Flecco wrote:
The Church didn't fail, from the start the Christian Church preached turning the other cheek. As Christianity and Catholicism grew in influence and power in the political landscape of Old Europe, the aristocracy came to realise that traditional honour systems were going to die off because of it. The honour system has always been at conflict with the Christian Church, pride is a deadly sin, doubly so when you allow somebody's insult to lead to a fight to the death. As the legal systems of the West, by and large are baised off the ethics of the Christian bible, the honour system was in conflict with the rule of law too, from the 16th century onward the Catholic church tried to outlaw lethal duels. You want to see what a society still based on honour looks like? Visit Saudi Arabia or China.
I never said Christianity failed, I said the Church failed, by which I mean the Church as an institute. The whole problem was that "God" was placed above the core values of chivalry. While this essentially might not have been wrong at all, in practise this often meant Rome was placed above said values. E.g. in Saracen Iberia a Christian knight was invited by a Muslim lady for lunch and chess. The particular conditions I have forgotten, but in any case there was no reason for the knight not to accept the invite. He did not however, in fact he not even politely declined. Instead, he threatened to skewer the messenger if he ever showed his face again doing the bidding of that "infidel dog". Would the knight have truly followed Jesus's teachings, there would have been no problem at all, but in this case he (unknowingly) followed a Crusade agenda.
Also I find it hard to accept your argument that Catholicism and Christianity themselves formed a threat to the Old World honour system. Both were already well established and would actually diminish in power with the enlightement. It was also "Christianity" (both in value and as a Papal institute) that introduced the honour system in the first place.
Flecco wrote:
To bring back Chivalry you'd have to remove universal sufferage firstly, as the old chivalric system requires women to be the property of men, to not work in the workplace or have anything resembling a career or an opinion on politics, economics or government. A woman's honour is directly tied to her husband's in those old systems and once they are married and any infidelity on her part has direct repercussions on his social standing and legal contracts pertaining to his and his parents/in-laws estate.
As I put it above, there were some serious flaws in the way chivalry was practised. I'd like to see chivalry return, not the chivalric system as it was then. I do not think chivalry and women suffrage are mutually exclusive to any extend. I see it as a serious problem that in the post suffrage Western world, this often is the case. If you look at parts of the world were women suffrage has been or is being introduced more gradually, you'll notice that much more "female honour" is preserved in the process. Again, as which the previous point, the problem seems to be interpretation.
Flecco wrote:
I'm not following that at all. You essentially agreed with my point there, society DID control the actors. To the point where in the aristocracy of Old Europe you could not turn down a challenge to duel without losing everything. House, family ties, money... All gone if you backed down on a direct challenge to your honour.
Yes I did agree to your point. However my point was that this should not be a reason to abolish dueling. The problem is that society controlled the actors in such a way that duelling was forced upon individuals. What we should do, rather than abolish duelling, is lift this social pressure by 21st century law and reforms. The problem is in the way society dealt with duelling not in duelling itself.
Flecco wrote:
but we are more civilised than that now here in the Western World.
Please explain this to me from a non-ethnocentric point of view.