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SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
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Every trainwreck starts with a first date. I don't get nervous about first dates anymore.
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Dauntless
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SuperJail Warden wrote:

I am not perfect and I realize I sent this girl on an emotional rollercoaster. I didn't understand how my actions affected her. And I took her emotions for granted. I learned important lessons and I will do better next time.

I did enjoy having a monogamous relationship for as long as it lasted. That is definitely something I would want again with a different person.

I am not angry at her or anything. I wish her the best. I am grateful to her for the opportunity to practice being in a relationship with someone. I am sorry I turned her into a puddle and I spent like 12 hours yesterday on the phone with her while she was laid up in bed depressed.

I DID NOT reactivate my dating apps. I want to just be single and work on myself until spring maybe summer. I have some graduate stuff I needed to do. When spring rolls back around, I am not going to be weird about getting as much as I can. I was sad yesterday when I didn't get a 'Good morning' text from her.

We had some fundamental differences in life and if she or anyone else said I used this as an opportunity to break up with her while also loading her with the blame for it I wouldn't debate it.
Sorry to hear it didn't work out mac and hope you're not feeling too down.

I only skimmed over the last few pages but this sounds like a pretty healthy attitude (apart from the 12 hour phone call).

Focus on the positives
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Dauntless
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Larssen wrote:

I don't have social media so no issues there. Date #1 is  down and brother did I get catfished lmao. She was a good looking girl but didnt resemble her pictures at all.

This was actually my first online date ever haha. God the first 5 minutes of this stuff are awkward as fuck
Onwards and upwards Larssen

If you've not found anyone you like in your current dating line up I highly recommend Hinge for good quality matches.
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uziq
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hinge > bumble > okcupid > tinder.

there are some better apps/services beyond hinge but they become increasingly expensive and kinda tryhard. 'elite networks' and 'high net worth' type apps. or even things like guardian dating were good, back in its hey-day, for meeting people who had at least 1.5 degrees and knew the difference between salman rushdie and a salmagundi.

tinder is lumpenproletariat trash. and i imagine facebook dating is too. macbeth is, i am low-key certain, dating 3/10s on the regular to 'build up confidence'. do not use these apps and be skeptical of his encouragement, larssen.
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+609|3264

uziq wrote:

macbeth is, i am low-key certain, dating 3/10s on the regular to 'build up confidence'.
I think you moved to Korea to play internet dating on easy mode. Didn't you pick that place because they like the shape of your face?
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uziq
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lmao i had no idea about korea's 'face shape' preferences when i was living in bristol, UK. the aesthetic standards of a place 10,000km away wasn't on my radar, believe it or not.

i never struggled in my dating life in the UK. you, on the other hand, resemble a person who recently graduated high-school and has just discovered the feminine sex. your recent dalliances are incredibly callow.
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+609|3264
Your dating life in the U.K. included a domestic violence incident.

Uzique wrote:

I made friends with the girl afterward.
So did plenty of women who got merc'd by their husbands.
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uziq
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i was 19. you're in your 30s and you're not behaving any differently. you're really owning yourself in this thread.
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+609|3264
Once an abusers always an abuser.
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uziq
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SuperJail Warden wrote:

Once an abusers always an abuser.
you've deleted as many posts as you've committed to leaving public on this forum in the last 6 months, lmao.

you're having a mental episode and vowing to see a therapist or confess all to a priest every week.

maybe don't try and argue the 'you're a manipulative abuser' line all of 3 days after reporting that you reduced a girl to tears and suicide threats on the phone.

what did i say that was so objectionable? tinder (and facebook dating) objectively are the lowest tier of dating app user, it's just a sociological fact. i'm sure this could be backed up with actual demographics about their user bases. tinder just by default, as it's one of the oldest major apps, suffers a lot from the fact that the regular users on there now have a 'left behind' vibe. all the hot young things migrated to bumble -> hinge.
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+609|3264
I can't even discuss what you did to that poor woman with a knife to the people I care about. They will ask "why are you still friends with him? He hurts women." And I will respond "he keeps me updated on Elon Musk."
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uziq
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i'm afraid you've overshared far too much here to get at me with that line of attack. i've certainly never made a girl threaten to take her own life, in any circumstances, drug-induced meltdown or no. you need to work on your christian humility.
SuperJail Warden
Gone Forever
+609|3264
Yeah okay. You just know Dilbert will keep records of the way you mistreated women if you share your sex tourism.
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uziq
Member
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ah, yes, the serial prostitute buyer accuses a person living abroad as a 'sex tourist'. a crushing blow.

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