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South Carolina is considering closing its 'marry-your-rapist' loophole that allows girls under 16 to marry if they are pregnant and have a parent’s consent. Visiting the record office in Spartanburg County, Ellie finds 16 child marriages in the county in the last decade. In ten of those cases, the groom could have been prosecuted under statutory rape laws.

One of these marriages was between teenager Keri, then 15, and Paul, then 24. When Keri became pregnant, Paul agreed to marry her and help look after the baby in order to avoid prison. This raises a central question for Ellie: whose rights are more important: the underage, pregnant girl or the unborn, potentially fatherless baby?

Ellie also travels to Georgia to meet 17-year-old Zion. She married at 16, and her groom David was just two years older than her, so Zion didn’t need to use the marry-your-rapist loophole, and nor was her groom at risk of prosecution for statutory rape. Many campaigners want to change Georgia’s minimum marriage age to 18, but Zion is convinced that this would have meant the end of her and David’s family, as they would have been forced to live apart for two years.

But not all child marriages end in family harmony. Often it breaks families apart, as Ellie finds out in Idaho. Here, a case involving conflicting laws, religious beliefs and ideas of parental responsibility left two men in prison and a family at war. In Idaho, child marriage laws require a court order from a judge, but in the state of Missouri only the consent of one parent is needed. So when Heather became pregnant at 14, and without consulting her mother, Heather's father drove her across the USA to marry her 24-year-old rapist.
remember when macbeth tried to make out that life for all women in america was amazing and not interfered with by christianity or western customs?

OH WAIT, the 'marry-your-rapist' loophole.
Has Islam closed the 'marriage by the hour' loophole which allows muslims to use escorts?
I don't care but its a little hypocritical.
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unnamednewbie13 wrote:

There are groups of Christians who if given the power and influence, would turn back the clock on crime and punishment. There are groups of Muslims who moved to more liberal countries to escape that sort of thing. People can object to parts of a religion they think is harmful to society without becoming xenophobic over it. Not everything is so conveniently black and white no matter how much hardliner nationalists paint it as such.

Of course angry Baptists burning copies of Harry Potter isn't on the same level as women being arrested for riding a bicycle, but again, and for the umpteenth time, the west has already been through this and is still working on equality.

Go on, crack a joke or ask us again why we're "making excuses for Islam."
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unnamednewbie13 wrote:

There are groups of Christians who if given the power and influence, would turn back the clock on crime and punishment. There are groups of Muslims who moved to more liberal countries to escape that sort of thing. People can object to parts of a religion they think is harmful to society without becoming xenophobic over it. Not everything is so conveniently black and white no matter how much hardliner nationalists paint it as such.

Of course angry Baptists burning copies of Harry Potter isn't on the same level as women being arrested for riding a bicycle, but again, and for the umpteenth time, the west has already been through this and is still working on equality.

Go on, crack a joke or ask us again why we're "making excuses for Islam."
And why was the clock moved forward on women's rights in nearly the entire rest of the world with the exception of nearly the entire Islamic world?

I am not going to make jokes. This is serious business.
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Do you want us all to give you a personal treatise on the historical progress of civilization? Is that your end goal here?

You could just have just asked.
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So Islamic Civilization hasn't progressed yet? What a hurtful thing to say.
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you want to ignore all the parts of the world where islamic civilisation has joined the west. you want to ignore all the parts of the world where christians want to keep women as second class citizens or property. it’s incredibly selective and disingenuous.

haranguing islam for its moral strictures on adultery is just funny. it’s still one of the biggest moral crimes in the domestic sphere in the west. we haven’t totally decriminalised it either. europe and america and the christian world would want to keep it as a crime if it wasn’t for the secular-human rights push in the 1990s. the christian church sure as hell wasn’t doing anything to downgrade its severity (just like it’s never done fucking anything to make women priests, or relieve their burdens and suffering with contraception, childbirth, abortions, etc.). the west has changed its taboos on adultery from criminal to civil law, that’s all. now instead of a light criminal sanction, as in the 1980s and 1990s, you become embroiled in extremely costly sueing for divorce. you have conveniently ignored this point every time i have mentioned. ‘gee, i’d hate to live in a society where the elders decide you have to pay back the offended family’. do you know anything at all about your own fucking litigious society, dipshit? divorce lawyers make bank.

