The BF2s girl-problems thread

2009-10-01 16:11:03

#2251

Oisín<3: >rush.Irishpride; +139|5622|Dublin, Ireland

Vilham wrote:
not gunna happen. I have a mate like you. No self control, does stupid shit, then whines about it.

Grow the fuck up.

Perhaps your right.

I'm a cunt for self-control. I really just can't say no, and it's not just for girls. Alcohol, food, gaming...

Anybody know what one does to improve self control?

2009-10-01 16:13:32

#2252

13urnzz: Banned; +5,830|6693

i miss Uzique too.

2009-10-01 16:15:41

#2253

Hurricane2k9: Pendulous Sweaty Balls; +1,538|5897|College Park, MD

Weight the consequences properly? Is it really worth fucking some chick to risk losing your relationship and the current love of your life?

Hopefully it isn't. At least you feel guilty. The real question is whether you take this guilt and resolve not to do what you did again. If you take the guilt and ignore it then it's like smoking cigarettes: you acknowledge the consequences and do it anyway.

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2009-10-01 16:19:19

#2254

Oisín<3: >rush.Irishpride; +139|5622|Dublin, Ireland

Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Weight the consequences properly? Is it really worth fucking some chick to risk losing your relationship and the current love of your life?

Hopefully it isn't. At least you feel guilty. The real question is whether you take this guilt and resolve not to do what you did again. If you take the guilt and ignore it then it's like smoking cigarettes: you acknowledge the consequences and do it anyway.

No, the last thing I want to do right now is upset this relationship. I've decided to try my best to be faithful.

I know what I've did is stupid, and I don't want to do it again.

But fuck me, now that that dude mentioned it I'm a sucker for self-control.

2009-10-01 16:22:34

#2255

Hurricane2k9: Pendulous Sweaty Balls; +1,538|5897|College Park, MD

No, you're a sucker for lack of self-control. I'd say don't tell her for now, but if you need to in order to clear your conscience, wait a while.

2009-10-01 16:23:44

#2256

Oisín<3: >rush.Irishpride; +139|5622|Dublin, Ireland

Hurricane2k9 wrote:
No, you're a sucker for lack of self-control. I'd say don't tell her for now, but if you need to in order to clear your conscience, wait a while.

Yeah, I know it would be eating me up inside out if I leave it too long. I'll wait till she does something silly

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2009-10-01 17:04:59

#2257

Laika: Member; +75|6139

Oisín<3 wrote:
Not a chance I'm telling her anytime soon anyways. I couldn't do that to her right now, her dad isnt well

What a prick I am.

I need to pull myself together, I really do.

You're such a douche I feel better about myself just reading your posts. Man up some and stop sleeping around, prick.

2009-10-01 18:15:46

#2258

Bevo: Nah; +718|6717|Austin, Texas

Oisin, you're a fucking idiot. You don't love that girl if you've been sleeping around, and you don't deserve her.

2009-10-01 18:16:24

#2259

Stimey: +786|6316|Ontario | Canada

aight boys gettin right wankered with the lady tommorow.

wish me luck

2009-10-01 18:23:02

#2260

Kimmmmmmmmmmmm: ©; +1,811|6193

Oisin i suggest you do the girl a favor and let her go. if i were her i would feel better knowing the truth than livin a lie.
2 diff chicks? lol are you blaming it on the alcohol?

2009-10-01 18:25:55

#2261

Bevo: Nah; +718|6717|Austin, Texas

kimmmmm, poor excuse to post that vid.

Spoiler (highlight to read):
blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-a-alcohol

2009-10-01 19:46:23

#2262

Adams_BJ: Russian warship, go fuck yourself; +2,054|6818|Little Bentcock

You don't love her, you've been with her for a month, and you've already cheated twice. Scumbag faggot cock sucking wanker she obviously deserves better.

2009-10-01 19:48:45

#2263

IrishGrimReaper: Field Marshal | o |; +142|6917|Ireland | Monaghan

Disclamier: This isn't directed at anyone in particular.

But god I hate it when someone asks for advice, yet you know rightly they're not gonna do the right thing anyway. Irishpride up there for example(no offence buddy), you know she doesn't deserve it, and the right thing to do is break up with her, cause it's not fair on her. You won't listen to me anyway or anyone else, cause you're getting away with it now. As long as you keep getting away with it, you won't stop. And fuck sake, don't tell a girl you love her after 1 month, god I hate when people do that. Where I live it's the same, you got these young wankers, thinking they're in love, declare it in the first month 1 of them cheats then it's a big hating game where all hell breaks loose.

The only problem with you and your girl is you, just break it off with her, you cheated cause you urged for other women, not cause of alcohol, you know deep down you're too young for serious shit and that urge won't go away. I felt the same for awhile with my girlfriend(2 years going out on 26th) but I knew for me it was a phase and I never ever cheated on her. Not to mention she lives in Germany too, so I'm probably in a good position to cheat and get away with it, but I don't cause I love her... And I didn't tell her that after 1 month either ¬.¬

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2009-10-02 02:37:12

#2264

LittleBitchy: I hope Hell has wi-fi.; +150|5655|Yeah, there :)

Oisín<3 wrote:
I don't know weather or not to tell her, I know she'll forgive me... But it will take away from what we have going on right now.

