My ex-wife is Muslim and I lived with and among Muslims for a good portion of my life. I was raised christian and have christian beliefs but I'm not a regular church goer. In my experience, I see 2 types of Muslims. one that wants freedom to worship their religion without religious police, as the Taliban tended to be, peaceful and easy to get along with. Then there is the other, strict rules, strict laws and the desire to push their beliefs on to others even by violence. What I noticed in both is that there is no acceptance of any other religion...period!! My ex-wife wouldn't even step foot on anything that had to do with Christianity...even if it was a reception in a church hall, a funeral...etc. I also noticed that most peaceful Muslims were in fear of the radical side of their religion. That fear controlled them, they wouldn't speak out and didn't speak up or challenge those types of Muslims.
Did they try to convert me? No....but they certainly didn't try to learn from me either. They accepted me for who I was but that was about as far as it would go. On a couple of occasions at gatherings with my wife, Muslims spoke around me not knowing I was not Muslim and I will never forget some of the conversations I listened to. These people were my neighbors, friends and sometimes relatives but were saying some things that were pretty shocking to me. It always made me wonder if they understood that they were in a country that allowed them to speak their voice, to practice their religion but in the same time live a life better than they had back home. Yet, I could hear some pretty strong hatred towards the same country who allowed them freedoms they didn't have back home. Ill never quite understand that. Anyhow, that is my experience and in my wife's eyes and the majority of Muslims I knew, always felt that groups like the Taliban, Hamas were un-Islamic and did not like how their religion is constantly kidnapped for radical justification and killing....although, they would never speak out against it because of the fear I mentioned before.
Did they try to convert me? No....but they certainly didn't try to learn from me either. They accepted me for who I was but that was about as far as it would go. On a couple of occasions at gatherings with my wife, Muslims spoke around me not knowing I was not Muslim and I will never forget some of the conversations I listened to. These people were my neighbors, friends and sometimes relatives but were saying some things that were pretty shocking to me. It always made me wonder if they understood that they were in a country that allowed them to speak their voice, to practice their religion but in the same time live a life better than they had back home. Yet, I could hear some pretty strong hatred towards the same country who allowed them freedoms they didn't have back home. Ill never quite understand that. Anyhow, that is my experience and in my wife's eyes and the majority of Muslims I knew, always felt that groups like the Taliban, Hamas were un-Islamic and did not like how their religion is constantly kidnapped for radical justification and killing....although, they would never speak out against it because of the fear I mentioned before.