LividBovine
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God Save the Queen wrote:

then create OTHER threads
QFT
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6553|North Tonawanda, NY

nukchebi0 wrote:

But what is the definition of marriage?
Don't give me that "definition of marriage" baloney, because it's crap.

Marriage really has two purposes - a civil one and a religious one.  A lot of people blur the lines between the two because of tradition.  If a gay couple were to get married in a courthouse, by a judge, why should that not be called marriage?  I can understand particular churches not wanting to perform the religious ceremonies, and no one should try to make them.

There is nothing suggested that would force various religious groups to embrace and perform religious marriage ceremonies for homosexuals.  But there is a civil marriage (note that it uses the word "marriage"), which is secular, and should basically be blind to the genders involved.
LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN
Is the law to be written as such:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being?  What about polygamist's.  Is it now to be written:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being and a human being.  How should they be treated?  Why does having multiple wives have to be wrong if 2 men marrying is ok?  I don't see the difference.
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6553|North Tonawanda, NY

LividBovine wrote:

Is the law to be written as such:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being?  What about polygamist's.  Is it now to be written:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being and a human being.  How should they be treated?  Why does having multiple wives have to be wrong if 2 men marrying is ok?  I don't see the difference.
Equating gay marriage to polygamy is foolish.  Perhaps the law wants a one-to-one system for marriage, which certainly makes sense to me.  Except, I don't make the laws and I certainly didn't make the law against polygamy, so I don't know what motivated it.

Anyway, what's next?  Equating gay marriage to marrying dogs and other various creatures?  Be reasonable.
Deadmonkiefart
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FallenMorgan wrote:

Deadmonkiefart wrote:

Definition of marriage:  civil union between a man and a woman.  That has been the definition of marriage since before this country ever existed.   The majority of the country is against gay marriage.  The government can't suddenly change the definition of such a common word as "marriage" just to appease a tiny percentage of the population.  Gays are just being oversensitive.  Marriage is a tradition and being gay is not traditional.  So I don't see what they are wining about.  Gays should get a civil union with equal rights as a marriage.  It's as simple as that.
Civil rights laws were passed to appease a tiny percentage of the population of the southern states.  It's not about appeasement, it's about civil rights.  The constitution allowed freedom of religion, but in 1776 most of the population was protestant, and whatnot.  If it was laws to appease the majority with no reguard to civil rights, we'd be the Christian States of America.
They have the same civil rights as everyone else.  It's just not called "marriage".  Get over it.
Deadmonkiefart
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SenorToenails wrote:

Anyway, what's next?  Equating gay marriage to marrying dogs and other various creatures?  Be reasonable.
That's exactly what will happen next if polygamy becomes legal.
LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN

SenorToenails wrote:

LividBovine wrote:

Is the law to be written as such:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being?  What about polygamist's.  Is it now to be written:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being and a human being.  How should they be treated?  Why does having multiple wives have to be wrong if 2 men marrying is ok?  I don't see the difference.
Equating gay marriage to polygamy is foolish.  Perhaps the law wants a one-to-one system for marriage, which certainly makes sense to me.  Except, I don't make the laws and I certainly didn't make the law against polygamy, so I don't know what motivated it.

Anyway, what's next?  Equating gay marriage to marrying dogs and other various creatures?  Be reasonable.
I conciously stayed away from the whole other species topic. 

To me, polygamy and homosexuality are the same thing, wrong.

Last edited by LividBovine (2008-05-15 22:19:27)

"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6553|North Tonawanda, NY

Deadmonkiefart wrote:

They have the same civil rights as everyone else.  It's just not called "marriage".  Get over it.
Honest question:  What is it about the term "marriage" that makes it sacred?
nukchebi0
Пушкин, наше всё
+387|6746|New Haven, CT

SenorToenails wrote:

nukchebi0 wrote:

But what is the definition of marriage?
Don't give me that "definition of marriage" baloney, because it's crap.
Yeah, I guess that is mostly semantics.

