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2010-04-07 08:55:34
FatherTed
xD
+3,936|6983|so randum

burnzz wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

"I’m glad I had this relationship. It taught me a lot about life. And it taught me a lot about myself. And now I’ve got beautiful memories that will last me the rest of my life. I may have lost a boyfriend, but I’ve still got friends. He’s still one of them, I hope."
jesus wept. you just broke up with a romance novel . . .
i swear my breakups went more like 'this isn't working v well is it? 'nah, dont think it is' 'breakup shag?' 'yea go on then'
Small hourglass island
Always raining and foggy
Use an umbrella
2010-04-07 09:10:46
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7239|Scotland

Lai wrote:

Ehehehe,.. Evgeny Bazarov!

Tactic wouldn't work for me though, simply because I wouldn't bother with a girl I've just met, but I guess that's personal.
That's where you and me differ. The less I know about the girl at the start of the night, the better... I'm too perceptive at times and hate myself for it, which is why I have to scavenge for girls that I don't know too well to do something with. The more I know of the girl, the less likely I am to attempt anything.

I read body language and conversations pretty well (trust me lads who think that being able to do this is a big ++, it isn't. It helps to be oblivious, seriously) and therefore the less I know about the girl, the more confident I am to talk normally to her and she is to me. I usually get girls to open up to me quite easily, and from then on I'll make a move. If I know a girl, even if just casually, I'm more hesitant when it comes to talk to her... usually because I've already realised what kind of guy she likes, how she reacts to enjoying herself etc etc.

It's not nice being able to read situations well, I'd rather be in the dark. Anyone care to swap positions?
2010-04-07 09:33:33
Lai
Member
+186|6634

Zimmer wrote:

That's where you and me differ. The less I know about the girl at the start of the night, the better... I'm too perceptive at times and hate myself for it, which is why I have to scavenge for girls that I don't know too well to do something with. The more I know of the girl, the less likely I am to attempt anything.

I read body language and conversations pretty well (trust me lads who think that being able to do this is a big ++, it isn't. It helps to be oblivious, seriously) and therefore the less I know about the girl, the more confident I am to talk normally to her and she is to me. I usually get girls to open up to me quite easily, and from then on I'll make a move. If I know a girl, even if just casually, I'm more hesitant when it comes to talk to her... usually because I've already realised what kind of guy she likes, how she reacts to enjoying herself etc etc.

It's not nice being able to read situations well, I'd rather be in the dark. Anyone care to swap positions?
Actually I wouldn't mind for once, it would be an interesting experience. The thing is I don't wait because knowing a girl makes me more comfortable talking to her, I simply don't care. By the time I do, I have often made things overly complicated for myself. On the plus side, being perceptive does allow you to make better moves.

ghettoperson wrote:

Lai wrote:

Ehehehe,.. Evgeny Bazarov!

Tactic wouldn't work for me though, simply because I wouldn't bother with a girl I've just met, but I guess that's personal.
Yes, but we've already gathered you don't smile at girls because you're so incredibly Russian. Or Dutch. Or something.
Wow,.. seriously, what did the dentist do to you? Wanna talk about it?
2010-04-07 09:45:53
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7239|Scotland

For the small plus side there is, I'd rather not be so perceptive. You find that all the girls you'd like to be with are just impossible or never gonna work.

Interesting experience? Yes. Good experience? Not often.

That's why I play the game of the mystery girl, because even though I can tell it wont work, I want to prove myself wrong.
2010-04-07 09:50:20
-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5956|Ventura, California
So I found this amazing girl. I see her only on Fridays. We're part of this group...it's a long story.

Anyway, I really like her a lot, and I'd like to spend more time to get to know her, sadly it's not just for 2 hours on Fridays that I'm going to get anywhere.

Is there any way of doing something with her like hanging out or whatever without making it totally obvious?
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
2010-04-07 09:50:47
..teddy..jimmy
Member
+1,393|7132

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Well, it's over. I mean, it pretty much was last night, but this morning I saw on her blog a post about how I broke up with her last night. So even though I never said "it's over" I think she understood that it was.

