BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Lai wrote:

>rush.Durex wrote:

I have no relationship problems.

The blowjob I got last night was the best to date.

flame on fuckers

Since you directly equal sex to not having relationship problems, I would say you quite evidently have relationship problems.

Wanna talk about it?

Too bad he can't. He's banned.

Zimmer wrote:

Pug wrote:

My experience...ex gf friendship usually is a bad idea.

This man speaks the truth. Not that I'm going to be following it soon enough, but I know why it should be the general rule.

Theres no point as well.

mtb0minime wrote:

Is it sad that I can't get over a late 30s / early 40s waitress from a restaurant I ate at one time a year ago? Is it sadder that all that happened between us was a few minutes of her taking me and my friend's order and then her leaning across the table to get something while putting her hand on my shoulder?

It was love at first sight. Although I don't think it was love, just some hardcore crushing; and it was "first touch". Just that brief moment... And it's not like I'm some super-virgin where holding hands with a woman makes me instantly cum. I just felt like an instant connection. I wanted more.


Ok, well, maybe it's not a matter of "getting over" her. But she does pop into my head from time to time.

I wish I could forget that day.





I wish I could go back in time and experience that day again.



e: Anyone with similar experiences? Or am I just weird

Go back to that restaurant and find her. Simple as. Yes I've had similar experiences...
When I went back to Spain some years back, this girl that was out of this world was in the pool of my old communal area flats - I was visiting old friends - and I fell for her. She was amazing. I never spoke to her that year, but I told myself I would come back for her. I did. A year later, I made sure I found out who she was and randomly texted her ( got the number off a friend ) and I got a reply...she remembered me. She was busy for a few weeks, so I waited...and on the second last day of my holiday, I finally met up with her...
We met up in la rambla and she was a bit fidgety and was acting as if she was looking for someone.... So I asked what she's looking out for...her answer?
'my boyfriend'
I died a little at that moment... But I kept it cool, met up with him and he was a guy I already knew from football when I lived in Spain...
I decided, over lunch, to slip in the ultimate question that I needed an answer to
'how long have you been together?'
'One week'
ONE WEEK.
I had already been in Spain for 3 weeks and I was about to leave....one fucking week. That is all. If I had been a week quicker to get some balls, I would have had her.

So yeah. I had another similar situation with a waitress I saw at a cafe when I was out inpecting track a good 100 miles away from where I live... I never chased it up though.

Zimmer wrote:

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Your thoughts, insights, and musings on this matter intrigue me. Seriously. Moral of the story: Don't wait for the perfect moment; make a move then and there. I've been there so many times

ghettoperson wrote:

Help me out here BF2s. I was talking to a girl the other night, and she gave me her number. However, she didn't write her last name down, so I can't Facebook stalk her to make sure she was as hot as I remember. How can I best text her to get her last name, without seeming like a stalker?

Call the number service ofcourse! Tell em you'd like to check who called you from this number.

ghettoperson wrote:

Help me out here BF2s. I was talking to a girl the other night, and she gave me her number. However, she didn't write her last name down, so I can't Facebook stalk her to make sure she was as hot as I remember. How can I best text her to get her last name, without seeming like a stalker?

just text her to say you'd like to send her some flowers at her work but you need her last name


or find out where she works and call the recepitioninst and ask for the chick but you can't remember the last name but only the 1st - majority of the time the secertary will tell you .. then just hang up

ghettoperson wrote:

SEREMAKER wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Help me out here BF2s. I was talking to a girl the other night, and she gave me her number. However, she didn't write her last name down, so I can't Facebook stalk her to make sure she was as hot as I remember. How can I best text her to get her last name, without seeming like a stalker?

just text her to say you'd like to send her some flowers at her work but you need her last name


or find out where she works and call the recepitioninst and ask for the chick but you can't remember the last name but only the 1st - majority of the time the secertary will tell you .. then just hang up

We're at college, most of us don't have a job let alone a receptionist.

Numero servicio. Do eeeet.

ghettoperson wrote:

SEREMAKER wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Help me out here BF2s. I was talking to a girl the other night, and she gave me her number. However, she didn't write her last name down, so I can't Facebook stalk her to make sure she was as hot as I remember. How can I best text her to get her last name, without seeming like a stalker?

just text her to say you'd like to send her some flowers at her work but you need her last name


or find out where she works and call the recepitioninst and ask for the chick but you can't remember the last name but only the 1st - majority of the time the secertary will tell you .. then just hang up

We're at college, most of us don't have a job let alone a receptionist.

Hey its _____, we met the other night. What's your surname so I can add you on facebook?

if you just say "Hey its _____ ______ from the other night, hows it going blah blah insert your version of small talk"

as long as you get your full name in there she will probably search for you on facebook and add you if she wants to, if she doesnt want to, its probably not gonna work

Ultrafunkula wrote:

Or then you do it the old fashion way. Go get a cup of something with her and ask her name.

are you fucking mental???

Peter wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

SEREMAKER wrote:

just text her to say you'd like to send her some flowers at her work but you need her last name


or find out where she works and call the recepitioninst and ask for the chick but you can't remember the last name but only the 1st - majority of the time the secertary will tell you .. then just hang up

We're at college, most of us don't have a job let alone a receptionist.

Hey its _____, we met the other night. What's your surname so I can add you on facebook?

Yeah that works.

That's a defeatist attitude Ig!