Over the last few years my roommates and I have acquired a sizable amount of Wired, Nintendo Power, and other miscellaneous magazines which we use as bathroom reading material. Our apartment has 2 bathrooms, so, naturally, it made sense to keep all the magazines in one location, which we designated the "dumps only" bathroom. The other bathroom is used for number 1, showering, and everything else. It's been this way for a while -- at least 3 years.
Anyway, now that you have some background info, here is my current predicament. The girl I've been dating always wants to hang out at her place...never at mine. Today, I confronted her about this and she told me it's because of the dumps only bathroom. She said she feels like she has no privacy here -- that whenever she goes to the bathroom, everyone will know what she is doing based on the bathroom she is in. Also, she made a few quips about how it is unsanitary, but we keep the place clean so I don't see any problem. Am I in the wrong here? How do I tell her it's nothing bad?
Anyway, now that you have some background info, here is my current predicament. The girl I've been dating always wants to hang out at her place...never at mine. Today, I confronted her about this and she told me it's because of the dumps only bathroom. She said she feels like she has no privacy here -- that whenever she goes to the bathroom, everyone will know what she is doing based on the bathroom she is in. Also, she made a few quips about how it is unsanitary, but we keep the place clean so I don't see any problem. Am I in the wrong here? How do I tell her it's nothing bad?
