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Parker wrote:

War Man wrote:

(I will explain further when I figure this girl out).

just for shits and giggles, how many serious relationships have you had?

can people even have serious relationships before 16-17? I've never seen one that's not puppy-love or something similar.

Parker wrote:

War Man wrote:

(I will explain further when I figure this girl out).

just for shits and giggles, how many serious relationships have you had?

0, I'm just pointing out what I would do pretty much.

Parker wrote:

just for shits and giggles

Not that again

It's a pretty easy solution. And has been touched on a few times in this thread. She obviously is bothered by what you said about her being moody, and menopausal. This lead her to believe that you actually think she is, kidding or not, she thinks this.

So, when a girl doesn't want to talk to you, you really shouldn't even try talking to her because of this. The more you try to talk to her, the more she'll push away especially if she is still upset about it.

Give her space, but still be polite (Making her tea, holding the door open for her etc etc) but don't touch on the subject again, you really do not need to discuss it. You might want to for your own closure, or to try and understand why she is mad, but you wont and it will more then likely just pain her to talk about it.

So just forget about what you did! And give her space. Focus your time on other relationships.

I don't think you ruined anything, its just a bump in the road. If you have been friends with her for awhile, then she'll come around, she's just upset and needs her time. Just DONT think about it much, dont think to yourself, "Man, she HATES me, I know she does." Don't put these kind of negative thoughts and scenarios in your head. Think positive.

Last edited by Im_Dooomed (2008-09-12 17:58:19)

argo4 wrote:

I think she just doesn't like you anymore, I don't think there's much you can do, except try to apologize and see what happens. try that, you can' lose. Best of luck

Im_Dooomed wrote:

It's a pretty easy solution. And has been touched on a few times in this thread. She obviously is bothered by what you said about her being moody, and menopausal. This lead her to believe that you actually think she is, kidding or not, she thinks this.

So, when a girl doesn't want to talk to you, you really shouldn't even try talking to her because of this. The more you try to talk to her, the more she'll push away especially if she is still upset about it.

Give her space, but still be polite (Making her tea, holding the door open for her etc etc) but don't touch on the subject again, you really do not need to discuss it. You might want to for your own closure, or to try and understand why she is mad, but you wont and it will more then likely just pain her to talk about it.

So just forget about what you did! And give her space. Focus your time on other relationships.

I don't think you ruined anything, its just a bump in the road. If you have been friends with her for awhile, then she'll come around, she's just upset and needs her time. Just DONT think about it much, dont think to yourself, "Man, she HATES me, I know she does." Don't put these kind of negative thoughts and scenarios in your head. Think positive.

Good advice guys

{HMS}_Sir_Del_Boy wrote:

Ayumiz wrote:

{HMS}_Sir_Del_Boy wrote:

Not sure if this has already been mentioned but you seriously need to improve your sense of humour if you want to get along with any girl as there's nothing really funny about what you said. Lame jokes will get you nowhere with a girl you fancy unless she's just plain weird.

Hmm i see heck.. Why didnt i think of any good joke or something when i was with her alone in a room. And no, we didnt do buttsecks there.

You see, it's this kind of lame humour that got you into trouble in the first. What kind of friends do you even have to be making such lousy jokes with them?? And don't you even have any brains? If she gets upset easily the LAST thing you should do is go about making some dumb joke that would only upset her even more.

Smart move Einstein

I agree with you

Ayumiz wrote:

Im_Dooomed wrote:

It's a pretty easy solution. And has been touched on a few times in this thread. She obviously is bothered by what you said about her being moody, and menopausal. This lead her to believe that you actually think she is, kidding or not, she thinks this.

So, when a girl doesn't want to talk to you, you really shouldn't even try talking to her because of this. The more you try to talk to her, the more she'll push away especially if she is still upset about it.

Give her space, but still be polite (Making her tea, holding the door open for her etc etc) but don't touch on the subject again, you really do not need to discuss it. You might want to for your own closure, or to try and understand why she is mad, but you wont and it will more then likely just pain her to talk about it.

So just forget about what you did! And give her space. Focus your time on other relationships.

I don't think you ruined anything, its just a bump in the road. If you have been friends with her for awhile, then she'll come around, she's just upset and needs her time. Just DONT think about it much, dont think to yourself, "Man, she HATES me, I know she does." Don't put these kind of negative thoughts and scenarios in your head. Think positive.

hmm thanks for the advice. But then, she still talks to my other m8, other people nicely. I just get the cold shoulder.

Either move on with some other girl or deal with this, she might be playing with ya anyway.

oug wrote:

4 pages and no pics of zi woman?


this place is going down the dumps lately...

srsly






but then she's probably WAY underage

I guess i'll give up on her. She is ignoring me, only talking to me when i talk to her etc. I still have 3 weeks left with her before i and her leave the office.

Best picture ever, also happens to completly solve your problem.

tuckergustav wrote:

Well, since you said all these mean things about her she probably doesn't trust you.

Use this as an opportunity to learn that talking about people behind their backs is not worth your time and not worth the crap it causes(even if you think it's a joke).  When you are saying something about someone...think about how you would feel if they were to walk in and say they heard the whole thing...if your stomach drops...you shouldn't be saying it. 

She probably doesn't want to be your friend because...well, who needs friends like that huh?

Ayumiz wrote:

Yeah i know i did. Is there anyway to make her forgive me? I know she is still disappointed and angry deep inside but she just shrugs it off.

Also...you can't "make" someone forgive you.  You should ask to be forgiven...

Well, it would be nice if you two could be friends...keep your chin up.

Point noted. Guess I learnt that girls take small things pretty hard.

Ayumiz wrote:

tuckergustav wrote:

Well, since you said all these mean things about her she probably doesn't trust you.

Use this as an opportunity to learn that talking about people behind their backs is not worth your time and not worth the crap it causes(even if you think it's a joke).  When you are saying something about someone...think about how you would feel if they were to walk in and say they heard the whole thing...if your stomach drops...you shouldn't be saying it. 

She probably doesn't want to be your friend because...well, who needs friends like that huh?

Ayumiz wrote:

Yeah i know i did. Is there anyway to make her forgive me? I know she is still disappointed and angry deep inside but she just shrugs it off.

Also...you can't "make" someone forgive you.  You should ask to be forgiven...

Well, it would be nice if you two could be friends...keep your chin up.

Point noted. Guess I learnt that girls take small things pretty hard.

There is one way that just might(might, unknown for sure) work. Talk to one of your friends at work the whole time sounding guilty of things and such, you know what nevermind I don't know what the hell I'm talking about