what was going on?SuperJail Warden wrote:
I just Spoiler (highlight to read):
had sex with an Asian girl and cummed in her mouth.
I am now sitting on her bed watching Law and Order SVU. She is now having an argument on the phone with some guy she went out on a date with yesterday I guess? She is upset another girl called him on the phone and other stuff.
This girls asks "are you fucking somebody else" every time we are together. And apparently she is still doing her own thing too. But she just had a whole argument with some other dude while I am here watching TV. The TV I bought đ
I am genuinely perplexed. I am going to asks her what is going on when she comes back to bed.
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Ken got married?!SuperJail Warden wrote:
Congratulations Ken. You were the first of the BF2s crew to wife up an Asian lady.
If true... congrats Ken!!!
Onwards and upwards LarssenLarssen wrote:
I don't have social media so no issues there. Date #1 is down and brother did I get catfished lmao. She was a good looking girl but didnt resemble her pictures at all.
This was actually my first online date ever haha. God the first 5 minutes of this stuff are awkward as fuck
If you've not found anyone you like in your current dating line up I highly recommend Hinge for good quality matches.
Sorry to hear it didn't work out mac and hope you're not feeling too down.SuperJail Warden wrote:
I am not perfect and I realize I sent this girl on an emotional rollercoaster. I didn't understand how my actions affected her. And I took her emotions for granted. I learned important lessons and I will do better next time.
I did enjoy having a monogamous relationship for as long as it lasted. That is definitely something I would want again with a different person.
I am not angry at her or anything. I wish her the best. I am grateful to her for the opportunity to practice being in a relationship with someone. I am sorry I turned her into a puddle and I spent like 12 hours yesterday on the phone with her while she was laid up in bed depressed.
I DID NOT reactivate my dating apps. I want to just be single and work on myself until spring maybe summer. I have some graduate stuff I needed to do. When spring rolls back around, I am not going to be weird about getting as much as I can. I was sad yesterday when I didn't get a 'Good morning' text from her.
We had some fundamental differences in life and if she or anyone else said I used this as an opportunity to break up with her while also loading her with the blame for it I wouldn't debate it.
I only skimmed over the last few pages but this sounds like a pretty healthy attitude (apart from the 12 hour phone call).
Focus on the positives
KEN-JENNINGS wrote:
H Mart is Korean
Registered: 17 years ago đŽ
Spoiler (highlight to read):
Eat a dick Miggle
Spoiler (highlight to read):
Eat a dick Miggle
Man I loved watching Home Improvement as a kid, haven't seen it in years
Tim the tool man Taylor was my role model
Probably thanks to him I have a whole set of DeWalt power tools that I barely ever use.
Tim the tool man Taylor was my role model
Probably thanks to him I have a whole set of DeWalt power tools that I barely ever use.
Yeah me neither, clearly they are stupid and should lose their jobs and they will no doubt be judged by the public and their acquaintances for what they said.uziq wrote:
it is broad and heavy handed. iâm not defending it or the recent public order acts.
i have to say, though, if i was in a role of public responsibility, say like a fucking police officer who is supposed to uphold public standards ⌠i simply would not join PC plod group chats and post racist and sexist remarks. youâve got to be a special sort of stupid to be a police officer in an org like the london met who are weekly embroiled in a scandal, and think this is in any way a good idea. the london met are starting to look as institutionally rotten as the 1990s LAPD. not the brightest bunch of bulbs over there.
I've also never been part of a group chat where one of the members murdered anyone but at the same time, you never really know what a person might do in their private life and I wouldn't want something I said as a joke to someone once to be read in court out of context and then be locked up because I've potentially offended the bereaved. Come to think of it, one of my ex colleagues was actually jailed for rape. I knew him quite well and he would literally be one of the last people I (or anyone else who knew him) would ever guess to do such a thing. All this just to say, it's easy for everyone on the chat to think it's banter until someone gets seriously harmed.uziq wrote:
i canât say iâve ever been in a âbanter with the boysâ group chat where a member has kidnapped, raped and murdered someone. so erm, good riddance to human trash? âtough shit to the offendedâ bereaved dauntless, really? this was a case where a woman was kidnapped because she trusted a man in uniform. you donât see the exceptional circumstances here where a bunch of people in trusted uniform conduct themselves this way?
