The BF2s girl-problems thread

2022-10-06 17:50:15

#1076

KEN-JENNINGS: I am all that is MOD!; +2,979|6887|949

Not trying to be a dick, but it sounds like she doesn't see you as anything more than a supportive friend despite all your scheming. This truly is high school stuff.

"She's so immature because she is oblivious to my obvious and constant attempts to sex her up by being a supportive nice guy."

2022-10-06 18:53:43

#1077

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

You are probably right but that coming over to do drugs alone isn't nothing either. My "work wife", I hate that term but whatever, said I was totally clear in my intentions. It was unprofessional and inappropriate. Comparisons to students isn't a bad one since we were basically giggly first crush teenagers the whole summer together. I don't sit in an office staring at AutoCAD all day. I understand how people interact. I am in touch with people.

How would you feel if your girlfriend basically did everything I described with her male coworker including going over to his place after work to get high? How would you even handle that conversation? "I am going to Uzique's place after work to do cocaine. Please make sure you are home to put the garbage out and clean up. Sorry about your dead cousin. Let me know how your job search goes?"

My "work wife", who was our supervisor, speculated that the 25 year old's home life wasn't good and she really liked the inappropriate attention I was giving her even though she knew it was wrong to accept and reciprocate. I can accept that.

2022-10-07 00:36:20

#1078

uziq: Member; +497|3707

SuperJail Warden wrote:
Listening to my little sister sad about the dying cat makes me realize what an immature bitch the 25 year old girl at work is. I showed Ken pictures of her and he sad she looks immature. I get that now.

We spent all summer school flirting, trading gifts, sharing secrets, leaving work together/escaping from the other teachers while working to "take a walk." Putting on a show of flirting in front of the other teachers. Annoying the others. |"We are going to go to lunch early because we have to pick something up." "Have fun! haha"| "(almost hyperventilating) Macbeth is so wonderful. He is always knows exactly what to say and he listens so well." "Yeah he is really great at following a conversation... " And on and on. Definitely immature for a lady to encourage their male coworker. Doubly so in front of the other teachers. God knows we all gossip because we are high schoolers in grown up bodies.

Anyway...back to the dead cat. The last day of work the 25 year old came over to my place to smoke marijuana. She lives with her boyfriend. The boyfriend had to put his childhood cat to sleep the day before and was messed up obviously. She still had to make sure he didn't go anywhere so he can be home to walk the dog while she got high and talked about her dreams and beliefs with the male coworker who was obviously coming onto her. A whole series of immature and bad decisions for her that could have ended up really badly. Her boyfriend's cat is going to die and she is scheming to get high with a guy she has an inappropriate and unprofessional work relationship with. First year with the district and she is being goofy with me in front of the others workers I am tight with. She already has trouble getting along with people. Now she has this work issue too and the gossip. If she does summer school again I am going to end up being her supervisor.

it sounds like you're both being very immature, tbh. takes two to tango in this situation. an immature girl trying to flirt wouldn't go very far, and for so many weeks/months, if you weren't scheming and trying to get your end away.

like it's a basic tenet of adulting^TM that you don't pursue amorous relations with your co-workers. you are invariably asking for a headache in 95% of cases.

are you bored in your job? because this sounds like something you do to divert yourself and make the workaday routine more bearable.

the whole situation with her long-term partner is just a toxic headache. i don't know why any single and elligible bachelor with sense and self-respect would throw himself into that soupçon of awful.

2022-10-07 09:16:18

#1079

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

She needs to be saved. I can save her.

My dream is to get a nice teacher wife. Maybe even put a kid in one if they really want it. Have a lady teacher walking around the building with the name Lady Macbeth. Gas her up by being the boss of her coworkers.

She is only 25 and I am 32. We will be in our thirties together.I would be happy to wait on the back burner. I am not a monk after all. Ugh I just wish it was a clear "yes but wait."

2022-10-07 09:50:30

#1080

uziq: Member; +497|3707

you sound like you are weirdly obsessed with this girl.

2022-10-07 11:41:54

#1081

RTHKI: mmmf mmmf mmmf; +1,741|6992|Cinncinatti

I for one am shocked

2022-10-07 12:46:12

#1082

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

uziq wrote:
you sound like you are weirdly obsessed with this girl.

Yeah but to a point. I am about to take a Mongolian girl out to a Turkish dinner in a few hours. It is not like I am spending my weekend looking at the girl's pictures on Facebook and being sad she hooked up with the wrong manic depressive.

Of course I write a lot about her here but I also wrote on /r/SluttyConfession about the substitute teacher, the soldier's wife, the Taiwanese girl, and the Korean girl. The last three was less than 6 months of living on my own.

I am not a dangerous incel. I want to turn the 25 year old into a reddit post. Cap off the story with needlessly risky sex.

2022-10-07 12:55:09

#1083

RTHKI: mmmf mmmf mmmf; +1,741|6992|Cinncinatti

Write a book about it

2022-10-07 13:16:39

#1084

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

I already have a title ready

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/M/MV5BYmFiMWVmMzUtZTUwMC00ZTVjLTgxMGItODEyNjFkMzNhN2ZhXkEyXkFqcGdeQXVyMTQxNzMzNDI@._V1_.jpg

2022-10-07 13:40:05

#1085

unnamednewbie13: Moderator; +2,053|7027|PNW

"Keep Us Updated" would be better.

