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unnamednewbie13
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It depends. I might put my money on some huge, grizzled chonk-cat over a half-grown fennec.

https://capronparkzoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/Fennec-Fox.jpg
SuperJail Warden
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This thread has run its course. Closed.
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unnamednewbie13
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Public, fair's fair, but doesn't it kind of suck to upload someone's rough breakup or falling out or whatever? This is the world we live in. On the internet before you're even a year old. Hope it was worth it.

fwiw sounded like manipulation to me
uziq
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why does anyone want to spend their time watching or listening to that stuff ... half the time one's own couple arguments are tedious enough.
SuperJail Warden
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Couple arguments are awful. You really take it for granted that you don't have to deal with that when single.

Anyhow, here is a non-couple different argument
https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout … ow_theyre/
uziq
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koreans argue openly in public a lot. i have seen break-ups outside my bedroom window, in the street. i have seen break-ups on subway platforms. break-ups in cafes.

it doesn't help that their dating culture is rushed and fissiparous. but anyway. being around someone arguing is always awkward, sometimes annoying.
SuperJail Warden
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It's just a matter of time until some Korean girl is going to get into an argument with you in public now. If things get rough tell her you need to return some video tapes.
uziq
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i've had entirely loving and respectful relations. practically a saint here. korean guys treat 'em mean.
SuperJail Warden
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You should let them know that if their country ever gets overrun by China they can have you advocate for them to refugee.
uziq
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like a german industrialist pricked by conscience, i will personally offer transport and sanctuary to several hundred korean women. i accept the role that god has assigned to me by providence.
SuperJail Warden
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If you take them to Utah the people there won't even think you are weird.
unnamednewbie13
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TBH I think non-Mormons are probably polyamorous at a higher rate than most modern Mormons.
SuperJail Warden
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That's disappointing to hear. All of those poor girls who won't have a husband.
SuperJail Warden
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I think another teacher likes me. She is Azn and my age. The only problem is that she has short hair. Could that mean she is a lesbian?
SuperJail Warden
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Unrelated case: is telling a girl you won't get serious with her unless she manages to get successful mental health care abuse? I don't mind giving the ill a chance but I also want to be honest with my expectations.
uziq
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that's a tough one. when you're not together, it's really none of your business how another person chooses to deal (or not deal) with their mental/physical health. it could be considered rude and an overreach.

when you're together in a long and committed relationship, obviously that changes things: you can present it as care, concern, looking out for one another, etc.

i think the most salient point here is that, if she isn't capable of helping herself and getting her own affairs in order, she probably isn't ready or a good candidate for a relationship anyway. relationships don't work unless both people are in relatively happy, stable, fulfilling places in their lives. that goes for job/education/prospects as much as self-care, too. when one person doesn't have their shit in order, it just devolves into them being jealous of your successes/life, or them surrounding you with a field of negativity, etc.

there's plenty of people to date and if you can see a girl coming from a mile off with clearly unaddressed issues, you're probably not going to 'fix' her and you're definitely not going to have a good relationship.
unnamednewbie13
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Also, dating within your job seems like a really good way to have your relationship backfire somehow and then make your workday really awkward until you can get a transfer. Maybe some people can make it work, but man.

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