TehSeraphim
Thread Ender
+58|6952|New Hampshire
Since this section is the "Debate and Serious Talk" section, I thought I would write a little guide on how to debate correctly.

First and foremost, please remember that everyone who visits these forums has a right to voice their own opinion in any way they please.  If something crosses the line, one of the fine moderators will take care of it pretty quickly.  The great French philosopher Voltaire once said "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."  There are no definitive right or wrong answers for anything in this section - it's all a matter of opinion.

Moving on...

Part 1: The Art Of Asking Questions

So you have a question in your mind about something you'd like to debate on.  The question you use at the start of your question can influence every single post that follows it.  For instance, say you want to debate on something about political leaders.  "George Bush is the greatest President ever - discuss" or "George Bush is better than (insert random countries leader here)" is a way you COULD start out, but by phrasing your question in a slanted manner you have already influenced the responses you are going to get.  By putting your question in an opinionated way, you've set the tone for the initial debate - any responses you may get from people who don't think George Bush is the greatest will automatically be defensive.  If someone starts off an argument already on the defensive, they are more likely to be unreasonable and your question you initially posed will degenerate down into a quagmire of "YOU'RE STUPID OMG".

Remember : the more controversial or personal your question for debate is, the more important it is that you need to frame it in a neutral manner.  "Compare and contrast George Bush and (so and so)" would be a better avenue. 

Part 2: Stating Your Point

The topics in the Debate and Serious Talk section of the forums can range from something as ridiculous as Mac N' Cheese vs. Top Ramen to God vs. Allah, but in each case it is important that you state a point.  Before clicking the reply button, have in your mind at least some idea of what you want to get across.  Remember that what you say can rally others to your cause, or cripple it, depending on how you present yourself.

Generally, posts laden with incorrect grammar and spelling will not help whatever you are debating for.  "omg mac nc heez fkcin pwns the shit out uv ramen noodlez", however true it may be, is presented so badly that you look like a moron; and nobody wants to side with a moron .  If you decide to do a somewhat lengthy response, make sure you at least have full sentences.  Nothing is more frustrating than trying to read someones thoughts if they can't make complete thoughts in writing.  I'm not saying that you have to follow a 5 paragraph essay form or anything along those lines, I'm just saying that things that are easy to read and well written will make a better impression on your audience.

Part 3: Evidence Be Damned

A crucial part in stating your opinion is evidence.  Opinions are fine and dandy, but they're as useful as a bucket of warm spit.  Never be afraid to bring up any evidence you may have in your knoggin'.  If you've heard something on the news, read it in a paper or a book, or just heard someone else say it - don't be afraid to put it in your post.  If you're wrong, someone will correct you - and they WILL correct you, for better or worse.  If you're corrected and you still think you're right, do a little googlin' and check to see if you are right - if you are, edit your post and link your new information.  If you're wrong, then hey - you've just learned something new today - now if you're ever talking about this subject somewhere else, you won't be embarassed in person for stating a false fact.

Also - remember that 70% of statistics are made up on the spot.  (Yes, I just made that up.)  Don't be afraid to cross reference someones facts - especially if they're tossing out number figures.  Numbers are one of the easiest things to check.  If someone is a few off, let it slide - if it's a gross miscalculation, you might want to call their attention to it.

However, remember that proving someone wrong does NOT mean that you are right.  Keep this in mind when reading other people's posts. 

Part 4: Keeping a Level Head

It's EXTREMELY easy to get irate over the debate forums - easier than anywhere else on the bf2s forums.  Usually topics brought up here are ones that people are passionate about an dhave strong opinions on.  It's important to remember that even though you feel strongly about something it doesn't make you right.  This is good to keep in mind though, because it does not make the person you are arguing against right either.  Seldomly are you going to change someones mind on a subject if they're passionate about it.  Remember that your goal in a debate is to get people who could swing either way to choose your side.

NEVER ATTACK SOMEONE PERSONALLY IN A DEBATE.  We're not politicians here - no one is running for the Presidency.  If you win or lose a debate it will only be in your own mind.  If you feel you've made a better point, then you've won - simple as that.  You have nothing riding on a debate in this section.  If you decide to attack someone personally in a debate (i.e. you're a fucking (insert race/gender/creed/whatever here)) then you are admitting to that person, and the entire board, that you could not come up with an intelligent response to what you've been challenged with.  You've taken the easy way out, and in doing so have lost the debate.

If you're attacked personally, don't worry about it.  Seriously - after reading harsh words look at your body.  No blood was drawn - you're going to be fine, I promise.  If you can shrug it off and be the bigger man and continue to make your point without sinking your attackers level, then you are a strong person and will be admired for it.  Being provoked only works if you let it get to you, so don't.

Part 5: Conclusions

Remember that opinions are like assholes : everyone has one and usually they're full of shit.  The debate and serious talk section of the forums is a wonderful tool that spans nations and cultures that can bring people together with different aspects than what we may be used to.  Yes, your personal views might be challenged, but instead of getting defensive about it immediately take a step back for a second and try to see the argument from a different perspective.  Those who are the best at debating are the ones who can see the debate from every viewpoint and are able to counter (intelligently) the points made from the views that are not their's.

This section is a good learning experience for all - we all come from places where we may be isolated from the views of others, and this section of the forums is a place for us to get a glimpse of the views that others may hold.

Good luck, and a happy debate to you all!
LoMaX
Member
+24|6763|Sweden is banned from hell ;)
Heck man.. either you pulled this up from the Xmas stocking or I must agree that you have som Witz.

Touché.