Is it strange that I'm not super sad or anything? I have this feeling in my gut, the kind you get because of something bad or emotional, but it's not like I'm bawling.

Also, when should I change my Facebook relationship status? Yeah I know it's silly but I mean, I think we've both accepted that it's over. Her profile picture is just her now. Should I just do it?
God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
2010-04-07 09:51:48
13urnzz
Banned
+5,830|6980

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
except that i'm married, teddy. for me it would be more shits than giggles . . .
2010-04-07 09:55:02
RTHKI
mmmf mmmf mmmf
+1,746|7220|Cinncinatti

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
that is a problem. a girl i know broke up with her boyfriend by changing her status on fb, didnt talk to him about it or anything

its also big in how i know what one of my other friends is doing.. he was single a couple days ago and is now in a relationship.. and he wont say anything wtf

Last edited by RTHKI (2010-04-07 09:56:15)

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2010-04-07 09:59:05
..teddy..jimmy
Member
+1,393|7132

burnzz wrote:

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
except that i'm married, teddy. for me it would be more shits than giggles . . .
keep the missus on her toes! A relationship status change will bust her ass into action, imply something is wrong resulting in more sex, food and blowjobs.
2010-04-07 10:03:12
ghettoperson
Member
+1,943|7132

-Sh1fty- wrote:

So I found this amazing girl. I see her only on Fridays. We're part of this group...it's a long story.

Anyway, I really like her a lot, and I'd like to spend more time to get to know her, sadly it's not just for 2 hours on Fridays that I'm going to get anywhere.

Is there any way of doing something with her like hanging out or whatever without making it totally obvious?
You want her to know you're into her. If she doesn't realise that they you fall into the 'lets just be friends' trap. Obviously you want to do it in a way that you can get to know each other and you don't come off as being a weird perve. If you guys get along well, why not invite her out for a drink/snack/coffee/whatever?
2010-04-07 10:12:06
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7239|Scotland

-Sh1fty- wrote:

So I found this amazing girl. I see her only on Fridays. We're part of this group...it's a long story.

Anyway, I really like her a lot, and I'd like to spend more time to get to know her, sadly it's not just for 2 hours on Fridays that I'm going to get anywhere.

Is there any way of doing something with her like hanging out or whatever without making it totally obvious?
Make it totally obvious. If you don't, you're gonna either fall in friends zone or do nothing with the opportunity of a relationship.
2010-04-07 10:16:31
Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
+1,538|6184|College Park, MD

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Well, it's over. I mean, it pretty much was last night, but this morning I saw on her blog a post about how I broke up with her last night. So even though I never said "it's over" I think she understood that it was.

Is it strange that I'm not super sad or anything? I have this feeling in my gut, the kind you get because of something bad or emotional, but it's not like I'm bawling.

Also, when should I change my Facebook relationship status? Yeah I know it's silly but I mean, I think we've both accepted that it's over. Her profile picture is just her now. Should I just do it?
God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
Next relationship I have I think I'll pass on the whole status thing.
https://static.bf2s.com/files/user/36793/marylandsig.jpg
2010-04-07 10:17:53
13urnzz
Banned
+5,830|6980

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

burnzz wrote:

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
except that i'm married, teddy. for me it would be more shits than giggles . . .
keep the missus on her toes! A relationship status change will bust her ass into action, imply something is wrong resulting in more sex, food and blowjobs.
2010-04-07 10:28:34
Bevo
Nah
+718|7003|Austin, Texas

Zimmer wrote:

Lai wrote:

Ehehehe,.. Evgeny Bazarov!

Tactic wouldn't work for me though, simply because I wouldn't bother with a girl I've just met, but I guess that's personal.
That's where you and me differ. The less I know about the girl at the start of the night, the better... I'm too perceptive at times and hate myself for it, which is why I have to scavenge for girls that I don't know too well to do something with. The more I know of the girl, the less likely I am to attempt anything.

