 19:55:55

#5782

tuckergustav: ...; +1,590|5915|...

burnzz wrote:
i married at 28. it was worth the wait.
and i wouldn't recommend it for anyone else, i did it because i knew i could give my wife, me.

i agree that waiting is worth it...we were 27 and 32.

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2010-10-04 19:59:19

#5783

Morpheus: This shit still going?; +508|6001|The Mitten

"everything dies, baby that's a fact. But maybe everything that dies, someday comes back."
reading over this page, I kinda think I know how you feel. Yea, it sucks.
When I broke up with my first girlfriend, it hurt, because it was emotionally involved... but looking back on it, I do think it was for the better.
TBH, there were things that i was overlooking because I thought I found "the one"... I might not have the years that Burnzz does, but I'll say that you need to want the relationship for the right reasons - both of you do. If you're not really sure what the "right reason" is, then you probably haven't found it.

EE (hats

2010-10-04 20:00:08

#5784

Morpheus: This shit still going?; +508|6001|The Mitten

tuckergustav wrote:
i think he means that if you feel like you need another person to make you feel complete then it doesn't make for a good relationship...

spend time figuring out how to be complete on your own, then find another complete person...

I see that it has been answered already...but i typed this shit out on my phone...i'm posting it lol

this is kinda what I meant to say.... way to be better at it and faster than me, tuck...

EE (hats

2010-10-04 20:09:04

#5785

.:ronin:.|Patton: Respekct dad i love u always; +946|6811|Marathon, Florida Keys

I've officially graduated from "pick up girls" school. I convinced 2 virgins (best friends) to have a threesome with me....im still in disbelief. Now im going on to grad school for "how to get a girlfriend and maintain a relationship". will report my grades in a week or two.

https://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g117/patton1337/stats.jpg

2010-10-04 20:13:19

#5786

tuckergustav: ...; +1,590|5915|...

Well, I suppose at this point it doesn't matter...unless it makes you feel better.

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2010-10-04 20:23:46

#5787

tuckergustav: ...; +1,590|5915|...

Sounds like she went from one serious relationship into another...she needs time to breath...she was likely to suffocate and you both would have ended up miserable.

Pro-tip: Don't date someone that recently ended a long term relationship(recent is 6 months or less) if you might want to make a go of it.

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2010-10-04 20:23:58

#5788

Morpheus: This shit still going?; +508|6001|The Mitten

Camm wrote:
tuckergustav wrote:
Well, I suppose at this point it doesn't matter...unless it makes you feel better.
Makes me feel worse if I'm honest. Feels like I've missed the bus. I know that sounds stupid since I'm only 20 and settling down now would be foolish, but I like to think we could have gone all the way.

Yea, i know the feeling.

Just go to sleep, it'll feel better in the morning.

No it won't. it'll still suck, but at least some more time will have passed.

EE (hats

2010-10-05 03:56:19

#5789

tuckergustav: ...; +1,590|5915|...

http://www.cracked.com/article_18673_6- … think.html

this article should cheer you up...or not.

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2010-10-05 04:09:55

#5790

Ultrafunkula: Hector: Ding, ding, ding, ding...; +1,975|6475|6 6 4 oh, I forget

tuckergustav wrote:
http://www.cracked.com/article_18673_6-scientific-reasons-breakups-suck-worse-than-you-think.html

this article should cheer you up...or not.

Funny thing. Me and a friend of mine broke up with our ladies we had at the time on the same day. Well I ditched mine and he got dumped by his.
A serious 5 year party gear kicked in at that moment. And now I'm heading towards the happy shipwreck of marriage 5 years after the party gear broke itself.

2010-10-13 18:27:54

#5791

Runs_with_sciss0rs: Well butter my buscuit; +121|6193|14072

Hey bf2s, I know I don't post here much, but I need really help.

Pretty much, the girl of my dreams just broke my fucking heart.. I do not know what to do right now, I'm crushed. I haven't eaten in 2 fucking days, I cant even keep food down im so upset. Please, any advise would be awesome. thank you

2010-10-13 18:30:40

#5792

Bevo: Nah; +718|6522|Austin, Texas

How old are you?

2010-10-13 18:32:17

#5793

Runs_with_sciss0rs: Well butter my buscuit; +121|6193|14072

I will be 20 in a few months. I've been with her for 2 and a half years

2010-10-13 19:28:29

#5794

FEOS: Bellicose Yankee Air Pirate; +1,182|6412|'Murka

Runs_with_sciss0rs wrote:
Hey bf2s, I know I don't post here much, but I need really help.

Pretty much, the girl of my dreams just broke my fucking heart.. I do not know what to do right now, I'm crushed. I haven't eaten in 2 fucking days, I cant even keep food down im so upset. Please, any advise would be awesome. thank you

I think we'll need more info.

What did the bad girl do?

“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
― Albert Einstein
Doing the popular thing is not always right. Doing the right thing is not always popular

2010-10-13 19:44:41

#5795

Macbeth: Banned; +2,444|5587

I'm sorry for your lose.

Last edited by Macbeth (2010-10-13 19:45:48)

2010-10-13 19:54:20

#5796

Runs_with_sciss0rs: Well butter my buscuit; +121|6193|14072

FEOS wrote:
Runs_with_sciss0rs wrote:
Hey bf2s, I know I don't post here much, but I need really help.

Pretty much, the girl of my dreams just broke my fucking heart.. I do not know what to do right now, I'm crushed. I haven't eaten in 2 fucking days, I cant even keep food down im so upset. Please, any advise would be awesome. thank you
I think we'll need more info.

What did the bad girl do?

She just ended it, that's it. She won't return my calls or texts or anything, so I don't even know why.

She called me up the other day, said she wanted to go for a walk. So we met up, and even before we went on the walk she told me that she was breaking up with me, and told me the typical its not my fault, but hers.. then she got into her truck and left.

2010-10-13 20:25:47

#5797

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|6692|Devon, England

Wow, man, that really sucks. Some women are fucked up. Were there any clues beforehand that it was gonna end?

2010-10-13 20:33:28

#5798

Runs_with_sciss0rs: Well butter my buscuit; +121|6193|14072

No none at all, we weren't fighting or anything.

I just want to talk to her so badly, it's killing me

2010-10-13 20:37:33

#5799

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|6692|Devon, England

It sucks but all you can do is wait until she 'mans' up and lets you find out what the hell went wrong.

Really feeling for you, can't think of anything worse at the moment

2010-10-13 20:40:47

#5800

Trotskygrad: бля; +354|6001|Vortex Ring State

ask her if she needs any help finding a new boyfriend

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