The photos in I saw it looked like she wasn't wearing a bra and I saw exposed shoulders. In every photo he has this perpetually surprised look on his face. I don't know what to make of this.
I archived our messages so I don't have to confront her image every time I open Whatsapp. I will respect her marriage until she doesn't.
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At the point I am not even worried about being cucked myself. My girlfriend leaves her phone unlocked and I am not even tempted to look. I will just get stoned and get over it.
on the one hand, feeling no need to look at your girlfriend's phone/email/unlocked journal/etc. is either a sign that you're mature and secure ... or that you've dominated her so comprehensively that you don't even have to lift an eyebrow.
on the other hand, stalking exes' social media profiles or spending time looking through their photos is a sign you're not doing too well, champ.