Thanks for the input you guys.
Let me clarify here, in my defence, I didn't bring up the discussion of the tits (or anything else we talked about, for that matter). I just went along with it; its just how this girl is. It was actually making fun of her tendency to be open about sexuality that upset her initially. I can honestly say that if her boyfriend was present for that conversation, it still could have gone ahead. Perhaps awkwardly, but yes.
SgtHeihn wrote:
You better hope your buddy doesn't care about that chick too much or you might be down a friend for a POA.
I assume you mean if I actually ended up doing anything with this girl? I agree with you though, I don't think its worth it.
cyborg_ninja-117 wrote:
Don't distant her from you just because she likes you and she's your mates girl, but personally I wouldn't tell your friend. He may get the wrong impression and fuck things up for everyone, unless he's a really understanding person. Friendly hugs don't overstep bounds, but did your friend know about it? If he doesn't you and her both should tell him before shit starts spreading, then heads will start spinning.
Interesting story you related earlier. Do you regret being with the girl, or are you saying you would've regretted not doing it? Even though Schwarz disagrees, at the moment I am reluctant to bring this up with the boyfriend. Shoot the messenger, right? As well as the other guy actually being me. You say don't distance myself from her, but I don't see what else to do. Should I just treat her like one of the guys? I am concerned about this spreading beyond the two of us and thus out of control.
I should add that I am only guessing at whether or not this girl feels anything now, so it may be a little early to try tell everyone about it. Do you guys think she does? I kind of assumed so before all this happened, because of the way she'd act around me, but I just chalked it up to being an egotistical male who thinks every girl likes him - I paid no real notice to it, and she is quite friendly with everyone. Also, thinking about it, I am not sure I have any real feelings for this girl outside of how nice it was for my ego to get that attention.
My friend/her boyfriend would have seen us hugging, we were all in the same room. Everyone hugs each other in this group of friends.
Schwarzelungen wrote:
now she's thinkin about what you talked about.......and its only a matter of time until it drives their relationship into the ground......and when he finds out you and her talked about this....guess who he'll blame
How can I stop this from happening?
