She also wants us to hangout and hit a bar together and catchup ¯\(°_o)/¯
Dont go there. Trust me, I was in the same situation as you, got her and dated her for 2 years. Found out she was cheating on me the whole time. She's after the thrill, once you're the boyfriend, you aren't the thrill anymore.
might still have feelings for you, might not. Sparks do die, usually it's time that puts out the sparks more than anything (if they were lingering in the first place). Her cheating on him with you may have put them closer together as a couple, who knows. Hang out with her and see if she divulges anything. Don't forget to come back here and tell us!
There's no way it can work like that. Seriously? She mentioned she moved in with him when she was looking for a new place and it wasn't like a preplanned step in the relationship.KEN-JENNINGS wrote:
Her cheating on him with you may have put them closer together as a couple, who knows.
Adams_BJ wrote:
Dont go there. Trust me, I was in the same situation as you, got her and dated her for 2 years. Found out she was cheating on me the whole time. She's after the thrill, once you're the boyfriend, you aren't the thrill anymore.
Are you kidding me? You wan't to trust someone like that with a relationship? Good luck in life bro.Macbeth wrote:
I would like to get another human being's opinion about something before I start off on a path of crazy. And I can get dangerously crazy about stuff like this so yeah. If you are going to be a dick about it fuck off and die.
I'm just curious do sparks ever die? You know that feeling when you get when around a person that makes you nervous and curious and attracted? Yeah, those ever go away or is it something that's always there?
The back story and something that happened today and you'll understand the context of the question- I met this girl a few years ago. A girl I really liked. yadda yadda love yadda. Anyway she had a boyfriend. Awesome guy, very good looking. Much better looking than me. Born into money, went to Rochester University and got a degree in finance and economics. Had a nice car, huge apartment in a newly developed area I would kill to move into. Better than me in every way at the time and now. I had nothing on this guy since at the time I was going to a small shitty university and had to split my time between full time work and school since my parents had cut me off. (fucking assholes).
But I was able to seduce the girl. Took me a few months but I did it. The night I fucked her was also the last time I saw her in person though we kept in contact for a awhile afterward. There wasn't any awkwardness and we had plans to continue seeing each other even though she was still with the guy she was with. Just circumstances made us begin to loss contact...
So I don't see her for two and a half years. LOL I know.. I saw her today though and we spent a little time together as I drove her back to her place. She lives with the same guy she cheated on with me and spent god knows how much time complaining to me about him and so much other crap. She bitched and complained about him and spent most of her with me and fucked me but lives with the guy she cuckolded! They have been living together for 6 months now.
Once a slut always a slut? eh? I don't know. If she didn't care about him that much then why would she care about him now? Could you suddenly gain respect and love for a person even after doing that to them? Do you think a spark would still be there or still have room to ignite? I want this girl more than anything I have wanted in my entire life. I don't care about wrecking their relationship and stealing him girlfriend and the morality of all that. I know that "if she did it to him what would stop her from doing it to you" is there and I don't care. I'm just curious as to what the brain trust here thinks about the likelihood of accomplishing this would be.
I know this sounds similar to the other girl I mentioned a few days ago but it's different. I care about this girl. I genuinely enjoy her as a person. I don't care about the other one at all. If the other one died today I would just be upset I would no longer be getting sex. I want the girl I saw today. I really want her back and I think I can get it as long that spark is still there. I'm worried that the spark isn't there and she is closer and more serious with her boyfriend who I can't compete with. I don't know if I could actually grab that brass ring.
What do you think?
Sorry for the typoe, syntax, etc.
maybe we could close this thread now.
shes in it with him for the better life he is providing her ...... he probably actually loves her
for your case : thats a toughie ..... I've been there but I was only running the game to get that ass and wasn't interested in talking her or coaxing her away from the money that she was using to buy me shit .........
so ...... sparks don't really die off after time ... they just kinda simmer down and you'll get a lighting bolt from time to time when you're with that person after a certain amount of time
If I was you ...... I would do it for the bed fun and thats about it ........... if she ever leaves him, she will for ever be thinking about him and the life that he was providing her, the luxuries she was accustomed to
for your case : thats a toughie ..... I've been there but I was only running the game to get that ass and wasn't interested in talking her or coaxing her away from the money that she was using to buy me shit .........