It literally is though, if they were jailed for assisting in the kidnap and rape then I'd hope they rot in there for life. The jail time as far as I can see was literally for causing people offense from a comment that clearly wasn't intended to be public - which is insane.uziq wrote:
this isnât really a simple case of âoh, you canât handle an offensive remark?â
Well this law came into force under Labour and was the responsibility of Tessa Jowell. They fucked that one up eh? Maybe I should write to her.uziq wrote:
and iâm not the guy who voted for the conservatives, the party who promote this tough on crime bullshit. dauntless is a paying member. may, priti and suella are his calendar pinup home secs. so, er, write an email to your own local MP there matey?
Yeah they're appealing. Seems like some of the updated guidelines weren't followed so maybe they have a chance:uziq wrote:
w/r/t the communications act, this is the first case iâve heard of a private whatsapp chat being used as an example of abuse. did the guy appeal? i havenât been in the UK following this or even the murder case antecedent to it. i have heard of a few instances of people being given community service for being abusive on twitter, which even then seemed heavy-handed to me.
On 19 December 2012, to strike a balance between freedom of speech and criminality, the Director of Public Prosecutions issued interim guidelines, clarifying when social messaging is eligible for criminal prosecution under UK law.
The revisions specified that prosecutors should consider:
whether messages were aggravated by references to race, religion or other minorities, and whether they breached existing rules to counter harassment or stalking; and
the age and maturity of any wrongdoer should be taken into account and given great weight.
The revisions also clarified that criminal prosecutions were "unlikely":
when the author of the message had "expressed genuine remorse";
when "swift and effective action ... to remove the communication" was taken; or
when messages were not intended for a wide audience.
Yeah even the old keys ran out of battery eventually, though they normally had a metal part of the key you could put in the door.

This is the first time this happened to me btw, the screen has died quite often but the buttons always continue to work to unlock etc, I thought the buttons worked off a different battery but I guess not.

This is the first time this happened to me btw, the screen has died quite often but the buttons always continue to work to unlock etc, I thought the buttons worked off a different battery but I guess not.
My car app saved me earlier today. My car key somehow completely ran out of battery (the key has a touch screen with almost entirely useless information on it which is I guess a bit of a battery drain) and when I got back to my car I couldn't open any doors... I was with a girl who had all her stuff in the car and it was freezing outside and starting to rain. I was about to call my breakdown service when I remembered I can unlock the doors with my phone. I got in the car, charged the key for a few minutes and all was good.
Thank god for technology.
Thank god for technology.
Apparently its precursor was originally intended to stop harassment via phone and mail, but then got updated to cover 'modern communication systems' and got outdated fast. I'm still not sure how this can be considered public though, it may have been leaked into the public domain but the person sending the messages couldn't control that.uziq wrote:
i don't think most private whatsapp chats are 'fair game' in the law. i believe that law was signed into place to prevent online abuse from people on social networks. you'd think it's 'public' by the fact it has to cause an offence or annoyance to someone at some point, i.e. either a targeted and abusive message or some third-party whom you wouldn't normally intend for that message to see, thereby it being a 'public communication'.
Well maybe they are distressed or offended, but tough shit. Also reading peoples private messages without any context can easily sound offensive, I've been in chats where people have said worse things, but I know the people saying them well enough to know that they're just going for a 'shock' laugh, and they don't literally mean what the message says. If it was read back in court to a bunch of strangers it would sound entirely different.The judge said although messages were never intended to be made public, those people and groups referenced âwill undoubtedly have been caused great distress by learning police officers found it funny to joke about them in such a deeply offensive mannerâ.
The judge said the messages were âmade fun of people or group of persons they had sworn an oath to protectâ.
It's not at all illegal to protest though is it? Just in the last few weeks we've had Just Stop Oil protestors sit in the street (Outside New Scotland Yard of all places... you probably couldn't pick an area with more police in all of the UK!) and block traffic including emergency ambulances and the police are politely asking if the protestors would mind moving. They're hardly being locked up on site.uziq wrote:
the UK has signed some ridiculously draconian public laws into the books lately. it's effectively illegal to protest now, for similarly phrased reasons. causing a public nuisance or 'annoyance' can get your protest shut down. well, what sort of public protest doesn't cause a mild annoyance in some way or other? they're supposed to be seen and heard!