2022-10-07 20:21:50

#1086

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

We should all work harder to be better to those we care about.

Last edited by SuperJail Warden (2022-10-07 21:56:57)

2022-10-07 23:41:31

#1087

unnamednewbie13: Moderator; +2,053|7027|PNW

We saw your post. Ken's priest saw your post.

2022-10-08 01:59:40

#1088

uziq: Member; +497|3707

macbeth: i am getting therapy, this summer with this girl has been a nightmare.
macbeth after a 45-minute online therapy session: ok i feel better now.
also macbeth, +3 weeks later: this girl is annoying me so much this fall term, she's so immature.
also also macbeth: i can't wait to marry her.

looks like progress is going well.

2022-10-13 21:10:09

#1089

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

I hooked up with a hot Indonesian girl today. In bed now like

https://media.istockphoto.com/photos/top-view-of-creepy-smiling-demon-in-nightgown-lying-in-bed-picture-id1219921655?k=20&m=1219921655&s=170667a&w=0&h=y7_CSEeLTx0G1iiJ0BhFP4n_igb4pJufqT5n-Tqttok=

2022-10-14 02:08:17

#1090

uziq: Member; +497|3707

i've been chatting to an indonesian influencer with 100,000+ insta followers, actually. she might fly to korea next month (any excuse for work).

never really thought about indonesia/malaysia before.

2022-10-14 05:44:46

#1091

Dilbert_X: The X stands for; +1,815|6361|eXtreme to the maX

Why wouldn't you go to a muslim country with rabies and the death penalty.

Fuck Israel

2022-10-14 06:15:06

#1092

uziq: Member; +497|3707

it's more just like it's so far away and doesn't really rank on the tourism map for most brits.

bali is obviously very nice and a hotspot for digital nomads and all my DJ/producer pals who jet out to asia.

indonesia is one of the most diverse countries on the planet, and its hardly hardline theocratic.

people go to dubai or abu dhabi, they're generally seen as very desirable for western tourists or business ... and they're much more hardcore with regards to islam and the death penalty?

america has the death penalty?

the stupidity just stacks up with you like autumn cordwood.

2022-10-14 11:18:15

#1093

unnamednewbie13: Moderator; +2,053|7027|PNW

Dilbert knows the majority religion of Indonesia/Malaysia, but South Korea is in Southeast Asia. Skipped a few bullet points in high school geogurrhy.

2022-10-14 17:55:19

#1094

uziq: Member; +497|3707

the funniest thing is that dilbert grew up in a petro-state on the gulf, didn't he? part of his illustrious biography on the way to being a flawless eco-warrior.

but the poor indonesians are religious savages.

iu feel like the only way a westerner ever has to worry about the religious police and the death penalty in these places is if he/she is trying to traffic serious quantities of drugs. i think bali is okay.

https://www.remotetribe.life/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Bali-Co-Working-Spaces-Dojo-cover.jpg

https://balidiscovery.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/digital2.jpeg

tbh the biggest drawback of that part of the world is that it's going to be full of vulgar, boring australians. why would an englishman want to travel to the other side of the world to hang around with beta-version europeans?

2022-10-14 18:13:25

#1095

KEN-JENNINGS: I am all that is MOD!; +2,979|6887|949

Bali is Australia's Mexico like Thailand is Russian Mexico

2022-10-15 02:19:42

#1096

uziq: Member; +497|3707

most of central asia, as well as cyprus, is now russia's mexico.

2022-10-15 12:18:32

#1097

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

I went out on a date with a hot down to Earth Chinese girl a few weeks ago. It was a good time but we didn't meet back up. The lady messaged me and told me we can be friends and I thanked her for not ghosting me. She said she normally would have but she didn't think I would react poorly to being let down gently like other guys have. I told her to add me to Facebook and to have good luck with finding someone else. She added me to Facebook...

It turns out this humble petite Chinese girl is actually an editor for a major NYC newspaper. Runs the Twitter account with 1 million subscribers. Sends out the alerts on the app to 500,000 users. Is a writer, columnist, professor, reviewer, with a Twitter following. Lady has had newspaper articles written about her.

Totally humble about all of it. I also now understand why she was so flaky about when she could talk or meet. That is a lot of stuff to manage.

2022-10-16 03:16:27

#1098

uziq: Member; +497|3707

that's pretty cool. in my experience people in journalism talk about their work almost unceasingly.

2022-10-17 09:24:58

#1099

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

It is pretty cool. I basically went out on a date with a very minor celebrity. That's something I would have never had the chance to do if I didn't live so close to the city.

2022-10-17 14:17:42

#1100

SuperJail Warden: Gone Forever; +642|3975

The union had three big dinner events last year where we got to get dressed up and talk to politicians while getting free food at a fancy hall. This is one of the perks of being part of the union cult.

I am really looking forward to seeing the Korean teacher dolled up and in a dress in a few days.

https://ae01.alicdn.com/kf/HTB1Ku6RcBmWBuNkSndVq6AsApXaY/Asian-US-HOT-New-fashion-summer-women-party-pleated-dress-Gray-cotton-Bodycon-Tees-Fishtail-Dinner.jpg

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