How far would you go ? ( personal issue )

2006-05-15 12:54:39

#1

Breez: AKA: badhq; +937|6905|Derby, England

Hi guys I don't usually post things like this, I fill bit lost, I don't wanna post up 2much info whats going on all i wanna know is this if you fill you getting screwed by people you can trust

do you

1. bite the lip and just let them people get on with it ( I honestly hope I'm wrong )
2. Find out more before taking a form of action

few things make me suspicious about few people ( not on this site on my own site includes my own admins )

erm don't know what to say except

Help or a Tip please?

Peace Boris

Last edited by badhq (2006-05-15 12:55:58)

2006-05-15 12:56:07

#2

Raphael: Wtf Padders!! Padders!!!; +18|6894|Boston, Massachusetts

option 2 definetly

2006-05-15 12:56:50

#3

coke: Aye up duck!; +440|6982|England. Stoke

2. Find out more bifore taking a form of acction

2006-05-15 12:56:51

#4

^*AlphA*^: F*ckers; +3,135|7011|The Hague, Netherlands

find out more and then whoop some ass

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2006-05-15 12:57:12

#5

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6922

I'd find out more before you do anything. Nothing worse than making huge accusations and then finding that your wrong. Talk to them about it. Of course, this all depends on the situation and since we don't know that, it's kinda hard to help.

2006-05-15 12:59:10

#6

Breez: AKA: badhq; +937|6905|Derby, England

okis guys I'm gona have to hang on for few days see what happens. Thanx for replyes Peace Boris

2006-05-15 13:07:55

#7

MaddOps: Who the hell elected you leader of this outfit?; +55|6870

Post some kind of monitor on their system. Get everything you need to know then act.

If you usually think it's happening, it probably is. Best to have proof then drop the hammer and clean house if need be.

2006-05-15 13:10:38

#8

Stealth42o: She looked 18 to me officer; +175|6944

Easy.

Don't be a doormate. And do not let anyone step on you.

If they are not doing anything wrong and you have good reason to believe they are. You tell them and explain it. They will understand, period.

If they are in the wrong, they will get pissy and you have your answer.

If you do not say anything it will keep swirling around in your head.

Get it of your chest and be done with it.

Good luck.

Best wishes.

2006-05-15 13:11:58

#9

No 1 Gooner: coopj Dependant; +98|6845|England

Ive always said that i know im not a paranoid person and i dont usually jump to conclusions,im a very logical person,if i get a feeling that someone is taking advantage,they usually are.otherwise why would i think it? The worst thing ever is that feeling,i hate it,the sad fact is that there are alot of pisstakers out there and the way i deal with it is to nip it in the bud,confront,get it out in the open,be calm,adult,logical,tell said people about what you are thinking and leave it to them to deny or accept it,they rarely ever admit it but it lets them know that you are no mug and are in tune with situations. I maintain that i treat people how i want to be treated and if they do take the piss then you should not have to take it,why should you? if you are wrong hold your hands up make a joke or say wow am i paranoid or something.but dont let it slide.thats my advice boris and unfortunatly ive had some history of this.if they are friends they will understand if not...f**K em! they are not worth it!

2006-05-15 13:17:30

#10

Mr.E: HakLaw in the house; +103|6833

im sorry but im confused about the ppl who said #2...if it was me i would bite my lip until i actually caught them doing something...THEN find out more...this way you are not waisting valuable time doing somtin that may bring you nowhere....see wat i mean?

peace andy

2006-05-15 13:19:07

#11

JahManRed: wank; +646|6901|IRELAND

by the way you asked the question....................... i think you allready no the answer and you are looking for some reasurance.

2006-05-15 13:19:14

#12

King_County_Downy: shitfaced; +2,791|6870|Seattle

Kay, after you figure it all out, and if you were right in your assumptions....you've got to share the info with us cuz I'm nosey and I like to hear about stupid people. Cuz I am 1

Sober enough to know what I'm doing, drunk enough to really enjoy doing it

2006-05-15 13:22:37

#13

petethecheese: Member; +9|7036|England

You need to find out more, Boris. Having said that, can you make some comments yourself that, without incriminating anyone, lets people know that they can't take the piss out of you? If they are stabbing you in the back, they'll know your suspicious and may make a mistake and if they're innocent, no harm done.although people may look at you in an odd way for a bit....)

2006-05-15 15:15:13

#14

Breez: AKA: badhq; +937|6905|Derby, England

I really hope it's just me been paranoid

Thanx for Feed back guys

Peace B

2006-05-15 17:52:23

#15

BellusEndus: Make love not war; +59|6896|Edinburg

#3 - go head on in and hope for the best!

2006-05-15 17:59:05

#16

The Stillhouse Kid: Licensed Televulcanologist; +126|6915|Deep In The South Of Texas

#4 Banstick the bastards!

2006-05-15 18:38:31

#17

paranoid101: Ambitious but Rubbish; +540|7013

badhq wrote:
I really hope it's just me been paranoid

Thanx for Feed back guys

Peace B

Nope that would be me.

Good luck man hope u get it sorted.

Last edited by paranoid101 (2006-05-15 18:39:34)

2006-05-16 10:33:42

#18

RDMC: Enemy Wheelbarrow Spotted..!!; +736|6838|Area 51

Option 2

2006-05-16 10:38:36

#19

M1-Lightning: Jeepers Creepers; +136|7004|Peoria, Illinois

Option 3: Break their necks, find out more about what they were doing, and then bite your lip if you made a mistake.

2006-05-16 10:48:05

#20

polarbearz: Raiders of the Lost Bear; +-1,474|7062|Singapore

I lash out first, talk later.

2006-05-18 10:01:22

#21

Breez: AKA: badhq; +937|6905|Derby, England

Thanks for great tips guys, and constructive feed back. I'm will hang around and see how it gos for bit. I'm sure just me been paranoid.

Thanks again guys.

Peace Boris

2006-05-18 10:04:02

#22

Capt. Foley: Member; +155|6861|Allentown, PA, USA

I am kinda fucked up in the way that even if I know someone could seriously kick my fucking ass i will still go in for the fight. I guess my problem is that I dont give up until 1 of us is knocked the fuck out.

2006-05-18 10:04:10

#23

notorious: Nay vee, bay bee.; +1,396|7020|The United Center

i would definitely go with number 2.

peace boris.

err...tom.

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