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Jaekus wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

If you really want to burn a girlfriend/girl, only call her over for sex for as long as you can, act indifferent towards her after fucking. After a while fuck her sister/cousin or her best friends. That will drive them fucking nuts.

My friend did something similar except rather than fucking a relative/friend, he got really drunk and fucked his 3-months pregnant coworker with no condom and got chlamydia and then gave it to her next time they did it

Wasn't completely intentional though as far as I know

How to you unintentionally fuck a girl?

he accidentally the whole sex

kmar: i think being an asshole is just some bullshit confidence thing that girls pick up. also shows you arent desperate for pussy, makes the bitches want your dick more.

Cybargs wrote:

Jaekus wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

My friend did something similar except rather than fucking a relative/friend, he got really drunk and fucked his 3-months pregnant coworker with no condom and got chlamydia and then gave it to her next time they did it

Wasn't completely intentional though as far as I know

How to you unintentionally fuck a girl?

he accidentally the whole sex

kmar: i think being an asshole is just some bullshit confidence thing that girls pick up. also shows you arent desperate for pussy, makes the bitches want your dick more.

Especially if that girl has security issues.. they want approval and validation more than you want to stick it in them.
/sorry but true.

Jaekus wrote:

Kmar wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

he accidentally the whole sex

kmar: i think being an asshole is just some bullshit confidence thing that girls pick up. also shows you arent desperate for pussy, makes the bitches want your dick more.

Especially if that girl has security issues.. they want approval and validation more than you want to stick it in them.
/sorry but true.

Reason why some girls go for guys who treat them not so well is that when they are treated well by them they feel they measure up to their standards. A nice guy gives them validation without any effort on their part so they don't bother, or just aren't attracted to him as a result. Nice guys also tend to come across as being a bit of a pushover. Girls want to be looked after so even if a guy is an arsehole they know that whilst they're with him no other guy will give her shit, so she feels safe.

Better the devil you know...

And these are the girls that almost always have a guy in the friend-zone. They get the best of both worlds in their minds. Though few will admit it, because they'd be labeled as selfish, and rightfully so.

I had a girl (friend) that was like this with me. I'm one of those kind giving-I-like-to-take-care of ya ppl (now at least). When she was with me she was calmed, at peace and happy. But she was still drawn to the inconsiderate type. I felt used for awhile .. even though I eventually hit it..lol. But she still would never commit to me. She claimed she would understand if I just left.. that she put herself in my shoes. But in my mind, if that is the case, then you reflect that with your behavior, and not just words.

.. and btw, every-time I did leave, even if I just didn't talk to her for one day, she got verrrry upset. Because she did learn to count on me.. and yea, there was other attraction between besides the nurtring-ill take care-of-ya. Eventually the cycle gets too much you to handle tho.

what's wrong with a-dinner-and-a-movie?
ah, nevermind. you can't catch a moment to ask her, is that it? that's... as silly an excuse as i ever heard, tbh. just go and ask her ffs.

Last edited by Shahter (2012-02-10 00:11:28)

Kmar wrote:

Jaekus wrote:

Kmar wrote:

Especially if that girl has security issues.. they want approval and validation more than you want to stick it in them.
/sorry but true.

Reason why some girls go for guys who treat them not so well is that when they are treated well by them they feel they measure up to their standards. A nice guy gives them validation without any effort on their part so they don't bother, or just aren't attracted to him as a result. Nice guys also tend to come across as being a bit of a pushover. Girls want to be looked after so even if a guy is an arsehole they know that whilst they're with him no other guy will give her shit, so she feels safe.

Better the devil you know...

And these are the girls that almost always have a guy in the friend-zone. They get the best of both worlds in their minds. Though few will admit it, because they'd be labeled as selfish, and rightfully so.

Yeah, totally.

I had a girl (friend) that was like this with me. I'm one of those kind giving-I-like-to-take-care of ya ppl (now at least). When she was with me she was calmed, at peace and happy. But she was still drawn to the inconsiderate type. I felt used for awhile .. even though I eventually hit it..lol. But she still would never commit to me. She claimed she would understand if I just left.. that she put herself in my shoes. But in my mind, if that is the case, then you reflect that with your behavior, and not just words.