Last edited by nukchebi0 (2008-05-15 22:23:50)

LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN
For me it is the one man one woman thing.  I don't agree with homosexuality at all.  I believe that people may be born that way, but with my beliefs, you abstain from acting on your nature.
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
Deadmonkiefart
Floccinaucinihilipilificator
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God Save the Queen wrote:

it took 100 years after the end of slavery for blacks to have the same rights as whites in society.
Ok., Way off topic.  It is really not very clever of you to start comparing gay marriage to Black civil rights.  The government does not discriminate against gays at all.  They are treated equally, like everyone else.  The government simply does not call same sex civil unions as "marriages".  It doesn't matter if you are gay or not.  You can be strait as hell and the government still won't call your civil union to someone of the same sex a "marriage".
Deadmonkiefart
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+177|7129

SenorToenails wrote:

Deadmonkiefart wrote:

They have the same civil rights as everyone else.  It's just not called "marriage".  Get over it.
Honest question:  What is it about the term "marriage" that makes it sacred?
Nothing makes it sacred to me, personally.  I currently have no religious affiliations whatsoever.  Care to read my post over again?




If you still don't understand, then here you go:  Marriage is a very commonly used word.  It has had a very specific definition for a long time.  Marriage is a civil union between a man and a woman.  Gays have equal rights.  Because they like the attention, they are complaining that they don't have equal civil rights, all because gay unions are called Civil Unions rather than "marriages".  The government cannot and will not change the definition of such a commonly used word, when that word is only defined that way by a tiny minority of America.  The majority of the population dictates the definitions of words and how they can be used.

Last edited by Deadmonkiefart (2008-05-15 22:35:04)

LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN
The federal government will not recognize and union or marriage of same sex couples.  They earn no federal rights in their union or marriage.
The federal government defines marriage and one man and one woman.
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
FallenMorgan
Member
+53|6337|Glendale, CA
Can I have one arguement against gay marriage rooted in logic and not personal beliefs?  Abortion is an example - it can be defined as murder through logical reasons, but can be rebutted through logical means.
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6553|North Tonawanda, NY

Deadmonkiefart wrote:

Nothing makes it sacred to me, personally.  I currently have no religious affiliations whatsoever.  Care to read my post over again?




If you still don't understand, then here you go:  Marriage is a very commonly used word.  It has had a very specific definition for a long time.  Marriage is a civil union between a man and a woman.  Gays have equal rights.  Because they like the attention, they are complaining that they don't have equal civil rights, all because gay unions are called Civil Unions rather than "marriages".  The government cannot and will not change the definition of such a commonly used word, when that word is only defined that way by a tiny minority of America.  The majority of the population dictates the definitions of words and how they can be used.
Woooo, condescension.  You're really not worth talking to.
Deadmonkiefart
Floccinaucinihilipilificator
+177|7129

SenorToenails wrote:

nukchebi0 wrote:

But what is the definition of marriage?
Don't give me that "definition of marriage" baloney, because it's crap.
Oh really?? It's crap you say?  In case you haven't noticed, this is the very thing that we have been debating about for several dozen years.  If I'm not mistaken, you were just part of that debate.  If this "baloney" you referred to is "crap", then you, my friend are perpetuating this endless cycle of crappy baloney.  You are the very same shitty sausage maker that you are putting down.
Deadmonkiefart
Floccinaucinihilipilificator
+177|7129

SenorToenails wrote:

Deadmonkiefart wrote:

Nothing makes it sacred to me, personally.  I currently have no religious affiliations whatsoever.  Care to read my post over again?