Apparently this doesn't meet the legal threshold of "causing serious disruption" đ
https://www.citymatters.london/police-d … rotesters/
Yeah I can see there might be public interest too, and if the WhatsApp chats came out in the case because the prosecution/defence decide to use them and make them public, then ok. But there's no way what people say in private on those chats should land them in jail.uziq wrote:
the specifics of that case are pretty dodgy. tied into a much bigger story about institutional misogyny and sexism in the police force. i can definitely see the 'public interest' aspect in what a bunch of plods say to one another in their work-group whatsapp chats. someone from that group was a policeman who raped and murdered someone ... it's hardly idle banter between a bunch of private mates. it's coppers egging each other on with hate speech ... and one of them fucking picked a woman up whilst dressed as a copper, abused her trust, and murdered her!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Sarah_Everard
Sure, if it's in the public interest to see chats then they should be treated in the same way as any other form of written communication from an MP. It shouldn't be possible for anyone in the chat to be locked up for causing offense though.uziq wrote:
we live in a weird world where services like whatsapp are simultaneously used between mates but also used by people in professional capacities. MPs at westminster are all in giant, 'private' whatsapp chats, for example, but obviously it's in the public interest to see those chats if they're all conniving and conspiring and arranging corrupt deals, you know? so with a bunch of policemen who are all in the same group chat, it's not really as if they're there because they're mates from down the pub, is it? it's a bit of a grey area. whatsapp isn't an 'official' communications channel for any of these organisations but it has become really closely enmeshed with people's use in a professional/public capacity.
He's clearly insane but there is something a bit less engaging about modern cars. On paper they tick all the boxes and they respond to your inputs instantly and precisely but for pure driving experience I enjoy driving some cars from the mid 2000s than some of the modern cars today. For example (imo) a Murcielago is more fun to drive than a Huracan (though the Huracan looks cooler)Dilbert_X wrote:
I used to work with a guy who thought fuel injection was a step too far, he didn't want a computer controlling his engine.
Well, feel free to move my post if I've committed an offence.
I had to look this up because I still can't get my head around it
Why on earth was this signed into law and why is it being upheld in court????? What a fucking shit country.
Also how have they determined a private WhatsApp chat is a public communications network?
I know America has problems too but at least you don't risk being locked up for flaming Dilbert.
I had to look this up because I still can't get my head around it
https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/20 … ection/127(1)A person is guilty of an offence if heâ
(a)sends by means of a public electronic communications network a message or other matter that is grossly offensive or of an indecent, obscene or menacing character; or
(b)causes any such message or matter to be so sent.
(2)A person is guilty of an offence if, for the purpose of causing annoyance, inconvenience or needless anxiety to another, heâ
(a)sends by means of a public electronic communications network, a message that he knows to be false,
(b)causes such a message to be sent; or
(c)persistently makes use of a public electronic communications network.
(3)A person guilty of an offence under this section shall be liable, on summary conviction, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding six months or to a fine not exceeding level 5 on the standard scale, or to both.
Why on earth was this signed into law and why is it being upheld in court????? What a fucking shit country.
Also how have they determined a private WhatsApp chat is a public communications network?
I know America has problems too but at least you don't risk being locked up for flaming Dilbert.
Congrats. What do the 2 apps do?
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-62995926
https://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/m … 37066.html
Locked up for sending 'offensive messages'... what a fucking joke.
Not defending the people involved, clearly they should be fired but I can't understand why a judge should decide if a private WhatsApp message is or isn't offensive. This is insane.
Am I missing something??
https://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/m … 37066.html
Locked up for sending 'offensive messages'... what a fucking joke.
Not defending the people involved, clearly they should be fired but I can't understand why a judge should decide if a private WhatsApp message is or isn't offensive. This is insane.
Am I missing something??
The girl I took to my friends party and club on Friday told me (out of nowhere) that she doesn't mind if I'm dating other girls and won't get jealous. I didn't really say anything in response but appreciated the confirmation.SuperJail Warden wrote:
I don't emotionally or physically abuse them. I know that bar is on the ground but going by what women tell me alone, a lot of guys treat them way worse.
