KEN-JENNINGS
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I believe one thing.

I believe another.

Let's take it to a vote to decide who's belief is right!

Fucking ridiculous.  Since when do religious institutions have a monopoly on the word "marriage"?
Laika
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KEN-JENNINGS wrote:

Fucking ridiculous.  Since when do religious institutions have a monopoly on the word "marriage"?
They do in the religious sense of the word, or at least they ought to, based on the separation of church and state.

Marriage, in its religious sense, should not be regulated by the government, only the church. "Civil union" is the more appropriate term for a government regulated union between two partners. However, I suppose the government could borrow the term "marriage" and use it for their own purposes as long as they don't try to impose their definition of marriage on the church's definition of marriage.
KEN-JENNINGS
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Ataronchronon wrote:

KEN-JENNINGS wrote:

Fucking ridiculous.  Since when do religious institutions have a monopoly on the word "marriage"?
They do in the religious sense of the word, or at least they ought to, based on the separation of church and state.

Marriage, in its religious sense, should not be regulated by the government, only the church. "Civil union" is the more appropriate term for a government regulated union between two partners. However, I suppose the government could borrow the term "marriage" and use it for their own purposes as long as they don't try to impose their definition of marriage on the church's definition of marriage.
They can keep their religious meaning - and a law allowing marriage isn't changing that religious meaning - to them.  Prop 8 had nothing to do with "the religious definition", only the legal term used by government.  A church would not get sued for not performing a marriage between two guys.  A church doesn't have to recognize that marriage.  The proposition was worded to change the legal definition (used by government, not churches) to the union of a man and woman.  It is religious zealots imposing their beliefs on government.
Schwarzelungen
drunklenglungen
+133|6310|Bloomington Indiana
not everyone gets married in a church, or by a pastor/father or whatever.......i dont believe this "its a religious word" hoo ha

its still called marriage if a judge does it.


Usually the state laws provide any recognized member of the clergy (such as a Priest, Minister, Rabbi, Imam, Cantor, Ethical Culture Leader, etc.), or a judge, a court clerk, and justices of the peace have authority to perform a marriage. However in some states even the clergy must be first certified or licensed.

http://www.usmarriagelaws.com/search/un … ndex.shtml


yeah, the religious arguments gone out the window

marriage is marriage. quit getting all wound up cause the gays want something you have. if they wanna be as miserable as everyone else, let 'em

Last edited by Schwarzelungen (2008-11-05 13:20:55)

motherdear
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first of all, I believe that it's complete and utter idiocrazy that even though the US says that it's the land of the free (and it certainly is on many points) it does not allow marriages between homosexuals. just because in the western world the word marriage is believed to be between a man and a woman it does not mean that that is the exact diffenition here off.
In many african tribes and countries it has been tradition for thousands of years to have marriages between one man and several women. so clearly you cannot diffine marriage by saying that it got one meaning (since obviously it does not) but infact several different meanings, I can understand that some people want to keep some things that are important in their culture but this does not mean that we should rob other people their right to be treated as equal people under the same constistution.
It only seems fair that the majority culture should have the biggest say on cultural matters, but it should not ban things that does not directly hurt society or other people, therefore it should either legalize those things or make a status that carries the same rights as a traditional marriage (divorce rights, bank account merging etc etc. the list goes on) and that is probably just what the far majority of homosexuals want, their right to live a normal life under the same conditions as their equals and not be treated as second class citizens without the same rights.

I know that some of the stuff i have just said is confusing because of my not "perfect" english but i hope that the meaning got through.
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Agent_Dung_Bomb
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Schwarzelungen wrote:

not everyone gets married in a church, or by a pastor/father or whatever.......i dont believe this "its a religious word" hoo ha

its still called marriage if a judge does it.


Usually the state laws provide any recognized member of the clergy (such as a Priest, Minister, Rabbi, Imam, Cantor, Ethical Culture Leader, etc.), or a judge, a court clerk, and justices of the peace have authority to perform a marriage. However in some states even the clergy must be first certified or licensed.

http://www.usmarriagelaws.com/search/un … ndex.shtml


yeah, the religious arguments gone out the window

marriage is marriage. quit getting all wound up cause the gays want something you have. if they wanna be as miserable as everyone else, let 'em
Actually, marriage did start out as a religious concept.  It has only been since the 20th century that the government has been involved in this, largely due to changing laws regarding property rights, money, taxes, legal responsibility, etc.
.Sup
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People can do whatever they want in their personal life unless they are harming someone else while doing it.
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CameronPoe
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Let me get this straight .... Was this a vote on a religious matter or on civil unions?
Agent_Dung_Bomb
Member
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CameronPoe wrote:

Let me get this straight .... Was this a vote on a religious matter or on civil unions?
Technically the vote was to define marriage, as being between a man and a woman, within the California constitution.  However, the way it is written makes even civil unions impossible, there by removing any legal rights that normally accompany a "married" couple.
Varegg
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Deadmonkiefart wrote:

Proposition 8, if passed, would ban same sex marriages.  Here is my argument in support of it. 