.. and btw, every-time I did leave, even if I just didn't talk to her for one day, she got verrrry upset. Because she did learn to count on me.. and yea, there was other attraction between besides the nurtring-ill take care-of-ya. Eventually the cycle gets too much you to handle tho.

I was in a bit of a similar situation once. I was her rock in life, but she'd refuse to hook up even though she hinted a few times verbally that she was attracted to me (we did end up doing it anyway). Everytime it would fall apart with some other guy she'd come back to me. We certainly did have a deep connection but I would never put myself through something like that again with all the feelings I had for her. I'd be that friend for a girl intentionally as that friend, but I would not be the nice guy that helps out and does stuff for her because I hoped she would wake up and see what an awesome guy I am and want me as a result. But I guess you have to experience these things to work it out for yourself.

Last edited by Jaekus (2012-02-10 00:17:21)

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Kmar wrote:

Shahter wrote:

just go and ask her ffs.

this really. Learn to get out of your comfort zone and it will get easier each time.

walks up to register in front of customers and cashier...so you free this weekend? I know very well how to get out of my comfort zone. I'm an extrovert. I got to dances all the time and make new friends.

I don't want to bug her in the middle of her work. So what, ask her if I could talk to her when she's finished bagging/pushing carts/doing whatever she does when running around the store with that machine thing

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

If you do nothing like you currently are I can guarantee your chance of success is 0%

Jaekus wrote:

I was in a bit of a similar situation once. I was her rock in life, but she'd refuse to hook up even though she hinted a few times verbally that she was attracted to me (we did end up doing it anyway). Everytime it would fall apart with some other guy she'd come back to me. We certainly did have a deep connection but I would never put myself through something like that again with all the feelings I had for her. I'd be that friend for a girl intentionally as that friend, but I would not be the nice guy that helps out and does stuff for her because I hoped she would wake up and see what an awesome guy I am and want me as a result. But I guess you have to experience these things to work it out for yourself.

Sounds like my story pretty much.. cept she kept going back to the same guy. And what worse is the other guy never knew that she had feelings for me.. (one always assumes the guy is in it to hit it). Those feelings were serious as hell too. Like long term stuff. I'd get hurt and think to myself I'm going to spill the beans to the other guy. This is what I mean by people get what they deserve. She was inconsiderate to my feelings, and she kept going back to someone who was inconsiderate to hers.

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Kmar wrote:

Shahter wrote:

just go and ask her ffs.

this really. Learn to get out of your comfort zone and it will get easier each time.

walks up to register in front of customers and cashier...so you free this weekend? I know very well how to get out of my comfort zone. I'm an extrovert. I got to dances all the time and make new friends.

I don't want to bug her in the middle of her work. So what, ask her if I could talk to her when she's finished bagging/pushing carts/doing whatever she does when running around the store with that machine thing

You need to find out where she lives, how she gets to and from work, where she goes in her leisure time and with whom - their names and addresses etc, same for any relatives.
Go through her trash to find out more about her, same for any friends and coworkers, relatives, should enable you to trace her via social media and so on.
Then you should be able to start formulating a plan, start by putting flowers on her bedside table while she's out, anonymous notes on her car, mail her photos of herself taken through a telephoto lens etc etc.

Or you could try going out and meeting people socially. I don't but thats me.

le dilderp

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Yes I know but asking her while she's in the middile of having to work and do something for her job would be annoying. I get that not asking is going to get me 0% but I can't just shove customers aside, tell 'em to piss off while I ask her out .

I know this process is complicated, so pay close attention.

1) grow some balls;
2) go in there and buy something;
3) ask her out when you're talking to her.

Seriously, it's not rocket science. You're making excuses.

Jaekus wrote:

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Yes I know but asking her while she's in the middile of having to work and do something for her job would be annoying. I get that not asking is going to get me 0% but I can't just shove customers aside, tell 'em to piss off while I ask her out .

I know this process is complicated, so pay close attention.

1) grow some balls;
2) go in there and buy something;
3) ask her out when you're talking to her.

Seriously, it's not rocket science. You're making excuses.

went to buy a drink, got in line, person in front had like 2 items, so she moved to the next lane where the person had like 20+ items to help bag...

ok Shanter

so she saw you were in her line and moved to another...

You are not going to ask her out. Have you even talked to her aside from pleasantries in the line up when you are buying something, cause they tend to make small talk with almost everybody.