so ...... sparks don't really die off after time ... they just kinda simmer down and you'll get a lighting bolt from time to time when you're with that person after a certain amount of time
If I was you ...... I would do it for the bed fun and thats about it ........... if she ever leaves him, she will for ever be thinking about him and the life that he was providing her, the luxuries she was accustomed to
yay free rent! i think you should get more info on the situation before the judgement.. it has been a few years. And yes, be sure to tell us the juicy details.Macbeth wrote:
There's no way it can work like that. Seriously? She mentioned she moved in with him when she was looking for a new place and it wasn't like a preplanned step in the relationship.KEN-JENNINGS wrote:
Her cheating on him with you may have put them closer together as a couple, who knows.
13urnzz wrote:
maybe we could close this thread now.
Jaekus wrote:
13urnzz wrote:
maybe we could delete this thread now.
i'd definitely go for the bar date, might get something out of it. See how you feel after that, then come back to us. But yeah, I agree with the others, doesn't sound worth it.
Yeah, they can go away, doesn't mean they can't come back thoughMacbeth wrote:
I'm just curious do sparks ever die? You know that feeling when you get when around a person that makes you nervous and curious and attracted? Yeah, those ever go away or is it something that's always there?
I say go for it, what have you got to lose if you don't try?
The bar she wants to hangout at is right around the corner from her apartment I don't know how to read that.
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Yeah probably that.
She shares the apartment with her boyfriend...
We went out to a restaurant that her boyfriend and friends enjoyed and took her before but it wasn't so close to were he was. I don't know. It just doesn't seem like you would go out with someone like that so close to home.
You get it?
We went out to a restaurant that her boyfriend and friends enjoyed and took her before but it wasn't so close to were he was. I don't know. It just doesn't seem like you would go out with someone like that so close to home.
You get it?
so finray what happened to your rash? EE chats it up
Macbeth wrote:
She shares the apartment with her boyfriend...
We went out to a restaurant that her boyfriend and friends enjoyed and took her before but it wasn't so close to were he was. I don't know. It just doesn't seem like you would go out with someone like that so close to home.
You get it?
Adams_BJ wrote:
Adams_BJ wrote:
Dont go there. Trust me, I was in the same situation as you, got her and dated her for 2 years. Found out she was cheating on me the whole time. She's after the thrill, once you're the boyfriend, you aren't the thrill anymore.
I'd type my pc specs out all fancy again but teh mods would remove it. Again.
Macbeth,
She wants a little strange on the side, for the thrill of it.
You are that strange.
She's got safe, secure, and boring all tied up at home. She's not going to ditch that.
She's got risk, strange, sneaking about, thrilling, different on the side too! (you).
Like going to a sushi restauraunt.
You get the plate of sushi, and a side of wasabi on the side.
You'd never just get a plate of wasabi by itself.
To her, you're the wasabi.
Don't try to get a relationship with a girl like that.
They are not girlfriend material.
They will fuck around, lie, cheat, and take every cent you've got - and feel perfectly in the right while they do so.
Crazy women, you've got one in the only position that's any good to have one in.
Have fun, then send her back home to the bigger fool that's paying the bills.
She wants a little strange on the side, for the thrill of it.
You are that strange.
She's got safe, secure, and boring all tied up at home. She's not going to ditch that.
She's got risk, strange, sneaking about, thrilling, different on the side too! (you).
Like going to a sushi restauraunt.
You get the plate of sushi, and a side of wasabi on the side.
You'd never just get a plate of wasabi by itself.
To her, you're the wasabi.
Don't try to get a relationship with a girl like that.
They are not girlfriend material.
They will fuck around, lie, cheat, and take every cent you've got - and feel perfectly in the right while they do so.
Crazy women, you've got one in the only position that's any good to have one in.
Have fun, then send her back home to the bigger fool that's paying the bills.
rdx-fx wrote:
Like going to a sushi restauraunt.
You get the plate of sushi, and a side of wasabi on the side.
You'd never just get a plate of wasabi by itself.
To her, you're the wasabi.
rdx-fx wrote:
and a side of wasabi on the side.
Challenge them.
I stood in line for four hours. They better give me a Wal-Mart gift card, or something. - Rodney Booker, Job Fair attendee.
Women. Are. Rheil