yet because tribal councils still stone people in some of the remotest and most undeveloped places on earth, you want to make out like muslims in istanbul or lahore or cairo are all squirming under this medieval morality where poor women are bludgeoned for their sex. it’s just not the case. you are extremely selective and evidently have not seen the world beyond a toxic subreddit some place.

you think you’re doing muslim women a favour, but you’re not. you’re not willing to understand why someone’s religion and culture can be a positive, self-asserted, self-affirmatory part of their life. no surprises there, because you have no genuine religious faith and you’ve never done anything positive with your ‘catholicism’ except make poses on the internet. for you it’s some role playing costume so you can feel a second-hand thrill of being part of some ‘clash of civilisations’ whilst in a wood-panelled basement in newark, NJ. it’s hopeless trying to explain to you how someone’s identity can genuinely be based in a morality other than your own. muslim women don’t need a slime ball porn subreddit moderator to ‘rescue’ and ‘liberate’ them.

you completely decontextualise the status of rights and gender relations and so on in the west. typical conservative ploy, to try and make out that the historically contingent, things that have been subject to much activism, argument and negotiation and change, have always been thus and are eternal values. women have suffered throughout the 20th century for the rights and equality that they have. many lives were ruined. the picture is not pretty. and now you want to casually claim that the west has amazing attitudes towards women, lol. do you think a feminist would read your shit without raising both her eyebrows? what have you done to make things better for women in the west? cleaning up abusive posts for asa akira is not activism bro. meanwhile you’re full of stupid retrograde shit about ‘good christian housewives’ or whatever. when your remarks about women would likely offend both muslims and ‘modern’ women in the west, it’s probably time to think about your attitudes a little harder.

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Let's not forget that capital punishments are still widely practiced in the arabian peninsula and also by Iran. Saudi Arabia makes shows of public beheadings and has state executioners proudly going village to village to mete out some barbarous sharia justice. Not to mention the Kashogghi affair. In Iran, it wasn't too long ago an olympic athlete was condemned to death for defending himself against a revolutionary guard during a protest. Routine occurence to put people to death there so they can be 'made examples of'.

It's not like these countries are dirt poor tribalist backwaters, many people who live there don't have worse or different lives from people in northern brazil or large parts of china. These countries are in the throes of extremely punitive regimes subjecting the population to all sorts of harm you'll have a hard time finding parallels for among any other government. The worst part is that for the longest time this did find some popular support. No longer the case in Iran at all, but the crown in Saudi Arabia is still very popular. While I can't find anything on the rule of law, I imagine there's not too much popular protest against those routine beheadings either. It is particularly damaging because this is the heartland of Islam and home to the most holy places in the religion; such extremist thinking is bound to influence the rest of the community as well.

I mean imagine if the vatican was ran by some modern day Urban II, I don't think it would make for a great influence on christianity.

E: I also worked with refugees for a while and we had some absolutely shocking cases of literal slavery and extreme abuse of south east asian people who fled from Saudi Arabia.

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saudi arabia deserves to be a pariah state, it's a shame on the west and the international order that it is not treated as such. it's easy to straightforwardly condemn that country. what's not so easy is to reckon with why the EU, the UK, the US, etc, are so keen to shake MBS's hand and pretend like they're all adults in a room. saudi money and influence is everywhere in the west, which suggests we are also pretty much okay with public beheadings and a country ran by a medieval-theocratic death cult, so long as the business and oil deals keep coming. north korea has been excluded from the international order for less.

iran is regrettable, but considering how heavy a hand the west has had in creating its current state-of-affairs, i'm also hesitant to use it as some 'example' with which to beat the world's muslims. 'look how backwards your religion is! look how illiberal this government is!' exclaims the western person responsible for deposing a liberal government in iran. i think you'll have to spare the world's muslims your outrage: how do you think all this condemnation and fearmongering about iran on the behalf of western liberals/conservatives looks to a moderate muslim? it's a mess almost entirely of our own devising.