I read body language and conversations pretty well (trust me lads who think that being able to do this is a big ++, it isn't. It helps to be oblivious, seriously) and therefore the less I know about the girl, the more confident I am to talk normally to her and she is to me. I usually get girls to open up to me quite easily, and from then on I'll make a move. If I know a girl, even if just casually, I'm more hesitant when it comes to talk to her... usually because I've already realised what kind of guy she likes, how she reacts to enjoying herself etc etc.

It's not nice being able to read situations well, I'd rather be in the dark. Anyone care to swap positions?
Would like to be completely oblivious as well. Write me down for a day of ignorance sirrah
2010-04-07 10:28:42
nukchebi0
Пушкин, наше всё
+387|6806|New Haven, CT

Zimmer wrote:

Lai wrote:

Ehehehe,.. Evgeny Bazarov!

Tactic wouldn't work for me though, simply because I wouldn't bother with a girl I've just met, but I guess that's personal.
That's where you and me differ. The less I know about the girl at the start of the night, the better... I'm too perceptive at times and hate myself for it, which is why I have to scavenge for girls that I don't know too well to do something with. The more I know of the girl, the less likely I am to attempt anything.

I read body language and conversations pretty well (trust me lads who think that being able to do this is a big ++, it isn't It helps to be oblivious, seriously) and therefore the less I know about the girl, the more confident I am to talk normally to her and she is to me. I usually get girls to open up to me quite easily, and from then on I'll make a move. If I know a girl, even if just casually, I'm more hesitant when it comes to talk to her... usually because I've already realised what kind of guy she likes, how she reacts to enjoying herself etc etc.

It's not nice being able to read situations well, I'd rather be in the dark. Anyone care to swap positions?
Seriously? I'm an absolute pro at that.
2010-04-07 10:32:05
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7239|Scotland

nukchebi0 wrote:

Zimmer wrote:

Lai wrote:

Ehehehe,.. Evgeny Bazarov!

Tactic wouldn't work for me though, simply because I wouldn't bother with a girl I've just met, but I guess that's personal.
That's where you and me differ. The less I know about the girl at the start of the night, the better... I'm too perceptive at times and hate myself for it, which is why I have to scavenge for girls that I don't know too well to do something with. The more I know of the girl, the less likely I am to attempt anything.

I read body language and conversations pretty well (trust me lads who think that being able to do this is a big ++, it isn't It helps to be oblivious, seriously) and therefore the less I know about the girl, the more confident I am to talk normally to her and she is to me. I usually get girls to open up to me quite easily, and from then on I'll make a move. If I know a girl, even if just casually, I'm more hesitant when it comes to talk to her... usually because I've already realised what kind of guy she likes, how she reacts to enjoying herself etc etc.

It's not nice being able to read situations well, I'd rather be in the dark. Anyone care to swap positions?
Seriously? I'm an absolute pro at that.
It works wonderfully if you like girls that are usually into you.

Or you don't chase girls that are emotional train wrecks.
2010-04-07 11:40:14
ghettoperson
Member
+1,943|7132

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Well, it's over. I mean, it pretty much was last night, but this morning I saw on her blog a post about how I broke up with her last night. So even though I never said "it's over" I think she understood that it was.

Is it strange that I'm not super sad or anything? I have this feeling in my gut, the kind you get because of something bad or emotional, but it's not like I'm bawling.

Also, when should I change my Facebook relationship status? Yeah I know it's silly but I mean, I think we've both accepted that it's over. Her profile picture is just her now. Should I just do it?
God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
Next relationship I have I think I'll pass on the whole status thing.
Don't do that, I fucking hate it when I'm Facebook stalking someone and it appears that they don't have a boyfriend when in fact they do.
2010-04-07 11:42:18
Uzique
dasein.
+2,865|6953
facebook has become a plague for the web2.0 lifestyle, it really has.

ordinarily fine relationships become games of Battleship involving stretched trust, paranoia and casually-accepted stalkery

it breeds neurosis, quite simply
libertarian benefit collector - anti-academic super-intellectual. http://mixlr.com/the-little-phrase/
2010-04-07 11:43:30
Bevo
Nah
+718|7003|Austin, Texas

ghettoperson wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

..teddy..jimmy wrote:


God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
Next relationship I have I think I'll pass on the whole status thing.
Don't do that, I fucking hate it when I'm Facebook stalking someone and it appears that they don't have a boyfriend when in fact they do.
Hm, mine fluctuates between single and unlisted every so often. I figure if they're interested I'll know about it, and can make it obvious past that.
2010-04-07 11:58:44
Uzique
dasein.
+2,865|6953
look, guys hunt the girls, so it doesnt matter whether you're single or unlisted. you're the motherfucking wolf, son, be what you want.
libertarian benefit collector - anti-academic super-intellectual. http://mixlr.com/the-little-phrase/
2010-04-07 11:59:19
Lai
Member
+186|6634

ghettoperson wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

..teddy..jimmy wrote:


God. I fucking hate how facebook is so decisive in modern day relationships. Change it to 'it's complicated' for shits and giggs.
Next relationship I have I think I'll pass on the whole status thing.
Don't do that, I fucking hate it when I'm Facebook stalking someone and it appears that they don't have a boyfriend when in fact they do.
Isn't the whole point of stalking that you do it regardless, regardless of that persons feelings or whether or not that person is already in a relationship?
2010-04-07 11:59:43
ruisleipa
Member
+149|6705|teh FIN-land

Uzique wrote:

look, guys hunt the girls, so it doesnt matter whether you're single or unlisted. you're the motherfucking wolf, son, be what you want.
lol fuckin casanova
2010-04-07 12:08:15
ghettoperson
Member
+1,943|7132

Lai wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:


Next relationship I have I think I'll pass on the whole status thing.
Don't do that, I fucking hate it when I'm Facebook stalking someone and it appears that they don't have a boyfriend when in fact they do.
Isn't the whole point of stalking that you do it regardless, regardless of that persons feelings or whether or not that person is already in a relationship?
I guess I meant a milder version of stalking then, just having a look at their page to see if they're single or not; rather than the obsessive photo watching that some people use it for.
2010-04-07 12:09:39
-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5956|Ventura, California

ghettoperson wrote:

-Sh1fty- wrote:

So I found this amazing girl. I see her only on Fridays. We're part of this group...it's a long story.

Anyway, I really like her a lot, and I'd like to spend more time to get to know her, sadly it's not just for 2 hours on Fridays that I'm going to get anywhere.

Is there any way of doing something with her like hanging out or whatever without making it totally obvious?
You want her to know you're into her. If she doesn't realise that they you fall into the 'lets just be friends' trap. Obviously you want to do it in a way that you can get to know each other and you don't come off as being a weird perve. If you guys get along well, why not invite her out for a drink/snack/coffee/whatever?
Sounds nice, you know a coffee/whatever, anyway that's always great to get to know somebody, but I'd never know what to do after that or whatever.

Cause, "Hey wana grab a drink?" would make me think, "ok then what?"

Talking is nice though. I like how she says hi first on FB
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
2010-04-07 12:32:30
nukchebi0
Пушкин, наше всё
+387|6806|New Haven, CT

Zimmer wrote:

nukchebi0 wrote:

Zimmer wrote:


That's where you and me differ. The less I know about the girl at the start of the night, the better... I'm too perceptive at times and hate myself for it, which is why I have to scavenge for girls that I don't know too well to do something with. The more I know of the girl, the less likely I am to attempt anything.

I read body language and conversations pretty well (trust me lads who think that being able to do this is a big ++, it isn't It helps to be oblivious, seriously) and therefore the less I know about the girl, the more confident I am to talk normally to her and she is to me. I usually get girls to open up to me quite easily, and from then on I'll make a move. If I know a girl, even if just casually, I'm more hesitant when it comes to talk to her... usually because I've already realised what kind of guy she likes, how she reacts to enjoying herself etc etc.

It's not nice being able to read situations well, I'd rather be in the dark. Anyone care to swap positions?
Seriously? I'm an absolute pro at that.
It works wonderfully if you like girls that are usually into you.

Or you don't chase girls that are emotional train wrecks.
No, I meant I have the same problem you do. It probably is the cause of some of my failures.

 

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