If you still don't understand, then here you go:  Marriage is a very commonly used word.  It has had a very specific definition for a long time.  Marriage is a civil union between a man and a woman.  Gays have equal rights.  Because they like the attention, they are complaining that they don't have equal civil rights, all because gay unions are called Civil Unions rather than "marriages".  The government cannot and will not change the definition of such a commonly used word, when that word is only defined that way by a tiny minority of America.  The majority of the population dictates the definitions of words and how they can be used.
Woooo, condescension.  You're really not worth talking to.
Ok... Is that your rebuttal?
LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN

FallenMorgan wrote:

Can I have one arguement against gay marriage rooted in logic and not personal beliefs?  Abortion is an example - it can be defined as murder through logical reasons, but can be rebutted through logical means.
Coming from the view point of yourself, my ideals are illogical.  Coming from my view point, they are logical.  You are basically saying that because you don't believe the same thing I do, my point is invalid and ilogical.  Now lets turn this into a religous debate, you know I love those.
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
liquix
Member
+51|6876|Peoples Republic of Portland

LividBovine wrote:

Is the law to be written as such:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being?  What about polygamist's.  Is it now to be written:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being and a human being.  How should they be treated?  Why does having multiple wives have to be wrong if 2 men marrying is ok?  I don't see the difference.
slippery slope fallacy
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6553|North Tonawanda, NY

Deadmonkiefart wrote:

Oh really?? It's crap you say?  In case you haven't noticed, this is the very thing that we have been debating about for several dozen years.  If I'm not mistaken, you were just part of that debate.  If this "baloney" you referred to is "crap", then you, my friend are perpetuating this endless cycle of crappy baloney.  You are the very same shitty sausage maker that you are putting down.
When marriage was defined, homosexuals were not tolerated in society.  Since the law never knew to take them into account way back, how could the traditional meaning of the word marriage be used as proof of anything today?  That was my point.

Try not to get personal.  I haven't insulted anyone here.
LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN

liquix wrote:

LividBovine wrote:

Is the law to be written as such:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being?  What about polygamist's.  Is it now to be written:  A marriage consists of human being and a human being and a human being.  How should they be treated?  Why does having multiple wives have to be wrong if 2 men marrying is ok?  I don't see the difference.
slippery slope fallacy
Thats funny, I had worded it that way originally, but I hate the term slippery slope.

I also wanted to keep the point on it being wrong in both cases, imho.
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
Deadmonkiefart
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SenorToenails wrote:

Deadmonkiefart wrote:

Oh really?? It's crap you say?  In case you haven't noticed, this is the very thing that we have been debating about for several dozen years.  If I'm not mistaken, you were just part of that debate.  If this "baloney" you referred to is "crap", then you, my friend are perpetuating this endless cycle of crappy baloney.  You are the very same shitty sausage maker that you are putting down.
When marriage was defined, homosexuals were not tolerated in society.  Since the law never knew to take them into account way back, how could the traditional meaning of the word marriage be used as proof of anything today?  That was my point.

Try not to get personal.  I haven't insulted anyone here.
I'm not getting personal.  Do you not have a sense of humor?
LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN

SenorToenails wrote:

Try not to get personal.  I haven't insulted anyone here.

SenorToenails wrote:

Equating gay marriage to polygamy is foolish...Be reasonable.

SenorToenails wrote:

Woooo, condescension.  You're really not worth talking to.
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)
SenorToenails
Veritas et Scientia
+444|6553|North Tonawanda, NY

LividBovine wrote:

SenorToenails wrote:

Try not to get personal.  I haven't insulted anyone here.
Neither of those are insults or personal attacks.

LividBovine wrote:

SenorToenails wrote:

Equating gay marriage to polygamy is foolish...Be reasonable.
That is not an insult.  I did not mock you in any way.

LividBovine wrote:

SenorToenails wrote:

Woooo, condescension.  You're really not worth talking to.
When I said "Try not to get personal", I was referring to this and that other post where I made that comment.

I don't even know why I bother trying to explain myself.
LividBovine
The Year of the Cow!
+175|6802|MN

SenorToenails wrote:

I don't even know why I bother trying to explain myself.
Maybe because you are taking something personally.  Internetz, srz.
"The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation" - Barack Obama (a freshman senator from Illinios)

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