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Well we often forget that there was significant grassroots support for more Islamic governance especially among lower and middle classes even in the days of Mossadegh. Same in Saudi Arabia in a sense. The clerics have always been an incredibly powerful political force. So while by our standards it's a barbaric state, it's hard to find the line where this is just top down repression of religious fanatics or perhaps also bottom up support for that sort of governance. The following question would be how such a significant portion of the religious community became so susceptible to extreme and conservative interpretation of the Islamic texts. There's a widespread influence of crushingly conservative thinking within the religious community that through indoctrination in its dogmatic truths has comfortably nestled itself in the minds of many people. It's going to require a lot of fighting to wrestle off this control and I think it may take the better part of this century for a lot of people in the ME to finally come to terms with the idea that homosexuality is not a grievous sin, that women and men are equal, that cutting off hands and heads is not acceptable criminal punishment and so on.

Saudi Arabia's internal dynamics are also quite complicated as the royals and richer sheiks live lives totally divorced from the rest of the population. As I said before: after the Islamic revolt in Iran promptly all cinemas were closed and the government reverted to more strict Islamic rule. I reckon there particularly it seems to be hard to introduce renewal - will making it a pariah state help in that regard? Or will we only help create some new abomination like North Korea? Cutting off that country and its people has in retrospect only been beneficial to the entrenchment of the Kim dynasty.

There's also saudi aramco of course making things a little more complicated as far as western interests go.
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'a little more complicated?' it's rather the whole story, isn't it? that part of the world sees the far-influence of the united states and the west primarily through the lenses of colonialism and extractive resource capitalism. of course it's easy for the clerical class to turn the lower-orders into religious fanatics.

it remains to be seen what will come of the house of saud's big agendas. i can't imagine that the relationship ahead between them and the clerics will at all be smooth sailing, if MBS is at all genuine in his wishes to pivot to a modern services economy (including heavy green investment). don't most saudi citizens already have a very high provision of public housing and subsidies? if the royal family continue giving the little people even the crumbs of the oil wealth, it'll test a very basic liberal premise: namely that with increasing standard of living comes liberalization of attitudes and beliefs.

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The entire world could see the influence of the west through lenses of colonialism and resource capitalism. That doesn't help you explain why it's particularly in the ME multiple countries only sought answers through religious regression, and why so many clerics are violently conservative.
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there have been religious-inflected grassroots movements in latin america and the far-east. what are you talking about? the difference is that they didn't attain a widespread political foothold in their rebellions against the west or dominant regional power.

but of course, the middle-east has a different history to latin america, and religious power is much more concentrated there. for many reasons, rebellion against western hegemony or resource capitalism took the form of revolutionary marxism in many other areas of the world. you'd have to look more specifically at the local histories for that, such as why the clerical institutions of the ME were well-developed and robust where in places like peru they were not.

and, again, the fact that we are already discussing material and historical factors relevant to the region shows that the problem is not 'islam'. how can you generalize about 1.8 billion people and echo macron's comments, as if the history of wahhabism in saudi arabia is some universal condition for the religion?

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Well that's exactly the point right. The religious and clerical foothold in society is immense and very influential. Their position nearly unquestioned, helped by the fact that for any devout follower the religion is dogmatic & ritualistic to a point that you can only really look at it in terms of indoctrination.

The only hope you have of breaking that influence is by denying the clerical class complete control over information and culture within the borders of their countries.
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i'm a little confused how a discussion of 'is islam the problem?' has segued into you, yet again, making interventionist arguments about muslim countries. on the one hand you're incredibly specific and strategic, and on the other you make pronouncements about all muslims living in the west, about the religion 'having a problem'.

good luck forcing regime change in turkey and saudi arabia though! the rich successes of the last 20 years have worn well on you. it would probably help if we stopped supporting the clerics under the table, wouldn't it?

i find it seriously hard to talk about what A Problem saudi arabia is when we let the saudi airforce train in UK airspace and sell the regime billions of pounds worth of arms and war-making technology. we are at least complicit in the widespread war crimes taking place in yemen. and yet we also enjoy this sport of pouting our lips and talking about what a serious issue wahhabi islam is, etc. the regime is strong because of us, not despite of our affronted western values.