...
I am going to be more clear about my intentions with girls going forward since I am aware I could love bomb and dangle a potential relationship in front of a girl to get what I want (#Stories.) I would be unsurprised if a few girls are actually more interested in me once I have a partner.
I just need to think up a way to convince the girl I am with to let me indulge my sexual impulses in return for being a loving and caring partner.
How do I broach this conversation?
I guess she (correctly) assumed I'm seeing other people as I've recently been taking several hours to reply to her on some nights.
We had previously said that this is just fun and nothing serious during the inevitable 'what are you looking for' question when dating. Just be honest with them.
I see we've got access to a new archive section đŽ
Are these sections intentionally being revealed as a reward for sticking around or does the site have some form of dementia - forgetting who is who and where we should be allowed?
Can we see the mod section next? It would be cool to see all the old drama, at this point who really cares who said what about who anyway
Are these sections intentionally being revealed as a reward for sticking around or does the site have some form of dementia - forgetting who is who and where we should be allowed?
Can we see the mod section next? It would be cool to see all the old drama, at this point who really cares who said what about who anyway
Agreed Mac but still go out there and let us know how you get on, you don't get good stories by being sensibleSuperJail Warden wrote:
This situation is crazy and stupid
Double bag though and check for pinholes.... đ˛
Back on topic: no, I'm taking someone else, which brings me onto:uziq wrote:
you gonna get your INSEAD gf to dress up in a 'slutty vampire nurse' outfit?
I completely feel you, I've somehow gotten into a situation where I'm juggling 3 at the same time and it's almost a full time job especially when trying to respond to the other two while on a date with one. I'm super stressed right now both in and out of work.SuperJail Warden wrote:
I was texting last night with her and the Chinese girl at the same time. The Chinese girl is talking about her day. While the white girl is talking about her life plans and how we can move to a small town together and start a family together.
Seeing the messages come in at the same time and I am looking at it like I am going to have to crush one of these girls. Because I can't juggle two of them. And I thought "I should just kill myself. Just hang myself in the bathroom. I won't have to deal with any of this anymore." Obviously it was a fleeting thought đ and I am not serious. No one ever killed themselves because they have too many girls after them. But the whole thing is a lot to manage. I came home from work just to text them all day. I couldn't play video games, I couldn't watch disaster porn, I couldn't do work since I am texting them back and forth.
The Canadian from INSEAD is my favourite and most likely to turn into a relationship. The one I'm bringing to the party is 22 and mutually agreed 'just for fun' - and she is definitely a whole lot of fun... I didn't really expect to see her much but things kind of exploded in the last week with her. The other one is really sweet and deserves better than me messing her around like this, if I keep this going much longer I'm going to hurt her so am going to end it with her next week.
West End glamour clubs? I was standing outside a pub in bankuziq wrote:
i wouldn't have ever met the guy in the first place because i don't hang out at 'glamour' clubs in the west end waiting to meet reality tv stars, mate.
I don't know why you're so shocked about this, it's a house party some of the girls in my friend group are organising. They're dressing up but not everyone has to and I really haven't given it much thought. Lot's of people in our age group do this. The girl I'm bringing lives next to an editor from GQ who is in his mid to late 30s and believe it or not, he is also going to one.uziq wrote:
you also still didn't address the basic and irrefutable point: if you're still dressing up in fancy-dress and going to halloween-themed parties in your 30s, you're a straight-up loser mate. no arguing against that one! sorry, you do not pass GO!
I think to most people a 'straight-up loser' sounds more like someone who pretended to go to Oxford and continues to argue with every member on the site about every minute detail of what they do, including among other things... the proper term for a podium on a gaming forum
They look like they'd struggle to get a job at their local wetherspoons m8
I didn't exactly run up to him asking for his autograph. A C-list celeb came up to me and my friends while we were standing outside a pub and started talking to us, I didn't even realise who he was until 10 minutes into the conversation. He was out with his niece and her friends for her birthday and got us all free entry to a club nearby with drinks on the house - it was a fun night, I made new friends, why wouldn't I go? Would you have asked him to stop talking to you once you realised he's on TV?
