I am really excited about the new Chinese girl. So Chinese girl I met in June...I have been seeing every weekend. Literally every Saturday and Sunday. She was the one I had to get a Plan B for.
That was not a pleasant experience and it has humbled me. Truly.
So while bored I looked at some profiles. I live so close to NYC that I am bound to match with someone if I look at enough profiles. I only flicked through 3 or 5. One of those very few was some Asian 27 year old. I clicked check mark. I get an alert sometime later that we matched. I have been talking to her for about a week. We are texting and getting to know each other and have enough stuff in common to discuss. I am going to ask her out sometime next week. She will probably say yes. I think a date will go well.
What about the first Chinese girl? It was an intense few weeks to say the least. The girl is kind of crazy about me and I do feel bad about the situation. But the new girl is prettier, a decade younger, lives nearby, has closer interest to mine. She also doesn't have very many friends in the area so she would also probably be happy to join my social circle. She seems like someone who would make me delete my apps. The first girl maybe should consider dating older men. I have a moral responsibility to myself to pursue happiness. My first date with the first girl was June 25th. Less than a month. It is not like we own a dog together. I will take full responsibility for being the bad partner here.
I have been texting the first Chinese girl (C.1.) less this week. I might lie to get out of hanging out Saturday. See what happens next week with the second Chinese girl (C.2) and then figure out a way to cut off C.1. We never added each other as Facebook friends so aside from my phone number and home address, she won't be able to contact me or see what I am up to. Not becoming Facebook friends with someone you are not committed to is a good idea. Write that down.
Last interesting bit is that I have been to a bunch of Chinese places the last few weeks with C.1. I am going to take C.2. to those exact same places because I know of them now. That brings me back to my original topic because I got distracted. Costco. If I see C.1. again I will go with to Costco to know what to do with C.2. on our trip to Costco. Why do people like Costco?