BF2S Forums EE Chat - October

Contrary to popular belief, it is possible for men to have multiple orgasms. The easiest method for males without dedicating years to studying the Kama Sutra and tantric sexuality, is to strengthen the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle. The PC is the muscle responsible for contracting the prostate forcing semen to be ejaculated. This is a very weak muscle as it is not used but a few contractions each time a man ejaculates. By strengthening this muscle, a man has the ability to control it during orgasm thus preventing ejaculation from occurring. Since ejaculation is what signals the body that sexual intercourse is complete, preventing ejaculation allows the penis to remain erect after an orgasm, thus allowing continued intercourse.

Strengthening the PC muscle is not an easy task. The best way is, of course, to exercise it. First you must figure out how to control this muscle. When you urinate, typically at the end you may contract a muscle "down there" a few times to expel the last few drops. That is the muscle, and that contracting you do to shake out the last of the urine is the same contraction you want to do. Another way to think of it, when you have an erection and you contract your muscles to make it move up and down, that is the muscle and the exercise you want to do. Several times daily contract and release that muscle in sets, as many times as you comfortably can. At first you may not be able to do more than 10-15 at a time, but with time you should be able to do several hundred a day.

After doing this for awhile, at least several weeks (note: ok, 4-6 weeks may have been a bit much, but I kept forgetting to do my exercises...), you should notice that your orgasms are improved. At this point you're getting strength built up which will allow you to control your orgasms. To do this, as you feel your orgasm coming, you tightly clench your pc muscle to prevent it from uncontrollably contracting. For a while, this will require intense concentration and a lot of effort to hold the muscle. But, you should get some partial success here. You may have times when you ejaculate but don't have an orgasm (that sucks big time), but generally your first sign of success will be a partial ejaculation, where you do ejaculate some but you don't really contract your PC muscle, so that a few seconds after this you can quickly have a powerful orgasm. Enjoy your first sweet taste of victory! Given time, it will become easy. Once you can control this and prevent ejaculation, you will then be able to achieve multiple orgasms without ejaculation.

While this may seem like a lot of effort, and it is, it is well worth it. As many women can attest to, each subsequent orgasm in a series is more enjoyable. If you enjoy the feeling of an orgasm (and who doesn't), you will not believe how much better the third or fourth one in a series can be. You will also have the added advantage of having complete control over your love making, with the ability to go on as long as it takes to please your partner and experiencing several intense orgasms along the way.

get a cock ring

SEREMAKER wrote:

get a cock ring

Actually, cock rings can be found in many non-S&M situations. They restrict blood flow to the penis - hence blood that goes in to cause an erection does not flow out as easily. This results in a harder erection that lasts longer. They are often employed in situations where flacidity is less acceptable or may cause unpopularity, such as at an orgy.

Cock rings come in all sorts of materials, including leather, rubber, metal - I've even seen an impromptu surgical tubing cock ring. An important design consideration is size of cock ring and method of closure. Flexible materials like leather will often have snaps, buttons, or velcro that make it easy to adjust the size of the cock ring. Metal ones do not! This is important to remember because the size of the base of the penis is greater after one has achieved an erection. Let me spell out a painful and potentially embarassing series of events with non-resizable cock rings:

  1. Man puts on metal cockring when he's flacid.
   2. Man achieves powerful, earth-shaking erection.
   3. Man throws back head, beats chest and emits loud ululation.
   4. Time passes...
   5. The erection, perhaps having served its purpose(s), is no longer fun.
   6. The erection prolonging qualities of the cock ring keep the erection in effect.
   7. Man finds that base of penis, when erect, is too large to remove cock ring comfortably.
   8. Man experiences slight nervousness.
   9. Man applies lube.
  10. Man applies butter.
  11. Man applies ice.
  12. Man experiences outright terror

You can see where I'm going with this. The result might be waiting for flacidity to take its own good time. It might also be a frantic trip to the emergency room if the thing is just too small.

Personally, I'm comfortable with the fact that erections come and go naturally during sex - a soft dick isn't necessarily a sign that a man isn't aroused. Also, cock ring induced erections are unnaturally hard, as if you've overfilled a water balloon and it's straining to pop.

Macbeth wrote:

SEREMAKER wrote:

get a cock ring

Actually, cock rings can be found in many non-S&M situations. They restrict blood flow to the penis - hence blood that goes in to cause an erection does not flow out as easily. This results in a harder erection that lasts longer. They are often employed in situations where flacidity is less acceptable or may cause unpopularity, such as at an orgy.

Cock rings come in all sorts of materials, including leather, rubber, metal - I've even seen an impromptu surgical tubing cock ring. An important design consideration is size of cock ring and method of closure. Flexible materials like leather will often have snaps, buttons, or velcro that make it easy to adjust the size of the cock ring. Metal ones do not! This is important to remember because the size of the base of the penis is greater after one has achieved an erection. Let me spell out a painful and potentially embarassing series of events with non-resizable cock rings:

  1. Man puts on metal cockring when he's flacid.
   2. Man achieves powerful, earth-shaking erection.
   3. Man throws back head, beats chest and emits loud ululation.
   4. Time passes...
   5. The erection, perhaps having served its purpose(s), is no longer fun.
   6. The erection prolonging qualities of the cock ring keep the erection in effect.
   7. Man finds that base of penis, when erect, is too large to remove cock ring comfortably.
   8. Man experiences slight nervousness.
   9. Man applies lube.
  10. Man applies butter.
  11. Man applies ice.
  12. Man experiences outright terror

You can see where I'm going with this. The result might be waiting for flacidity to take its own good time. It might also be a frantic trip to the emergency room if the thing is just too small.

Personally, I'm comfortable with the fact that erections come and go naturally during sex - a soft dick isn't necessarily a sign that a man isn't aroused. Also, cock ring induced erections are unnaturally hard, as if you've overfilled a water balloon and it's straining to pop.

Wow Macbeth, you seem to be talking from experience.

Red Forman wrote:

lol england fail

they already qualified

Last time i heard it was 1-0

What was the score? Also, what did USA last score?

oh i thought you played games to win...

Red Forman wrote:

oh i thought you played games to win...

No its just like fighting a war in Afghanistan.

SEREVENT wrote:

The important ones that aren't against Ukraine yeah.

then why play at all?  just dont show up if you dont play to win.  terrible attitude.

Red Forman wrote:

SEREVENT wrote:

The important ones that aren't against Ukraine yeah.

then why play at all?  just dont show up if you dont play to win.  terrible attitude.

you must be new to sports

Red Forman wrote:

ICCULUS wrote:

Red Forman wrote:

then why play at all?  just dont show up if you dont play to win.  terrible attitude.

you must be new to sports

omg yes.  brand new.

Straight from the box?