Yeah I don't know anyone with a degree... đ
My closest friends are 2x Neuroscience PHDs (both at Meta) and 2x Oxford graduates (you know... the place you pretended to go to?)
I'm also dating an INSEAD MBA grad who works at Deloitte
I didn't exactly run up to him asking for his autograph. A C-list celeb came up to me and my friends while we were standing outside a pub and started talking to us, I didn't even realise who he was until 10 minutes into the conversation. He was out with his niece and her friends for her birthday and got us all free entry to a club nearby with drinks on the house - it was a fun night, I made new friends, why wouldn't I go? Would you have asked him to stop talking to you once you realised he's on TV?
Yeah I don't know anyone with a degree... đ
My closest friends are 2x Neuroscience PHDs (both at Meta) and 2x Oxford graduates (you know... the place you pretended to go to?)
I'm also dating an INSEAD MBA grad who works at Deloitte
What? It's just a party my friends are throwing, we're going to a club after.
Weren't you at a karaoke the other week with a bunch of expat piss head simpletons? Please tell me more about how to adult
Weren't you at a karaoke the other week with a bunch of expat piss head simpletons? Please tell me more about how to adult
huh? that was uziqueCybargs wrote:
i never understood why those who hate government want to even get into it. i still find it funny dauntless didnt like rishi cos he was 'too indian', never mind the other baggage.
I'm going to a Halloween party on Saturday and I just found out my ex (2 ex's ago) will be there. She was a model that was pretty hot but was also quite a bit older than me. It didn't end very well and we haven't really spoke since. I'm bringing a girl almost half her age.
What could go wrong?///
What could go wrong?///
His ambiguous stance on Brexit didn't help his campaign imo
Again, not what I said. You pay tax but you don't contribute anything to the local economy and businesses here do you?uziq wrote:
i pay my taxes just the same as you do. or are you saying that your political opinion should be worth more because you earn a bit more money than i do? lol interesting theory of democracy there, chump. no wonder you look down on the little poor people
That's completely your call but don't tell me I'm making things worse here, lol
Er, I don't know what you mean brushed aside.
I only had the option of Liz or Rishi... out of the two I think you also preferred Liz too as Rishi was too... Indian?
Things are a mess right now sure but who knows how bad things would be if Corbyn was in charge.
I've put significantly more tax into the the system and public services than most people so I'd say I've made things better. How much are you contributing to the UK economy m8?
Hunt didn't try to privatise the NHS
I only had the option of Liz or Rishi... out of the two I think you also preferred Liz too as Rishi was too... Indian?
Things are a mess right now sure but who knows how bad things would be if Corbyn was in charge.
I've put significantly more tax into the the system and public services than most people so I'd say I've made things better. How much are you contributing to the UK economy m8?
Hunt didn't try to privatise the NHS
Sounds fun, I think you should do it
Well Labour had their chance at the last general election and fucked it đ¤ˇââď¸
Personally I wanted Jeremy Hunt in charge but he went out in the first round.
Personally I wanted Jeremy Hunt in charge but he went out in the first round.
Didn't say it wasuziq wrote:
and that majority aren't composed mostly of email scammers and wastemen in the street who want to shout at you.
I didn't say the poor deserve their lot, but yeah whatever anyone wants to buy with their money is completely up to them. I've literally had strangers come up to me in the street when I'm in my car and tell me that I'm a tax dodge and don't pay enough tax? Yeah ok mate.... what the fuck? Why would they presume to know what I pay or don't pay.
Hope those guys can't pay their heating bills.
Hope those guys can't pay their heating bills.
Yeah ok, my bad!uziq wrote:
you are literally a part of this party. your bunch of highly intelligent natural born winners just torpedo'd the economy through an unforced error. leg before wicket mate. poor people's mortgages are going to skyrocket because of your little libertarian darling.
Yeah too bad for those guys but what's that got to do with people buying expensive things?unnamednewbie13 wrote:
I just finished reading an article about people suffering below the poverty line and unable to afford healthy food even with JobSeeker (one guy with diabetes basically killing himself just to stay fed). I'd say you have it pretty nice being able to debate on whether or not to drop 4k on a revolver.
I just got this from some random:

haha! 'I had a tough life, can I have ÂŁ8k please?'
What a joke
Same, I guess that's one of the functions still to be edited...
