BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Alright I'm gonna post this because it's actually driving me mad.

I've been single for pretty much 5 months now. I don't sit at home all day moping around and shit, I didn't when we broke up. I'm actually pretty busy the whole time. I do more stuff now than when we were together, and I have a solid group of close friends which is something I nearly lost due to my relationship. I am happy. I barely see her, only talk to her when I strictly have to, no longer have her as a friend on facebook, so I don't even see her stuff on that.

But for whatever reason the last 3 weeks every single dream I have had she has been in. Before this started I hadn't dreamt (or had any I could remember at least) for a good few months. When I'm bored I day dream, it used to about random shit, music, going out, what's for dinner later etc etc. Now I catch myself thinking about her. And it's annoying as fuck because in my job I have a lot of time to daydream. The worst part is, I saw her today and my heart went crazy. It's some of the worst butterflies I've ever had too.

Remember though, I've been single for 5 months, and until now none of this stuff happened.

Personally, I want to put it down to the lack of action I've had. I haven't had sex for the same length of time, and haven't kissed any other girls or anything. But I really don't understand why that would make me act like I am I've been fine til now with it. Dunno. Any explanations please?

ghettoperson wrote:

You haven't kissed anyone in 5 months? You're practically GS. Go out and get some strange.

I haven't really had any chances lol.

JakAttaK wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

You haven't kissed anyone in 5 months? You're practically GS. Go out and get some strange.

I haven't really had any chances lol.

Oh you've had plenty of chances. Just none without being back handed afterward.

Since this popped up I might as well say I'm going to have a talk with the girl I like and tell hew how I feel, and see how she feels, and if it's no then I'll fuck off and forget it.

Yeah, that happens. I was with a chick for a lot less time than you were, and I'd still daydream and think about her. It'll go away eventually, or at least become minimal.

And ghetto's right, replace those old memories with some new ones

-Sh1fty- wrote:

JakAttaK wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

You haven't kissed anyone in 5 months? You're practically GS. Go out and get some strange.

I haven't really had any chances lol.

Oh you've had plenty of chances. Just none without being back handed afterward.

Since this popped up I might as well say I'm going to have a talk with the girl I like and tell hew how I feel, and see how she feels, and if it's no then I'll fuck off and forget it.

You're going to be very disappointed when she gets a little weirded/creeped out and isn't interested. Ask her out on a date first, as a sort of "let's get to know each other better" thing. If you come out with "oh I love you so much and I've got the biggest crush on you, etc." she's going to be intimidated and will want to get as far away from you as possible.

Then again, as a young teen, maybe it's important you experience this soon-to-be failure.

mtb0minime wrote:

Then again, as a young teen, maybe it's important you experience this soon-to-be failure.

Ok I get the point

I just wish she'd fucking get out of her house from behind her PC and come have some fun.

^ lol

JakAttaK wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

JakAttaK wrote:

I'm 18, but not at uni, and not going to uni either.

So you can go to bars and clubs then. Go out with your friends, make out with a few girls. Problem solved. Unless they're ugly, in which case you'll want Jess back even more.

Haha even when I'm drunk I don't do ugly girls. Not yet anyway I've been out plenty of times, but never had a chance to actually try and kiss a girl. I'd be dancing with a girl, and my friend would always 100% of the time come up and "dance" with them too. He's a bad dancer, and literally every girl he tries to dance with runs away. It's fucking hilarious to watch, but when he's cockblocking you its infuriating. He's gone for 9 weeks now though, and we're going out Monday so I will definitely have some time to get some in then.

Good. And tell him to get fucked and go scare some girls that you aren't trying to score with.

So now who the fuck do I listen to?

I invited her out to pool. She was busy. Monday I invited her to the pool with some friends to, but she said she'd only come if her best friend (girl) was there. Turns out she was busy too.

So basically, I'll just ask until she isn't busy. Which might annoy her -.-

So I'm thinking, "Hey wasup? Those other days you were busy so I thought we should arrange some day in the future to hang out?" *but in french*

mtb0minime wrote:

JakAttaK wrote:

Thats that solved, but is it the actual reason why this shit is happening? Like it just confuses me it didn't happen at first and now it does.

Ups and downs, comes and goes in waves.

fuck sake I can't be doing with this shit more than once.

-Sh1fty- wrote:

So now who the fuck do I listen to?

I invited her out to pool. She was busy. Monday I invited her to the pool with some friends to, but she said she'd only come if her best friend (girl) was there. Turns out she was busy too.

So basically, I'll just ask until she isn't busy. Which might annoy her -.-

So I'm thinking, "Hey wasup? Those other days you were busy so I thought we should arrange some day in the future to hang out?" *but in french*

Or you ask her when the fuck she isn't busy. Jesus.

If she 'doesn't know', then leave it, you're gonna get nowhere.

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Zimmer wrote:

Or you ask her when the fuck she isn't busy. Jesus.

If she 'doesn't know', then leave it, you're gonna get nowhere.

If she says, "Je sais pas" (I don't know) I'll reply with a big fuck you in a more polite, "Ok I get it, sorry to have bugged you about it so long".

have you pushed your finger in her bum yet? or your's at that fact?

burnzz wrote:

if you aren't willing to put time in, shut the fuck up, pick up your keys and your wallet and

get a hooker . . .

and on that note


*slams doors * ............. *vroom, vroom * ........... *speds off into the distant sunset*