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Adams_BJ
Turns out you were cucked
+2,042|5616|Little Bentcock
show me pics and I will tell you
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

i would probably not really lose friends so much as not be able to hang out in big groups if she were there.  That's assuming it didn't work out.  We've had this same group of friends since we were like 15.  Anyway, we talked about it like adults and we are both completely on the same page.

She is not Asian, Macbeth.  Sorry to disappoint.
Jay
Bork! Bork! Bork!
+2,003|4352|London, England

KEN-JENNINGS wrote:

i would probably not really lose friends so much as not be able to hang out in big groups if she were there.  That's assuming it didn't work out.  We've had this same group of friends since we were like 15.  Anyway, we talked about it like adults and we are both completely on the same page.

She is not Asian, Macbeth.  Sorry to disappoint.
What is "the same page"? Valuing avoiding awkwardness more than a possible lasting relationship? Or going for it?
"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
-Frederick Bastiat
DesertFox-
The very model of a modern major general
+763|5679|United States of America
How badly would a relationship have to implode that you would lose your group of friends? You don't have to completely cut a person out of your life if you knew them, dated them, and it didn't work out. If you two find you work well together, it's even more unlikely that would happen.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

same page meaning making sure we don't ruin OUR existing friendship in the rush to start dating.  Most relationships I've been in I haven't really known the person too well when we started dating.  I've been friends with this chick for over 10 years.  I've never really had a good friend that I ended up dating. 

We gonna keep it on the down low for now though.  Keep it quiet bf2s!

@desert: it's not so much losing a big group as much as fracturing a few groups inside that group.
Jay
Bork! Bork! Bork!
+2,003|4352|London, England

KEN-JENNINGS wrote:

same page meaning making sure we don't ruin OUR existing friendship in the rush to start dating.  Most relationships I've been in I haven't really known the person too well when we started dating.  I've been friends with this chick for over 10 years.  I've never really had a good friend that I ended up dating. 

We gonna keep it on the down low for now though.  Keep it quiet bf2s!

@desert: it's not so much losing a big group as much as fracturing a few groups inside that group.
It's cali though, as long as neither of you gain weight or start voting republican you shouldn't lose any friends
"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
-Frederick Bastiat
unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+1,903|5766|USA

Two people I knew from a group of friends in college dated for awhile, and it didn't work out. Now they dislike each other and one of them doesn't really talk to me any longer since I didn't take sides. Hope it works out for you, ken. And if not, well, let's hope it doesn't turn silly.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

she's a fit model so her job is tied to her weight.  not gonna happen anytime soon.
Cybargs
Moderated
+2,268|5710
just go for it. i don't think people are that petty anymore.
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pirana6
Go Cougs!
+640|5285|Washington St.
what would you regret more, doing nothing and wish you had 5 years from now? or going for it and losing friends after you break up?
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

i don't know, that was the whole reason i turned to you nerds for perspective.
DesertFox-
The very model of a modern major general
+763|5679|United States of America
We are relationship experts, after all.
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+471|2713
At least you know you will always have someone you can leave or cheat on your partner with guaranteed.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

what?
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+471|2713
If you remain friends with her and not peruse this, you can put her on the back-burner. And if you ever get a partner you don't care about or if you need a way out, you can fall back on her because you know she's there.
Steve-0
Karma limited. Contact Admin to Be Promoted.
+210|2954|SL,UT

SuperJail Warden wrote:

fall back on her
if you*re falling back on women you*re doing it wrong. even blademaster knew that . . .
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

SuperJail Warden wrote:

If you remain friends with her and not peruse this, you can put her on the back-burner. And if you ever get a partner you don't care about or if you need a way out, you can fall back on her because you know she's there.
yes
Dilbert_X
The X stands for
+1,739|5100|eXtreme to the maX
Go for it now you idiot.
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KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

already done.  I don't know how else to respond to macbeth's nonsense other than "yes"
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+471|2713
It was excellent advice. I am sorry you aren't mature enough to see that.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

how's your love life doin', casanova?
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+471|2713
It is being managed by someone responsible enough not to need a discussion group to determine whether he should get a girlfriend.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,915|5626|949

is this same person the one who consistently fetishizes other ethnicities, has openly compared his cousin to a porn star, and has previously mentioned his desire to statutorily rape high schoolers?
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+471|2713
I don't recall that part about high schoolers.
uziq
Member
+399|2446
my dating game be strong, yo

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