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I got tired of the inane discussion with macbeth and just segued into something I do want to write about?

If countries like Saudi Arabia and Iran exist, if the religion is co-opted by nationalists and extremists, and if there's widespread grassroots support for these agendas as well, I do believe it's accurate to say that the religion is in crisis.

Re; weapons deals. You're not the only one who regrets that eurofighters were sold to the saudi airforce. Or any other military tech for that matter.

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but saudi arabia is a major western ally and exists, and is strong, because of western arms and oil deals. we might wag our finger when MBS murders a journalist, but he's still our pet. again, they're not treated like north korea. and the reason for that isn't because 'it would only further retrench them'. they're not treated like north korea because they're incredibly valuable, and profitable, allies. saudi arabia's medieval interpretation of islam is flourishing because we tacitly support it in all the ways that matter.

iran exists in its present form because of the histories of (a) colonialism, (b) oil companies in the region and (c) contemporary geopolitics with its neighbouring sunni muslim and israeli neighbours. again, the west is hugely complicit in this state of affairs and bears a fair share of responsibility.

and yet you claim an ENTIRE RELIGION is in crisis. don't act surprised when an erdogan can turn your boiler-plate liberal protestations to his own political advantage. it's a massive fucking own goal on the west's part.

Re; weapons deals. You're not the only one who regrets that eurofighters were sold to the saudi airforce. Or any other military tech for that matter.
yeah well, you're full of this talk. 'poland and hungary becoming fascist is regrettable, but nonetheless i will continue to prosecute and beat up on turks because of the exact same fascistic tendencies'. 'it's regrettable that we are supporting a reactionary regime in saudi arabia, but nonetheless i will insult 1.8 billion people on this planet by accusing their faith of having major problems'.

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you do make a good point that political opposition and rebellion to western hegemony in the middle-east took a religious form, whereas in other parts of the world the major rebellions and opposing regimes have coalesced normally around communism/socialism’s axis. but we are talking about political processes here, not theological ones. the critiques you’re making of islam are political critiques. even the clerical rule is obviously political when your notable examples are theocracies.

most muslims don’t live in these theocracies. their belief is not so closely tied in to political struggle for self-determination, or at least is not extremist or radicalised about it. that’s the point and that’s why it rankles when people say ‘the religion’ is in crisis. the religion is many things in many places. and the problems you are pointing to on a local and specific level are normally always political in nature.

the hope in this, obviously, is that religion can be abstracted from the political life in a secular society. and yes, that was happening in places like turkey and northern africa.
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uziq wrote:

you want to ignore all the parts of the world where islamic civilisation has joined the west.
I'm really feeling they have though.
you want to ignore all the parts of the world where christians want to keep women as second class citizens or property. it’s incredibly selective and disingenuous.
What about where the jews make their women shave their heads?
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not all hasidic women shave their heads. it is often a matter of personal choice and belief. you're really making that verb 'make' do a lot of work.
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I'm sure they do it because they want to, just as Afghans grow beards.

I mean, you can't physically force someone to grow a beard right??
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odd how you and macbeth have trouble acknowledging women's agency. the porn moderator and the prostitute visitor. i am very surprised!

women are not coerced in judaism to shave their hair. maybe in the most ultra-orthodox households. but even among hasidim, it is an elected choice. just like many muslim women CHOOSE to wear the niqab. i would be very careful how much you presume to speak for someone else's choices. especially when it's a group you only have an at best transactional relationship with.
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Yes I'm sure muslim women choose their life.
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it's something to which you simply cannot speak. better that you shut the fuck up and listen to a few people for once.

have you actually ever spoken to a muslim? about their beliefs? their life experience? somehow i sincerely, sincerely doubt it.
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So the vast sum of Muslim women are just happy living in their extremely oppressive societies but Muslims who "escaped" to the west are just fine living like us? If things are so great for Muslim women then why do the westernized Muslim women you point to as examples of integration even exist? Why aren't they all replicating their gender norms wherever they go if given the chance?
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oppressive by whose measure? yours? the western liberal democratic norm is not universal, macbeth. many peoples’ value systems do not align with ours. you seem to think wearing bikinis is the highest desirable good.

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