Not too concerned, I use a password manager so the password for this site is unique. Worst they could do is read my DMs or post as me
Not too concerned, I use a password manager so the password for this site is unique. Worst they could do is read my DMs or post as me
Thanks Tazz!!
Remember when we couldn't use search? It's great we have that back too
Remember when we couldn't use search? It's great we have that back too
Yeah well I coulda got a vacheron constantin if it wasn't for the government taking all my moneyuziq wrote:
guy out here complaining on the weekly about paying taxes but has $10,000 for something that might one day be as good as a pocket calculator. haha.
I've never been a fan of smart watches/having a screen on my wrist but am jealous of the health data you get from them. I've been trying to find a good 'smart clasp' but it seems it's pretty niche. The closest I found is this one from Sony but the reviews aren't great and it wouldn't suit a leather strap.SuperJail Warden wrote:
I am going to buy a Google Pixel Smartwatch
You can send and read text messages on it.
https://www.wareable.com/smartwatches/s … eview-6982
There's also Modillian but it looks a bit bulky and they seem to be a small start up that will inevitably go out of business and stop development
https://www.ablogtowatch.com/introducin … ap-buckle/
Oh well
This was my last purchase:


https://www.goldsmiths.co.uk/Breitling- … p/17531422
Breitling isnât super highly regarded compared to other Swiss watches but Iâve always loved Breitling and Navitimers in particular. I wanted this exact colour combination for a few years now and am super happy that I finally have it. I almost enjoy looking at the back more than the front!
I just need to spend some time working out how to get good at using the slide rule now. Apparently quicker than a calculator once you get good at it.


https://www.goldsmiths.co.uk/Breitling- … p/17531422
Breitling isnât super highly regarded compared to other Swiss watches but Iâve always loved Breitling and Navitimers in particular. I wanted this exact colour combination for a few years now and am super happy that I finally have it. I almost enjoy looking at the back more than the front!
I just need to spend some time working out how to get good at using the slide rule now. Apparently quicker than a calculator once you get good at it.
Should be over next month!
Mac how would you respond to an email like this from one of your students?

I'd like to know more
Nice, hope you enjoy it.
There's nothing quite like a countdown/build-up to getting a new car, it always gets me excited.
There's nothing quite like a countdown/build-up to getting a new car, it always gets me excited.
I had a date with a half Chinese/Singaporean who grew up in NYC on Friday, had a pretty good time. She's texting me and wants to see me again but I'm not sure yet. I'm going to Chicago tomorrow for 10 days and then she's going to Lisbon to run a marathon and then to Amsterdam so we've got a few weeks until we can meet in any case.
Meanwhile I just got home from my Korean date and it was probably the best first date I've ever been on. We instantly hit it off on every topic, chemistry and sparks flying everywhere. 10/10 will see again. Almost sad to leave London now.
Also holy shit she's about 10x better looking than in her pics.
Fuck I'm pissed. I wanted to be a playboy and casually bang lots of women for a few months and I'm already on the edge of catching feelings after a few dates. Why am I such a prick?
Meanwhile I just got home from my Korean date and it was probably the best first date I've ever been on. We instantly hit it off on every topic, chemistry and sparks flying everywhere. 10/10 will see again. Almost sad to leave London now.
Also holy shit she's about 10x better looking than in her pics.
Fuck I'm pissed. I wanted to be a playboy and casually bang lots of women for a few months and I'm already on the edge of catching feelings after a few dates. Why am I such a prick?
My friend sent me this today...

Good job he asked haha

Good job he asked haha
Would you like a relationship with this lady?SuperJail Warden wrote:
I am writing down all of my SluttyConfessions here and elsewhere then condensing it into one new Reddit profile. Here is "The Soldier Story" in full detail. Maybe Detective Dilbert or Special Prosecutor Newbie can save it for later.âmade a liar out of her.â Newbie told me that once and I liked it. So I included it in the story. Also these stories are supposed to be fun. Read the story as if detailed by the Warden of SuperJailI (32m) slept with a childhood friend (26f) when she had a boyfriend she later married, had a kid with, and divorced. After she found a new boyfriend, she cheated on him with me too.
This saga started when we were both 26.