The word marriage has existed for at least a thousand years, during which, it's meaning has remained unchanged.  The definition of a word cannot simply be changed by a small minority of the population that wishes to impose its will on the majority by restructuring society.  There was already a vote on this several years ago, and a clear majority of the population still defined marriage as between a man and a woman.  This statewide vote was overturned by California's radical liberal supreme court with very vague justification.  This is a case of a powerful minority imposing its will on society.  A word that has had the same meaning for such a long time cannot simply be redefined by  a small amount of people who do clearly do not represent society.  Marriage and Civil Unions are different words with different meanings.  The only difference in the meaning is that a marriage is between a man and a woman, and civil unions can be between two people of the same sex or two people of different sex.  As long as the majority of people define marriage as an institution that can only be between  a man and a woman, it cannot justifiably be changed.  It is not a moral issue.  If I was gay, I would still define marriage as being between a man and a woman.  That is simply its definition to me. We are not discriminating against anyone by maintaining the definition of a word.   

If you don't like my first argument:

The issue is not "equal rights".  The problem is separation of church and state.  Marriage is not a "sacred institution" to me; I'm not a christian.  However, it is a religious institution.  Any couple can get a civil union, man man, man woman, or woman woman.  A marriage is performed in a church, by a pastor, on the bible.  The idea that a gay person would marry anyone on a bible is quite simply absurd to me, since they would be essentially desecrating the very book that they are swearing on.  In Massachusetts, pastors were fined and even arrested for not marrying gay couples, something that is forbidden by their religion.  The government is regulating and interfering with a religion.  This is totally in opposition to the separation of church and state.

Now, I would be very pleasantly surprised to have someone prove refute me with some legitimate arguments, since it has not happend yet.
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Schwarzelungen
drunklenglungen
+133|6310|Bloomington Indiana

Agent_Dung_Bomb wrote:

Schwarzelungen wrote:

not everyone gets married in a church, or by a pastor/father or whatever.......i dont believe this "its a religious word" hoo ha

its still called marriage if a judge does it.


Usually the state laws provide any recognized member of the clergy (such as a Priest, Minister, Rabbi, Imam, Cantor, Ethical Culture Leader, etc.), or a judge, a court clerk, and justices of the peace have authority to perform a marriage. However in some states even the clergy must be first certified or licensed.

http://www.usmarriagelaws.com/search/un … ndex.shtml


yeah, the religious arguments gone out the window

marriage is marriage. quit getting all wound up cause the gays want something you have. if they wanna be as miserable as everyone else, let 'em
Actually, marriage did start out as a religious concept.  It has only been since the 20th century that the government has been involved in this, largely due to changing laws regarding property rights, money, taxes, legal responsibility, etc.
never said it didnt.
The#1Spot
Member
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.Sup wrote:

People can do whatever they want in their personal life unless they are harming someone else while doing it.
You know a lot of gay people are very public about it.
MGS3_GrayFox
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+50|6181

The#1Spot wrote:

.Sup wrote:

People can do whatever they want in their personal life unless they are harming someone else while doing it.
You know a lot of gay people are very public about it.
I doubt they affect you, and if they do, then you should get some therapy because you're homophobic.
KEN-JENNINGS
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Hurricane2k9 wrote:

California Uber Alles
"We've Got Bigger Problems Now"



There's actually a better lounge-type version on a DK album that is escaping my memory right now.
Agent_Dung_Bomb
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Damn that song sucked.
SealXo
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Itpassed Yay
Diesel_dyk
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Wow We finally get a black president and everyone is talking about how great the nation feels to shrug off these racist a$$holes and now this.

Hopefully it won't take 50 years to shrug off these religious zealots.

We are a nation of individuals, not a series of segregated religious groups.

When the government enforces a religous definition of marrriage it breaches the seperation of church and state because it is choosing to enforce one persons definition of marriage while ignoring another religious persons definition of marriage. Hopefully the next shock after Obama will be the acceptance that we live in a multicultural society where no group acting under the guise of democracy can enforce their bigotry on individuals.

We are a nation of individuals, not a socialist state under a single religious dogma.

Prop 8 is a really bad joke propogated by the worst kind of socialists.
Reciprocity
Member
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GraphicArtist J wrote:

But of course. I'm sure they don't want to push their gay agenda unto all society and our kids as there is no obvious proof from what we see in everyday life.  /sarcasm
*rolls eyes*
Again... There's always Michigan.
Yeah, it's that damned gay agenda.

-We want the same rights as everyone else

-We don't wanna be tied to a fence post and beaten to death

makes me sick
ATG
Banned
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I'm embarrassed for California.


religious buttheads need to keep their noses in their bibles and outta peoples bedrooms.
xBlackPantherx
Grow up, or die
+142|6357|California
Why the fuck do you care if other people get married if it doesn't effect you at all. Why should you get special rights over other people just because you like sticking in the but of a girl instead of a guy? You shouldn't. Our country was founded on the idea of equality and Yes on 8 goes against everything we've deemed unconstitutional. It's entirely discriminatory. This is supposed to be separation of church and state and right now it isn't. Besides you don't have to me a church minister or priest to perform a marriage, so long as you're licensed to do so. Well, or a captain of a ship in international waters...either way haha
usmarine
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why do people give a fuck who people marry anyway?  good grief.
Poseidon
Fudgepack DeQueef
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usmarine wrote:

why do people give a fuck who people marry anyway?  good grief.
'coz God says it's baaaaaaaaaaad!
usmarine
Banned
+2,785|6775

Poseidon wrote:

usmarine wrote:

why do people give a fuck who people marry anyway?  good grief.
'coz God says it's baaaaaaaaaaad!
ya well maybe when priests stop fiddling little boys then maybe we should listen to them.
Hurricane2k9
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marriage is sacred 50% of the time lulz
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