unnamednewbie13
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My overall impression from his come & go posts is that a lot of mixed messages have been sent. A piece of jewelry like that is usually covered in the standard The Talk that parents should have with their kids, right? "I'd like us get serious!" piece of non-engagement bling, a level of courtship even a $50 chain could account for.

But then, "we can still see other people, right?" But then, "you saw other people, I don't think I can do this anymore." What an emotional roller coaster. How's a girl to react?

Is this even the same woman we're talking about? I swear it changes like once a week.

Last edited by unnamednewbie13 (2022-12-05 10:35:57)

RTHKI
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Mac's been dating 5 different Chinese women and can't tell them apart.
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SuperJail Warden
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I am not perfect and I realize I sent this girl on an emotional rollercoaster. I didn't understand how my actions affected her. And I took her emotions for granted. I learned important lessons and I will do better next time.

I did enjoy having a monogamous relationship for as long as it lasted. That is definitely something I would want again with a different person.

I am not angry at her or anything. I wish her the best. I am grateful to her for the opportunity to practice being in a relationship with someone. I am sorry I turned her into a puddle and I spent like 12 hours yesterday on the phone with her while she was laid up in bed depressed.

I DID NOT reactivate my dating apps. I want to just be single and work on myself until spring maybe summer. I have some graduate stuff I needed to do. When spring rolls back around, I am not going to be weird about getting as much as I can. I was sad yesterday when I didn't get a 'Good morning' text from her.

We had some fundamental differences in life and if she or anyone else said I used this as an opportunity to break up with her while also loading her with the blame for it I wouldn't debate it.
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RTHKI
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I miss my good morning texts from adams.
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SuperJail Warden
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You should have thought about how he felt when you had sex with Uzique
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uziq
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i am a very considerate lover.
Dilbert_X
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You lie there and take it - Adams told me.
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uziq
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which is seven orders of magnitude preferable to standing there and writing cheques, eh, geekazoid?
Dilbert_X
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Cash only, mind you some girls have portable DD machines.
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uziq
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i do highly recommend finding someone who voluntarily wants to lie down horizontally with you. it'll be a miracle balm for all your invidious toxic little opinions. even a man would do you wonders. don't knock the LGBTQ+ crowd. they're anything but lonely and bitter.
Dilbert_X
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People = Pain

How do you not know this?
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uziq
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because i'm not an emotionally stunted little manchild. yes, some relationships can take work. yes, people can be complicated. yes, experiencing love involves experiencing heartbreak also.

this is called real life and reality. you really do resemble the autistic engineering type a little too cannily. 'people are too complex and cannot be reduced to easily constrained formulae! abort abort!'

staying in the parental bosom for your whole life and forming your most important parasocial relationships with cats does not seem like a wise alternative to, you know, actually falling in love.
SuperJail Warden
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I think I might just become an incel because I am exhausted
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uziq
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you bring it on yourself.
SuperJail Warden
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I have to be nice and maybe go out with her again since she got me a Roomba for Christmas. A nice one. She told me she got it but I didn't get it yet. So I need to give her attention and time until I can get the Roomba.
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unnamednewbie13
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I hazard it would be easier in the long run to just have her return the Roomba if you don't want to hang out anymore? Part ways on ok terms? Nobody wants a nasty breakup.
SuperJail Warden
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That sounds like something a person without an automated vacuum cleaner would say.
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unnamednewbie13
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You have 3 monitors and a 3080, and bought a $300 charm bracelet on a whim. Is a Roomba that far out of reach?
SuperJail Warden
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I never knew I wanted one until she bought it.
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unnamednewbie13
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Do you really want to be reminded of your ex-ladyfriend every time your robot vacuum trundles by?
Larssen
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After a year of not dating I've taken to tinder. First world problem here, but I'm facing choice overload. I swipe selectively and am getting all the matches I want. Have 3 dates planned in the span of a week.

Maybe I should stop swiping and continue again after I've had the dates cause keeping 5+ conversations going with 3 dates upcoming is confusing and doesnt feel all that right.
uziq
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yeah welcome to online dating. 10 or 20 conversations at once and they all boil down to the same 3-4 exchanges eventually.

the next level is having ~100 extra insta followers at any one time or a rubbish load of whatsapp contacts/convos that aren’t going anywhere.

best recommendation is to meet someone you see future promise with and pull the plugs on the apps asap.
Larssen
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I don't have social media so no issues there. Date #1 is  down and brother did I get catfished lmao. She was a good looking girl but didnt resemble her pictures at all.

This was actually my first online date ever haha. God the first 5 minutes of this stuff are awkward as fuck

Last edited by Larssen (2022-12-11 07:58:25)

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Larssen wrote:

After a year of not dating I've taken to tinder. First world problem here, but I'm facing choice overload. I swipe selectively and am getting all the matches I want. Have 3 dates planned in the span of a week.

Maybe I should stop swiping and continue again after I've had the dates cause keeping 5+ conversations going with 3 dates upcoming is confusing and doesnt feel all that right.

Larssen wrote:

Macbeth you need psychological if not psychiatric help. Your behaviour as described on this forum is wildly erratic, manipulative, deeply selfish, besides holding incredibly weird views on many things. I feel sorry for the girl who's on the receiving end of that 'attention'.
Why is Larssen like this?
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Larssen
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Because planning literal first dates is like whatever trainwrecks you got involved in? I stopped reading pages ago.

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