/LoMaX
Wasder
Resident Emo Hater
+139|6904|Moscow, Russia
Good work, +1. Sticky/feature requested.
TehSeraphim
Thread Ender
+58|6952|New Hampshire
Lol, no, I just spent 2 hours writing it.  I'm tired of seeing debates settle down into personal attacks on one another, and thought this might help
B.Schuss
I'm back, baby... ( sort of )
+664|7070|Cologne, Germany

sticky time.

nice one, TS.
Spumantiii
pistolero
+147|6911|Canada
hey a sticky, and a good one at that
Spark
liquid fluoride thorium reactor
+874|6903|Canberra, AUS
OMG A STICKY!!!!1!!!11one

Seriously. Its about time we had something like this, good work.

Last edited by Spark (2006-09-03 00:56:33)

The paradox is only a conflict between reality and your feeling what reality ought to be.
~ Richard Feynman
cpt.fass1
The Cap'n Can Make it Hap'n
+329|6925|NJ
The great French philosopher Voltaire once said "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."  There are no definitive right or wrong answers for anything in this section - it's all a matter of opinion.

Sorry but I just had to give the proper translation.

"I disapprove of what you say, but I will surrender to the death your right to say it."
Sorry wrong place but I just thought it was too funny to pass up
TehSeraphim
Thread Ender
+58|6952|New Hampshire

cpt.fass1 wrote:

The great French philosopher Voltaire once said "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."  There are no definitive right or wrong answers for anything in this section - it's all a matter of opinion.

Sorry but I just had to give the proper translation.

"I disapprove of what you say, but I will surrender to the death your right to say it."
Sorry wrong place but I just thought it was too funny to pass up
Um...little off topic, but, France did control a huge portion of Europe for a while   Also Napoleon's men followed him into battle to the death.  Can we stop ripping on France?
cpt.fass1
The Cap'n Can Make it Hap'n
+329|6925|NJ
well it's a sterotype. like all american's are loud and obnioxious and all germans are cold. Sterotypes are funny
TehSeraphim
Thread Ender
+58|6952|New Hampshire

cpt.fass1 wrote:

well it's a sterotype. like all american's are loud and obnioxious and all germans are cold. Sterotypes are funny
True - and there wouldn't be a stereotype if there wasn't some iota of truth to it
GunSlinger OIF II
Banned.
+1,860|6872
I give props to napolean for being an ass kicker, but he was the hitler of the 19th century.

Last edited by GunSlinger OIF II (2006-06-29 11:32:32)

LoMaX
Member
+24|6763|Sweden is banned from hell ;)
This is really interesting.. Suddenly N and H are just joining a thread.. good enough.. but the interesting part.. that everything then starts to make "the form".. discussion.. "HELL let's make a takeover of the original content of the thread and just kill it".. Like most threads?

Yes, I am kidding a bit.. But SINCE this is the tread concerning "DEBATE".. then I thought that it worth bringing up.

Have a nice day brothers in arms, sisters of mercy I lend you my arms..
/LoMaX
ATG
Banned
+5,233|6758|Global Command
Nice work.
Ikarti should read it.
mcminty
Moderating your content for the Australian Govt.
+879|6950|Sydney, Australia

Alexanderthegrape wrote:

Nice work.
Ikarti should read it.
LOL


Nice work. Reading this should be mandatory for (some) people who post in this forum.



Mcminty.
Bubbalo
The Lizzard
+541|6790
It should be mandatory for all, what you mean is that some should be reminded of it on occasion.
Ikarti
Banned - for ever.
+231|6938|Wilmington, DE, US

Alexanderthegrape wrote:

Nice work.
Ikarti should read it.
Oh as opposed to you who just bends over and lets the Republicans stick whatever they want up your ass and then defend it with lame ass insults? Damn, Alex, you're real dense.
Xietsu
Banned
+50|6785
I just know that they hate us because we're free. Dude, it's always jealousy. Don't you understand? Probably not, you're just some lib. Uhm...foox you?
JahManRed
wank
+646|6857|IRELAND

Ikarti wrote:

Alexanderthegrape wrote:

Nice work.
Ikarti should read it.
Oh as opposed to you who just bends over and lets the Republicans stick whatever they want up your ass and then defend it with lame ass insults? Damn, Alex, you're real dense.

TehSeraphim wrote:

NEVER ATTACK SOMEONE PERSONALLY IN A DEBATE.  We're not politicians here - no one is running for the Presidency.  If you win or lose a debate it will only be in your own mind.  If you feel you've made a better point, then you've won - simple as that.  You have nothing riding on a debate in this section.  If you decide to attack someone personally in a debate (i.e. you're a fucking (insert race/gender/creed/whatever here)) then you are admitting to that person, and the entire board, that you could not come up with an intelligent response to what you've been challenged with.  You've taken the easy way out, and in doing so have lost the debate.
Can you guys not keep your squabbling out of one single thread ffs........... agree to disagree and move on.
ozghost
Mr piss EVERYONE off
+48|6939|Kangarooland

Spumantiii wrote:

hey a sticky, and a good one at that
Well Done.  Not overly long, too the point, easy to read.

Cheers to you.
TehSeraphim
Thread Ender
+58|6952|New Hampshire
Lol - I find it kinda comical that even though I outlined a section about not personally attacking people, it still shows up.

I also kinda find it a little humorous that I got -1'd for this with "no one cares" being the reason.  Children should not be privvy tot he karma system rofl.
Xietsu
Banned
+50|6785
Tch, personal attacks can be the focus of debate at many times (that of which can be quite an enlightening experience).
kr@cker
Bringin' Sexy Back!
+581|6778|Southeastern USA
UNDERWEARSAUCE
unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+2,053|7000|PNW

Might I also point out that poking fun at someone else's grammar and historical knowledge as a point of debate has only a fraction of the impact as it would if your own were impeccable.
Bubbalo
The Lizzard
+541|6790
Unless they've just called you an idiot...................

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