I have a friend thats very beautiful and intelligent (she's an Astrophysics PhD candidate). While I would be lying if I said I wasn't interested in her, I can be honest and say that it probably wouldn't work out so I probably wouldn't pursue her even if she were single.
She's had a boyfriend for 5 years now, and its her first relationship. She is incredibly naive about guys.
What would you think about their relationship, and him if I told you that:
They've been living 9 hours driving time apart for 2 and a half years now. He has yet to come visit her once. Not once...
While they've been together for 5 years, he won't have sex with her because he's afraid to get her pregnant. She is willing to...
Recently, they went on a vacation to Virginia. He took his parents. Let me say that again. They hadn't seen each other in a while, and he took his parents. I need to repeat this a few more times. He took his parents to go see his girlfriend. Took his parents... took his parents... sink in??
The pictures I always see of them together are always interesting. He looks like a gay guy afraid to touch a girl. The most recent one, he doesn't even have his arm around her. He is on one end of the picture, she on the other. She looks happy, he looks scared of her.
Summation, won't have sex with her, takes his parents to go see her, doesn't come visit her.
She is a good friend, and this is killing me. Its against my rules to get "involved" in someone else's relationship, but it pains me to see her thinking like she's going to marry this guy. I am pretty sure he is gay. Any guy that would refuse to have sex with this girl is a gay guy.
I am to the point where I am not going to talk to her anymore because it makes me laugh/angry so much. On the other hand, I almost want to stick around and see if my prediction holds true.
What does everyone think?
I should mention they are both 26.
She's had a boyfriend for 5 years now, and its her first relationship. She is incredibly naive about guys.
What would you think about their relationship, and him if I told you that:
They've been living 9 hours driving time apart for 2 and a half years now. He has yet to come visit her once. Not once...
While they've been together for 5 years, he won't have sex with her because he's afraid to get her pregnant. She is willing to...
Recently, they went on a vacation to Virginia. He took his parents. Let me say that again. They hadn't seen each other in a while, and he took his parents. I need to repeat this a few more times. He took his parents to go see his girlfriend. Took his parents... took his parents... sink in??
The pictures I always see of them together are always interesting. He looks like a gay guy afraid to touch a girl. The most recent one, he doesn't even have his arm around her. He is on one end of the picture, she on the other. She looks happy, he looks scared of her.
Summation, won't have sex with her, takes his parents to go see her, doesn't come visit her.
She is a good friend, and this is killing me. Its against my rules to get "involved" in someone else's relationship, but it pains me to see her thinking like she's going to marry this guy. I am pretty sure he is gay. Any guy that would refuse to have sex with this girl is a gay guy.
I am to the point where I am not going to talk to her anymore because it makes me laugh/angry so much. On the other hand, I almost want to stick around and see if my prediction holds true.
What does everyone think?
I should mention they are both 26.
Last edited by stratozyck (2008-06-23 13:27:41)