BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Metal-Eater-GR wrote:

BF2s, very often I go after girls that are in a relationship, and when they break up and start -lets say- flirting with me I lose complete interest. It's driving me mad, thinking about a girl all the time and the next day when she's single you don't give a crap about her.

Everyone wants what they can't have.

"inside her"?

I found a USB stick on campus today, I thought it was my mate's. It wasn't and it looked old and shabby, so I took it and plugged it into my laptop. There was nothing on it besides a shitload of documents and collected field data, which really looked like someone would miss it. So I skimmed the documents untill I found a girl's name and a studentnumber:

I wrote:

Dear ABC,

You left your "XYZ" USB stick at the PQR computers. I
am in college on monday if you want it back, otherwise you'll have to
make a trip to (...the town I'm living in...).

With kind regards,

Blind date FTW She might be fugly though or emo, but I'm having a good laugh about this.

Little BaBy JESUS wrote:

haffeysucks wrote:

so in theory knowing a girl that likes you and is bi is pretty awesome right?  threesome opporunities etc etc

but in reality i will say that it is not.  knowing a girl can have the hots for another girl over you is actually pretty disconcerting

Twice the competition

I dunno, it also means she picked you out of twice the number of people,.. I would be quite flattered by that.

Last edited by Lai (2010-04-09 11:15:25)

Lai wrote:

Little BaBy JESUS wrote:

haffeysucks wrote:

so in theory knowing a girl that likes you and is bi is pretty awesome right?  threesome opporunities etc etc

but in reality i will say that it is not.  knowing a girl can have the hots for another girl over you is actually pretty disconcerting

Twice the competition

I dunno, it also means she picked you out of twice the number of people,.. I would be quite flattered by that.

that's a very nice way of looking at it, didn't think about that

but still, i have concerns about the future...anyway she's a junior, i'm a senior, and i'm off to uni in 5 months or so.  it just wouldnt work out.

Nah, get to know the girl on the dates, if you don't like her after the first one when you get to know her you don't go on a second. Or you take her on another date anyway so you can get laid.

Suggest a different day/time?

Zimmer wrote:

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Ok

So I see her Fridays when we have our group thing, I've seen her maybe 5 or 6 times. Hope I'm not the "Friend" yet.

I asked her if she wanted to go out and get a drink n just talk n stuff but she was already going out with her girl friends to the mall. (The same gals I walked with last night).

Then just say...
"How about some other time then? Sometime soon though!"

Be confident in how you suggest it, it makes a huge difference when the girl is deciding whether to say yes or not. Most girls will say yes if they get asked out with confidence (they will also say yes if you don't but they still like you, but you're safer with confidence) and they like it when the guy takes firm initiative.

You can fake confidence.

Avoid the words 'stuff', 'thing', and 'around'. Instant confidence and precision without looking like a tool. Amazing.

Try being like Date Mike:

Poseidon wrote:

hanging out with my friend nikki tonight... let's see if my game works well on her, considering her bf just broke up with her via text... fucking cowards i tell you

bring a condom

ps it's like 9PM shouldn't you be out with her by now? damn kids staying up late

Bevo wrote:

nikki? Sounds like you've already got it under control

you're a smart man, i don't care what they say about you

Poseidon wrote:

almost leaned in for a kiss when she dropped me off but i figured i wouldn't try that yet... smart move by me i'd say

definitely got it goin' on though... just gotta figure out how to ease her into it. all my relationships have been really unorthodox when we got together so this might be my first one that's au natural lmao

her name is nikki, anything short of a makeout session on the first date = fail tbh

GL anyway poseidon

Pochsy wrote:

Zimmer wrote:

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Ok

So I see her Fridays when we have our group thing, I've seen her maybe 5 or 6 times. Hope I'm not the "Friend" yet.

I asked her if she wanted to go out and get a drink n just talk n stuff but she was already going out with her girl friends to the mall. (The same gals I walked with last night).

Then just say...
"How about some other time then? Sometime soon though!"

Be confident in how you suggest it, it makes a huge difference when the girl is deciding whether to say yes or not. Most girls will say yes if they get asked out with confidence (they will also say yes if you don't but they still like you, but you're safer with confidence) and they like it when the guy takes firm initiative.

You can fake confidence.

Avoid the words 'stuff', 'thing', and 'around'. Instant confidence and precision without looking like a tool. Amazing.

I try to avoid internet conversation (MSN, Facebook, etc) as I just can't think of anything interesting to say as opposed to when I'm standing next to a person. I noticed she was on all morning (And she's generally always going out with friends) so I just asked how she was n stuff then she said she wouldn't be doing anything that day till later on, so I asked if she wanted to go out for a drink.

I just fail