She is now also 32. I had to go back to college to get some professional credentials. While in class on the first day, I noticed a petite light skinned Puerto Rican girl sitting next to me. I looked at her and started talking. We both recognized each other. We were friends in high school. I still saw her Facebook profile picture but otherwise lost contact. She must have seen my profile picture come up in her recommended too. She recognized me instantly which surprised me since we werenât particularly close in high school and that was 8 years beforehand. We started chatting and when class was over, we left together.
We went to Dunkin Donuts together and caught up. She made me aware she was dating a childhood friend of ours that I was close with but only when we were kids. I offered her a ride home and she accepted. When I dropped her off in front of her home late at night, we shared a moment of intense staring and talking, and I knew there I was going to sleep with this girl. I saw her again the next week and I drove her home again. While we were driving, I told her we should hangout together the next day. She accepted. I picked her up the next day while I presume her boyfriend was working. We went out for a sushi lunch, and it eventually came up that we were attracted to each other. We kissed a few times in the empty Sushi place. We then went back to my place and had sex.
We hooked up a few more times after that. I gave her a ride the entire semester and we would often make out just before dropping her home. After the semester ended, she went âno contactâ with me. We were Facebook friends at that point, but my messages were never returned. A few months passed, and she posted a picture of her engagement ring on her page. The boyfriend that was cheating on decided to ask her to marry him. They got married, had a child together, and then divorced. I didnât keep up with what she was doing after that until I messaged her a few months ago.
She had changed her Facebook profile name back to her original name and not her married name. I messaged her to hangout and picked her up from a job interview after I got out of work. We went out together and had a few drinks in which she explained to me she was dating some other guy. We still ended up kissing and went back to my apartment together. We had sex there after a little talking her into it. She let me know she wasnât leaving the new guy for me. We met up together a week later and had sex together again. After our second time together, she became adamant that she wasnât leaving the new guy. We havenât met up since then.
We have spoken over text a few times and she told me âYou always come at a bad timeâ and she is âtaken.â We donât meet up casually or as friends to do stuff together since it wouldnât work out like that. I do from time to time send her little âthinking of youâ messages that she reacts to. But otherwise, we donât talk about the two times I âmade a liar out of her.â
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Yeah one or two is fine but some profiles are like@uziq wrote:
i think girls are concerned that too many selfies on a profile makes them look like they donât have a social life. itâs a normies thing.
i can see why a woman looking at a manâs profile consisting entirely of solo shots might wonder if heâs a total sociopath or something. i think womenâs experience of being âonlineâ in general probably has an everyday familiarity with creeper activity. iâve dated some girls with moderately large instagram followings, nothing near fame or influencer status, and then the âlone maleâ sliding into the DMs is like a universal background hum.
having a few group shots is just a simple coded message that youâre normal enough to hang out with people. pretty low bar. haha.
Me and my hot friend
Me and the same hot friend
Group photo
Blurry photo
Group photo
My photos are all in social settings but I don't have any with my mates faces in because it just feels a bit weird
Yeah and she couldn't resist!uziq wrote:
âdo you want to come and watch me knock balls into the middle distance for 2 hours before i go abroad to date other women?â
youâre finessing a good game!
Anyway it went well and we both had fun, I'll probably see her when I'm back.
Tonight I'm taking the Korean out for Japanese food.
Yeah it was the only way I could shoehorn her in before I leave the country as I was already going
I don't think you can tbh
She didn't mention golf on her profile
I don't think you can tbh
She didn't mention golf on her profile
This week I'm seeing a Japanese woman tomorrow for a golf (driving range) date, a Korean woman for dinner on Wednesday, an American woman on Friday in Chicago and (not confirmed yet but most likely) a French Canadian woman on Saturday in Toronto. I truly am a man of the world.
Why do so many girls use group photos or photos of them with their hot friend on apps. Do they really expect me to sit here and determine which of the 5 people in the picture they might be... The hot friend one is obvious but surely they just end up with more matches that figure out they've been duped, or worse, end up on a date expecting the other one.
Rest up Mac, hope you feel better
Oh have you invented a new region?Dilbert_X wrote:
Its northern south-east asia you mongsDauntless wrote:
Oh, silly Dilbert!
What's it like living in south south east asia?
Oh, silly Dilbert!