Tell her.
She trusts you, loves you....and you'll keeep this from her. She'll feel even more betrayed and even worse if you wait a few weeks/months. She'll be with you, go out with you, do stuff with you, not knowing anything happened.
You did it, it was your mistake not hers, she has the right to know and decide if she still wants to be with you or not. Don't lie and keep this from her.
Take responsibility for your mistakes.

Fall seven times. Stand up eight.

2009-10-02 02:58:32

#2265

Cybargs: Moderated; +2,285|6912

Oisín<3 wrote:
Not a chance I'm telling her anytime soon anyways. I couldn't do that to her right now, her dad isnt well

What a prick I am.

I need to pull myself together, I really do.

You're a real fuck up on the internet and real life.

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2009-10-02 03:17:29

#2266

Oisín<3: >rush.Irishpride; +139|5622|Dublin, Ireland

LittleBitchy wrote:
Oisín<3 wrote:
I don't know weather or not to tell her, I know she'll forgive me... But it will take away from what we have going on right now.
Tell her.
She trusts you, loves you....and you'll keeep this from her. She'll feel even more betrayed and even worse if you wait a few weeks/months. She'll be with you, go out with you, do stuff with you, not knowing anything happened.
You did it, it was your mistake not hers, she has the right to know and decide if she still wants to be with you or not. Don't lie and keep this from her.
Take responsibility for your mistakes.

But at the start she did mention it, going to Uni ect... She said she trusted me but told me to be 'careful', and make sure not to do anything silly.

I really want to tell her, but I'm afraid it will fuck up what we have. I'm never going to cheat on her ever again, but how can she trust me after I told her I was never going to cheat on her the first time?

Cybargs wrote:
Oisín<3 wrote:
Not a chance I'm telling her anytime soon anyways. I couldn't do that to her right now, her dad isnt well

What a prick I am.

I need to pull myself together, I really do.
You're a real fuck up on the internet and real life.

Not really, I'm just having a hard time with this relationship. To be honest, I've never been in a relationship like this before. I've always been a 1-night-stand man. Of course I'm going to make mistakes at the start, but I just hope I learn from them.

2009-10-02 03:43:50

#2267

LittleBitchy: I hope Hell has wi-fi.; +150|5655|Yeah, there :)

Do you think it will not fuck up everything later? You say: I won't tell her yet. As time will pass you'll say: I'm not telling her...ever. Everything is so great now i don't want to ruin everything. And you'll never tell. It's not fair to her, that you're keeping this from her.

How can she trust you after you told her you'll never cheat and u did? Well, you'll have to gain back her trust and start from zero, if she decides to stay with you.
You can learn from your mistakes if you admit them and face the consequences.

Fall seven times. Stand up eight.

2009-10-02 04:05:36

#2268

Adams_BJ: Russian warship, go fuck yourself; +2,054|6818|Little Bentcock

Oisín<3 wrote:
I'm never going to cheat on her ever again

Oisín<3 wrote:
after I told her I was never going to cheat on her the first time?

Such credibility.

E: 20 bucks he does it again.

Last edited by Adams_BJ (2009-10-02 04:06:01)

2009-10-02 04:44:10

#2269

JakAttaK: csanva<3; +492|6522|England

LittleBitchy wrote:
Take responsibility for your mistakes.

This.

Fuck sake man, you cheated on her, it was your choice, whether it was because of the alcohol or not. Tell her and take the consequences like a man. You know full well you don't deserve her because of how you've treated her one month in. So if she ends it, you can only blame yourself and you'll have learned a valuable lesson for the future.

It's that or she finds out later (trust me she will find out one way or another, and you'll break her heart. If you care about her like you do (which I don't really think you would have cheated if you did) you'll tell her now, to avoid further hurt.

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2009-10-02 04:55:33

#2270

Gawwad: My way or Haddaway!; +212|6881|Espoo, Finland

Oisin you're pathetic.

2009-10-02 05:07:14

#2271

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6845

JakAttaK wrote:
LittleBitchy wrote:
Take responsibility for your mistakes.
This.

Fuck sake man, you cheated on her, it was your choice, whether it was because of the alcohol or not. Tell her and take the consequences like a man. You know full well you don't deserve her because of how you've treated her one month in. So if she ends it, you can only blame yourself and you'll have learned a valuable lesson for the future.

It's that or she finds out later (trust me she will find out one way or another, and you'll break her heart. If you care about her like you do (which I don't really think you would have cheated if you did) you'll tell her now, to avoid further hurt.

Dude get it right, he cheated on her because he didn't want to pay for a taxi.

Oisin, I recommend you mention the taxi part when you tell her, she'll appreciate your thriftiness.

2009-10-02 05:21:22

#2272

Ultrafunkula: Hector: Ding, ding, ding, ding...; +1,975|6669|6 6 4 oh, I forget

Lol. What a jackass.

2009-10-02 06:00:50

#2273

Flecco: iPod is broken.; +1,048|6861|NT, like Mick Dundee

Fuck sake I thought Oisin left.

I even told Jord.

Whoa... Can't believe these forums are still kicking.

2009-10-02 06:17:09

#2274

RavyGravy: Son.; +617|6601|NSW, Australia

told ya he wouldnt leave

2009-10-02 06:46:09

#2275

Uzique: dasein.; +2,865|6666

itt: oisin turns the concept of 'girl problems' on its head and displays a blatant case of 'self problem'. you're a douche. get some morals and a conscience. stop feeling sorry for yourself for being a cunt and... stop being a cunt. problem sorted. next.

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